Women in the city can definitely live their Sex and the City dreams if they’re attractive
I don’t think women ever have a shortage of dikk but the problem, particularly in NYC, is trying to foster a meaningful, monogamous relationship in a city with multiple options and distractions combined with the fact that everyone is career-focused / me-focused.
From a ratio perspective, NYC is disadvantageous to women so you have a city with a lot of women (many who are attractive and successful in their own right) competing for smaller group of “high status” men who know they hold the cards
I’ll put it like this (case study style)
I share a personal trainer with the Wilhelmina / Elite models (real runway, campaign models, not IG girls) and they complain about the dating dynamics / competition. Sure they operate in social circles with successful men but it’s another thing to be more than a fukk buddy