What’s the one advice you would give to a breh who’s struggling to get p*ssy?

[Neuromancer]

You ever pray for a woman?

 

[Samgoku2]

if you ugly , get yourself an ugly woman.

 

[Ya' Cousin Cleon]

Put yourself in situations where you meet new people especially if they pertain to any hobbies that you have

you live in the DC area

so chances are there's a lot of fitness/running groups/hiking outdoorsy types

when it's warmer, poke your head out and try branching out that way

even if you don't meet any chicks at least your doing something new, expanding your horizons so to speak

I’ve already done what y’all said for 5 years and that still hasn’t gotten me closer to getting women, if anything it made my situation worse cuz I wasn’t actively pursuing any girls.

 

[zerorequiem]

In my opinion, the more you observe and worry about something, the further it gets away from you. Focusing on other things will attract what you really want to you.

 

[Canada Goose]

Don't get too consumed in porn, moderation is key. If you have strong enough willpower, don't watch it at all.


Try to avoid places where women be at in the masses, parks, high traffic pedestrian areas, malls, etc.


I've cut down on porn a lot compared to a few years ago. But I still struggle with the latter in hopes I come across a women with choosing signals. Even my therapist told me not to go the park in the summertime cause it makes me depressed.



My situation is completely hopeless, but I *try* to keep myself busy and think about other things. I've been thinking about seeing a backpage lady but the sex underworld is too confusing for me to navigate, so I shy away from that option..

 

[pawdalaw]

Pay attention. I dont care if you ugly gang. If you look like you take care of yourself and that you have purpose in life women are checking for you. Men mess up the most when they dont know how to read a womans body language.

You miss all of the shots you dont take. Start by giving compliments, and asking names. Say "excuse me" when you pass by a woman at the store... more often than not their response will say "I dont mind you being in my space."

 

[Child_Of_God]

In my opinion, the more you observe and worry about something, the further it gets away from you. Focusing on other things will attract what you really want to you.

That hasn’t worked out for me so far though.

 

[skylove4]

I’ve already done what y’all said for 5 years and that still hasn’t gotten me closer to getting women, if anything it made my situation worse cuz I wasn’t actively pursuing any girls.

What do you honestly think the issue is bruh. Do you think you’re ugly, shy, fat, extreme anxiety etc?

 

[Child_Of_God]

What do you honestly think the issue is bruh. Do you think you’re ugly, shy, fat, extreme anxiety etc?

I’m slim and girls have called me cute before but my main issue is I’m short and I have anxiety.

 

[duncanthetall]

If you’re a shytty person with a shytty personality, do not “be yourself.” Try to be somebody else

 

[NSSVO]

Buy it until you are okay mentally

 

[Carlton Banks]

Buy it until you are okay mentally

This

 

[OG Talk]

if you ugly , get yourself an ugly woman.

I was just about to say to lower your standards.

Women outnumber men on this planet. If you ain’t getting p*ssy, then you just don’t want it.

p*ssy is like oxygen, B...

 

[Child_Of_God]

Buy it until you are okay mentally

I don’t want to pay for sex.

 

[skylove4]

I’m slim and girls have called me cute before but my main issue is I’m short and I have anxiety.

You need Cognitive behavioral therapy. You have to change your negative thought patterns or you will be stuck will this issue forever .