What's wrong with having many sexual partners?

[bcrusaderw]

Men approach women in the way society is currently set up. It takes more for a man to bed multiple women than the other way around. And also, women admire qualities that can be found in men that can bed multiple women such as charisma, social skills, and a general air of confidence. Meanwhile, men value women that possess virginal-like qualities and are viewed as prizes. You want to keep the system in place in which women are considered the prize and are pursued? Then deal with the double standards that come from that.


No matter how much people dislike the facts, as long as the current model of dating exists in the West, the double standards will exist. Women seemingly want to have as much sex as possible, be excused from slut shaming, refuse to pursue men, and still want to be courted and treated as prizes. One end cannot exist without the other.

Interesting perspective, but none of the reasons given in this thread for dislike of promiscuity tie into this. I'm also glad that someone is admitting that there are double standards that they like.

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

Why give your body to someone who does not deserve it, that goes for men and women.

I see it as waste of energy and time.

 

[LezJepzin]

Don't see a problem if you're smart about it .

I had a co worker tell me she was seeing four guys but unsure which one out of the four to keep. The dates with all of them went well but she just wants to date one of them exclusively, not be in a relationship (hearing this a lot from females lately)



I told her to give them all a "test drive" to figure it out. I gave her the analogy of her being at the car lot and test driving four cars to see which one she'll lease for a while. When the leasing agreement is up, she can upgrade to buy or trade it in for a new one She literally gave me the when I told her that. No different from us guys.



Ever since I've stopped giving a fukk and giving these broads at my job the honest truth about dating and what I know they really want out of it, they all of a sudden wanna talk to me more about it


I have a decorated sexual past but I looked out for myself doing so . Who am I to judge about a woman's sexual past as long as it's not broadcasted and she wasn't reckless about it?

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Ask your mother.​

 

[Dirty_Jerz]

Don't feel like searching right now but there is literally a connection between two people who have had sex mentally, on a chemical level and physically..there have been threads about it before on here. Like everything else, moderation is probably the best way to go about it.

 

[PartyHeart]

Men approach women in the way society is currently set up. It takes more for a man to bed multiple women than the other way around. And also, women admire qualities that can be found in men that can bed multiple women such as charisma, social skills, and a general air of confidence. Meanwhile, men value women that possess virginal-like qualities and are viewed as prizes. You want to keep the system in place in which women are considered the prize and are pursued? Then deal with the double standards that come from that.


No matter how much people dislike the facts, as long as the current model of dating exists in the West, the double standards will exist. Women seemingly want to have as much sex as possible, be excused from slut shaming, refuse to pursue men, and still want to be courted and treated as prizes. One end cannot exist without the other.

Women don't want men with a lot of partners though. That's especially true for women with "virginal-like qualities". Men confuse men having qualities that women like which allows them to sleep with their share of women, with women liking men who sleep with a lot of women. Women will take Idris Elba with 3 partners over Idris Elba the hoe 100% of the time.

And I don't think your double standard explanation is accurate. If it was, men who didn't fulfill their end of the deal wouldn't be applauded. For instance, men who don't court nor treat women like a prize are exalted as 'alphas' by men. The truth is the double standard doesn't exist as some way to benefit men and women mutually at all, its entirely for men and its allowed because this is a sexist society.

 

[Hans Wurst]

the women i met and had sex with that happened to have a lot of partners where selfish,lying and fukked in the head,so i stay away from them when it comes to relationships. but whatever floats your boat,i just move on

 

[DIMES]

breh who the fukks asks this question? some simp prolly

men and women are different biologically

 

[Action Mike]

Interesting perspective, but none of the reasons given in this thread for dislike of promiscuity tie into this. I'm also glad that someone is admitting that there are double standards that they like.

 

[bcrusaderw]

Ask your mother.​

Did my mother ask yours? That's be the only way she knows.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

Nothing wrong with it for a fling, just know that men (with sense) won't usually claim a used up slut-puppet when it comes to choosing.


*cliche key vs lock analogy*



We don't care what the standard is for men because we aren't dating men

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

"A key that can open many locks is called a master key, but a lock that can be opened by many keys is a shytty lock."

Sorry, ladies. Dat's just how it is whether you choose to agree or not.

*edit* @TooLazyToMakeUp1 didn't see ya post before I dropped mines.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Did my mother ask yours? That's be the only way she knows.

You missed the point and are catching feelings.

Ask your mother how many sexual partners she had.

If you feel some type of way about asking her, that should answer your question.​

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

So, women should be ok with men who have had many partners? Also, the question wasn't gender specific.

If women wanted to care more they would. Y'all talk tough, but guys that bed alot of women never sit around asking why can't women forget my past because they rarely run into quality women that won't settle into a serious relationship with him if he chose to go that route

 

[ndthentherewasx]

I think it's gross. & I think that people with more sex partners will be more likely to cheat and there will be no emotional connection during sex because they are so used to having sex with any/everything without it.

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