Whats the biggest reason why your single?

[Alvin]

You gotta tell me how they don’t care lol

He just be upfront with them and they cool with it?

He a real young nikka?

yep, the women are brain dead but regardless they cool with it
he's 26

 

[JQ Legend]

I feel like whenever I used to go to NYC, to visit my sis, from the time I got off the train to arrive all the way up until it was time to leave, men used to be so thirsty. Like so thirsty. If anything, NYC, seems like the best place for attractive women to have an endless roster of men to fukk.

@Alvin come down south. Charlotte, Atlanta, Houston--attractive BW. And I know a lot of BW that are looking to settle down out here.

Whenever I see brehs posting about how they're eating in NYC I just make the

Way more thirsty dudes than females.

And this a city where people complain bout 100k/yr not being enough so you'd have to be damn near a millionaire to attract gold diggers

Yea if u willing to smash any and everything u can eat and I'm sure there are some brehs eating, these bad chicks are getting fukked by someone. But that someone is usually someone who got it and don't mind tricking.

Most brehs (as in 95%+) in NY are not just bagging a bad or even decent looking chick on a random train ride or walk down the street. Or even random night in the club for that matter.

 

[luciddreamer]

 

[The Fade]

Live too far from the city

All the decent looking to dime looking girls taken

 

[JamilALAmin]

I feel like whenever I used to go to NYC, to visit my sis, from the time I got off the train to arrive all the way up until it was time to leave, men used to be so thirsty. Like so thirsty. If anything, NYC, seems like the best place for attractive women to have an endless roster of men to fukk.

@Alvin come down south. Charlotte, Atlanta, Houston--attractive BW. And I know a lot of BW that are looking to settle down out here.

Charlotte got way more chicks who ready to settle down than Atlanta does. Charlotte is a coupled up town, and the folks who not at that point trying to get there real fast. Atlanta is a town that women who are smart and are looking to settle down either just straight up get the fukk out of, or if they stay they jaded as fukk, and if they not jaded, they don’t really give a fukk and they getting it how they live. I don’t know too many smart sisters who was single at that late 20’s/early 30’s stage that stayed in the A if they looking to settle down. Charlotte is actually a spot a lot of them go to, along with DC and to a lesser extent Nashville. Lot of folks talk about people moving to the A, but what you don’t hear about are the people who be itching to get the fukk out of here. The sisters who tired of dealing with the bullshyt. I think most smart women know they fighting an uphill battle with trying to corral a man here who actually trying to be faithful. I love my city to the end but I tell my sisters here all the time, this ain’t the place for you if you looking for that nuclear family life, us dudes got the upper hand here and we know it.

 

[tater]

I'm just not in that head space right now. It doesn't seem like it will come anytime soon and when (if ever) it does it may be too late

 

[Lucky_Lefty]

Charlotte got way more chicks who ready to settle down than Atlanta does.

Been saying this for a grip. ATL got quantity but the quality in Charlotte is so underrated. If DC or Dallas wasnt in my future, I'd strongly consider moving there

 

[The Fade]

Also like to add.. all the quality chicks chasing Boule life


Thats like the antithesis of my being

 

[EndDomination]

I'm dating more than one woman right now, trying to figure which will be my girl, I guess.

Some fukked up long-term relationships have legitimately taken the wind out of my sails, so to speak.
I don't feel like putting in the time and effort I should be.
I don't even know what I want out of a relationship at this point other than consistent sex.
I have too many friends who fill that companionship void, in a sense.

 

[Kwabena]

My autism

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

I'm dating more than one woman right now, trying to figure which will be my girl, I guess.

Some fukked up long-term relationships have legitimately taken the wind out of my sails, so to speak.
I don't feel like putting in the time and effort I should be.
I don't even know what I want out of a relationship at this point other than consistent sex.

Damn this was my whole entire life until February and just decided to chill out completely and do my Solo tip.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Charlotte got way more chicks who ready to settle down than Atlanta does. Charlotte is a coupled up town, and the folks who not at that point trying to get there real fast. Atlanta is a town that women who are smart and are looking to settle down either just straight up get the fukk out of, or if they stay they jaded as fukk, and if they not jaded, they don’t really give a fukk and they getting it how they live. I don’t know too many smart sisters who was single at that late 20’s/early 30’s stage that stayed in the A if they looking to settle down. Charlotte is actually a spot a lot of them go to, along with DC and to a lesser extent Nashville. Lot of folks talk about people moving to the A, but what you don’t hear about are the people who be itching to get the fukk out of here. The sisters who tired of dealing with the bullshyt. I think most smart women know they fighting an uphill battle with trying to corral a man here who actually trying to be faithful. I love my city to the end but I tell my sisters here all the time, this ain’t the place for you if you looking for that nuclear family life, us dudes got the upper hand here and we know it.

Charlotte does have a lot of females willing to settle down. In my women's group and from the women I speak with, a lot of them are ready to settle down, but haven't found a man to settle down with. All of them have said there isn't enough educated men, or men that make enough money(compared to what they make). They aren't impressed with the quality of men. For me the quality has been fine, but I guess it's a to each your own situation. Your not the first one to say it's a coupling "city" some other breh on here said it too. I don't see a lot of the single women I know that actually are putting themselves out there, doing well with men though. OAN, I have a friend who moved from Atlanta out here to Charlotte, and she feels like dating in Atlanta was better. She said the men looked better in Atlanta, and she went on better dates, lol. She doesn't feel like Charlotte is on par with Atlana, and didn't struggle with dating/relationships in Atlanta. So I feel like just like with everything, everyone's reporting a different experience... I don't feel like the dating situation is any worse or better than any other city I've been in(I've lived in the midwest and east coast and another southern city), except that I've met more women out here that are single that don't want to be, than in other cities I've been in. There are a lot of childless BW I know out here that are single and don't want to be, so yeah I tell brehs to come down here, to wife these types up, lol.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Whenever I see brehs posting about how they're eating in NYC I just make the

Way more thirsty dudes than females.

And this a city where people complain bout 100k/yr not being enough so you'd have to be damn near a millionaire to attract gold diggers

Yea if u willing to smash any and everything u can eat and I'm sure there are some brehs eating, these bad chicks are getting fukked by someone. But that someone is usually someone who got it and don't mind tricking.

Most brehs (as in 95%+) in NY are not just bagging a bad or even decent looking chick on a random train ride or walk down the street. Or even random night in the club for that matter.

Yeah, I felt like a lot of thirsty brehs were coming at me, and it was on a different level of thirst... I can't explain it, but I got the feeling that the dating scene is more favorable to women, not necessarily as far as relationship goes but just with fukking.

 

[Serious]

I was just having this convo with someone yesterday. I was telling breh that no matter how much you like a woman you're dating you can't be too available for her or she won't value you. It's a shame that you can't just text a woman right back or talk to her on the phone for a long time but if you do she'll think you don't have shyt else to do and she won't value you if you give her the time she wants.


Women are crazy as shyt and logically it makes no sense but they're built how they're built, if a woman calls you today and asks if you're free to hangout and you say yeah she'll think you have no social life and will think why is she spending time with someone nobody else wants to be with.

But then when you're busy claim, you never make time for them. Well i learned through trial and error, purse first.

If she dips, then let her dip.

 

[UberEatsDriver]

At this point I want a wifey. So I’m more picky than ever except when it’s just sexual.