What's wrong with having many sexual partners?

[Sk3ptical]

 

[mamba]

So, women should be ok with men who have had many partners? Also, the question wasn't gender specific.

Women covet men who have many partners.

 

[mamba]

Men approach women in the way society is currently set up. It takes more for a man to bed multiple women than the other way around. And also, women admire qualities that can be found in men that can bed multiple women such as charisma, social skills, and a general air of confidence. Meanwhile, men value women that possess virginal-like qualities and are viewed as prizes. You want to keep the system in place in which women are considered the prize and are pursued? Then deal with the double standards that come from that.


No matter how much people dislike the facts, as long as the current model of dating exists in the West, the double standards will exist. Women seemingly want to have as much sex as possible, be excused from slut shaming, refuse to pursue men, and still want to be courted and treated as prizes. One end cannot exist without the other.

Excellent post, breh. These chicks are delusional.

 

[Will Ross]

Women don't want men with a lot of partners though. That's especially true for women with "virginal-like qualities". Men confuse men having qualities that women like which allows them to sleep with their share of women, with women liking men who sleep with a lot of women. Women will take Idris Elba with 3 partners over Idris Elba the hoe 100% of the time.

And I don't think your double standard explanation is accurate. If it was, men who didn't fulfill their end of the deal wouldn't be applauded. For instance, men who don't court nor treat women like a prize are exalted as 'alphas' by men. The truth is the double standard doesn't exist as some way to benefit men and women mutually at all, its entirely for men and its allowed because this is a sexist society.

Bullshyt

 

[The Mad Titan]

Because as natural as people want to try and make it out to seem it isn't. Add to that the risk of running into STD and pregnancy's even with all kind of protection used, its just not whats suppose to go down.


Whats natural is to do what feels good, and sex feels good. It's natural to want what you like, and people you find attractive you want sex is the ultimate acquisition (or tagging) of a person for men and for women is the ultimate form of submission. Women don't like to think of it like that, but everything about sex is for a women is generally in the submissive realm, even those that like to dominate in the bed room when it comes down to it and time for the act, you are still getting f*kked no matter how you are working it.

Its natural to have one person and want to be with that one person only... Its also natural to fin other people attractive while in that relationship. So having a bunch of sexual partners is going to get old at some point, very old and it will leave a man feeling incomplete and a women soulless and used up

 

[MikelArteta]

Sexual soul ties

 

[wet landscapes]

some of you guys sound like such opportunistic sluts
being locks and shyt

 

[concise]

people use the risk of std as a reason
but that never seemed like a good explanation
there are also risks of NOT having sex
maybe someone should do a publicity campaign about that??

Yes.
Make that thread.

 

[christinasade]

I think the idea for this thread should be changed. To some people of an old mentality, having many sexual partners is simply "wrong" and that's the end of the discussion. To people of more modern thinking who have a problem with high body counts, it comes from something less black and white than it simply being "wrong." If a person has a preference to be with someone who lives life at a slower pace, that is a valid reason. Sure, a person could set this standard and wind up missing out on a person with a high body count that might have instantly clicked with them. If guys or girls are of low body count and want the same, they simply want a person to be a reflection of who they are/what they represent. A person could have this standard without making fire and brimstone speeches and looking down on people with high body counts. Life has many lanes - get in where you fit in. If the high body count is simply not your culture, how you were brought up, not the pace you live life at and not reflective of your beliefs of love, it's simply not you. A high body count is for many people and they'll attract people who are like themselves to them. The way you live your life gives you a certain swag, presence, energy and vibration. If somebody just doesn't like whatever the high body count person brings to the table, it is what it is. Relationships are all about building. That's where values matter because you might not want to build something (life, family, and so forth) with a person of a vastly different value system and way of living in the world.

What I dont understand is how people who fukk alot can talk all that shyt then when they catch

something or somebody gets pregnant they wanna act shocked and upset.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

I do not see an issue if a person is honest and forthcoming. Do not front like she's a saint then loving that life. That's what I have an issue with.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

I don't care what you do with your body but if I know you've been around the block, is that going to entice me to be the one who you settle down with? It depends. It makes me question if you are able to commit to one person.

I realize that a woman having many sexual partners does not mean she will not be loyal in a relationship but it's still something to consider. Keep in mind, I don't want a woman with very limited experience either because they are the type to feel like they are "missing out"

In a perfect world you want someone who is loyal but experienced enough to know what is out there and what they want.

 

[Buckeye Fever]

@CrimsonTider

 

[Medicate]

Don't feel like searching right now but there is literally a connection between two people who have had sex mentally, on a chemical level and physically..there have been threads about it before on here. Like everything else, moderation is probably the best way to go about it.

I dropped it already, but the they didn't want to hear it........

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/sperm-wars-what-happens-when-females-play-the-game.279042/

http://thyblackman.com/2012/12/20/sperm-wars-what-happens-when-females-play-the-game/

 

[Blackout]

i never saw any problem with having lots of sexual partners
it's not like i am in danger of running out of body fluids

people use the risk of std as a reason
but that never seemed like a good explanation
there are also risks of NOT having sex
maybe someone should do a publicity campaign about that??
same with risk of knowing people, reputation, etc.
as an example??
it is like saying "walking across the street is risky"
yeah, welp, sitting inside an apartment has risks of its own (radon, mold, etc.)
you can't just pretend those inside risks don't exist

You can have sex with one person.

 

[Mowgli]

I already know to expect your "hoe, thot, whore" posts and silly gifs, but after that please answer objectively what's wrong with having a lot of sexual partners.

Edit: So the general consensus is that it's wrong for various reasons, so where are the words like thot, whore, hoe, etc. for men?

Statistically, youre eventually going to get burnt.

Now when the man you fukk has herpes on his balls and he tells you

Whats wrong with a little std every now and then. Its only herpes.

What are you gonna say?