I think the idea for this thread should be changed. To some people of an old mentality, having many sexual partners is simply "wrong" and that's the end of the discussion. To people of more modern thinking who have a problem with high body counts, it comes from something less black and white than it simply being "wrong." If a person has a preference to be with someone who lives life at a slower pace, that is a valid reason. Sure, a person could set this standard and wind up missing out on a person with a high body count that might have instantly clicked with them. If guys or girls are of low body count and want the same, they simply want a person to be a reflection of who they are/what they represent. A person could have this standard without making fire and brimstone speeches and looking down on people with high body counts. Life has many lanes - get in where you fit in. If the high body count is simply not your culture, how you were brought up, not the pace you live life at and not reflective of your beliefs of love, it's simply not you. A high body count is for many people and they'll attract people who are like themselves to them. The way you live your life gives you a certain swag, presence, energy and vibration. If somebody just doesn't like whatever the high body count person brings to the table, it is what it is. Relationships are all about building. That's where values matter because you might not want to build something (life, family, and so forth) with a person of a vastly different value system and way of living in the world.
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