AyBrehHam Linkin
First Black Brehsident
i feel most a peace alone tbh. crazy how i coulda been settled n cuffed someone but i can wait
Hmmm, interesting. I had all types of attractive men trying to get with me in NYC, when I was looking quite basic, as far as not wearing make up, and dressed like shyt. I was with my little son too. It wasn't strange for me, because it happens if other cities that I've lived in. But, I felt like, their was a thirstiness to these men that felt a little "off". As I said, it seems like a good city if you ain't on shyt but dikk. But, forging meaningful relationships is another thing. Interestingly enough, I find that in every city, you have different people that have different insight on dating there. I've heard from a few people I know that lived in NYC that women held the cards in NYC. But you say men do. On the other hand, I have a friend who lived in Atlanta, and you know how people are always saying that Atlanta would be a difficult dating city for BW... Well this friend had great dating experiences in Atlanta. She's average looking, FYI. On the other hand, I know women who had an incredibly difficult time dating in Atlanta. Just goes to show, we all can have a variety of different dating experiences.
There are so many attractive men in NYC. I would have all types of babies living there...geez.![]()

Real shytI can relate to how some of the guys on here talk about social anxiety and not being able to close with women. I used to have a problem with that until I basically just said fukk it and started being more comfortable with myself and getting out of my own head. Not even on any narcissistic shyt, I haven't really had a problem getting girls since I was like 12. I'm charming and funny but lack of confidence at times will make you not realize your strengths and how attractive they are to other people so you don't use them.
Also it's a curse being an introverted people person.
I like spending time by myself
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) but Henry Rollins explained the shyt perfectlyI don’t know one woman in Atlanta that has it Easy dating and the ones I know who are married were already married before they moved to the A.
I’m even hearing at this point some black women in the A are accepting dating bisexual men.
But this Jamaican chick from Atlanta I’m trying to smash told me this herself!
Yep my time anywhere near ATL is done

I no longer have faith in women as whole. I’m a introvert and don’t like to talk near as much and I think a lot. The way I carry myself I try to move in peace and positivity. I don’t like the current state of women out here and how they move.
That and I can be honest and say many women don’t know nor care what a man goes threw as far as his mental health. I’m seeing this amongst all races of men in society. Sometimes I think is the problem me...or the society a lil too sick for me to Participate in.

you dont like women and its ok bro
women do care about a mans mental, youre also forgetting women are programmed to want a "superman" that already has himself together mentally, phiscally and spiritually, its not their fault

Everything in moderation breh. Grind, fukk hos, have some fun. You could die before you hit 30.I enjoy being alone for the most part, but i am friendly with bytches. Im more focused on becoming financially set up for my future. Women can always come later. I see my twenties as a time to grind anyway. I’ll have fun in my 30’s
Thought he was ready, but he’s not and unfortunately I don’t want anyone else. Need to figure this shyt out soon tho
sounds exactly like one woman I'm dealing with now. She was like if it ain't you then fukk it I don't want nobody else. I'm just gonna adopt some kids and call it a day