What’s The Point Of Being The Breadwinner in a Relationship

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You don't have to ask as many "permissions" ; you have more say so in decision making. It is what it is don't shoot the messenger :hubie:
 

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Imagine thinking relationships/households where only one person works are gonna be the norm in 2022. My chick is a civil engineer and about to start working for her masters, and I'm about to start my second business.

You clowns and bums stuck in the 90's.
 

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Imagine thinking relationships/households where only one person works are gonna be the norm in 2022. My chick is a civil engineer and about to start working for her masters, and I'm about to start my second business.

You clowns and bums stuck in the 90's.

imagine not knowing the definition of breadwinner and still talking slick :mjlol: good luck with your landscaping business
 

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imagine not knowing the definition of breadwinner and still talking slick :mjlol: good luck with your landscaping business

I'm not caught up on nonsensical terms that are out of date. nikkas like you do and you wonder why the only time you get a text is the phone company to remind you to pay your bill and I'm deep throating my woman on a hotel balcony in Miami with that money from landscaping. Stay broke and lonely, fakkit.
 

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I'm not caught up on nonsensical terms that are out of date. nikkas like you do and you wonder why the only time you get a text is the phone company to remind you to pay your bill and I'm deep throating my woman on a hotel balcony in Miami with that money from landscaping. Stay broke and lonely, fakkit.

So why'd you jump into the thread? to let everyone know your "chick" is a student and you're "about" to start a business. What a flex..enjoy your stay @ the days inn :lolbron:
 

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Being the bread winner affords the man a woman who can focus on being a home maker. She gets to spend more time with the children, rather than sending them to daycare. Traditionally the wife handled all the bills and finances of the household. If home responsibilities are managed appropriately by the couple, it also affords the woman more time to making sure she is attractive and sexually available to him.

That's the way its suppose to work, but does it really?
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So why'd you jump into the thread? to let everyone know your "chick" is a student and you're "about" to start a business. What a flex..enjoy your stay @ the days inn :lolbron:

Typical never left his mama basement babel. You can work as an engineer and still study for your masters. Your father deserved a better son.
 

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I'm not caught up on nonsensical terms that are out of date. nikkas like you do and you wonder why the only time you get a text is the phone company to remind you to pay your bill and I'm deep throating my woman on a hotel balcony in Miami with that money from landscaping. Stay broke and lonely, fakkit.
???:dame:???
 

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Being the bread winner affords the man a woman who can focus on being a home maker. She gets to spend more time with the children, rather than sending them to daycare. Traditionally the wife handled all the bills and finances of the household. If home responsibilities are managed appropriately by the couple, it also affords the woman more time to making sure she is attractive and sexually available to him.

That's the way its suppose to work, but does it really?
:manny:

Unless you get a foreign chick or a highly religious chick then yes. Most western women will only do that for so long stay with the kids. Once they are in school best believe your wife is going to jump at the first opportunity to work if she's not working for you. The days of women in mass numbers being a stay at home mom for the rest of her life is more uncommon then common. Most will do the maternity leave than it's back to work.
 

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My husband pays all the bills but I make as much as he does. It’s a pride thing. So when everything is paid out of his first check, I just pay off our debts with my money or put funds in his account randomly and he had a portion of his second check to play with. Or contribute to our retirement plans. I’m writing a grant for a program so he can retire soon. I’m a bit traumatized by losing family members soon after they retire so I refuse to spend my entire life working only to die or watch my husband do that. We making good right now but after we buy our home and sell it, I’m hoping we can settle down some place cheap and relatively remote and we can be homesteaders.

I don’t see the perks of him being a breadwinner. All I see is my Battlefield 2042 member not being there to squad up with me at home.:mjcry:
I want both of us to be able to work from home.

That’s all I got.
 

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Exactly. Too much ego driven bs. You both should have autonomy and respect and be working towards the same vision for your family unit.
How y’all both breadwinners if one is making more than the other. Call it how it is :dahell:
 
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