When a B*tch Gives You The Number Then Proceeds to Ignore You Unappreciation Thread

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Care to elaborate the bold.



Depends on the age and mentality of the individuals involved. Telling by 95% of the responses in this thread most of the men truly don't know what to say, that's why they're being ignored.



Absolutely disagree with the bold.

The rest of your statements has some form of merit but doesn't fit the premise of this thread because the men are having difficultly getting women they're interested in to return something as miniscule as a phone call/text.

If I initially meet a guy, we exchange numbers and converse. He knows nothing about me, I know nothing about him, therefore nothing can be censored. Allow me to elaborate with an example.

Outside of the normal formalities of "how was our day", yada, yada, yada, we HAVE to converse. Let's say I bring up the story about the pastor spreading HIV to members in his congregation; which can lead to several conversations in regards to infidelity, religion, sexual orientation, marriage, etc. (Keep in mind we just exchanged numbers & this one conversation can turn me off to the point that I'd rather not be bothered).

Unbeknownst to you (we just meet) I have a gay uncle who is HIV positive, but you just went on a rampage about homosexuals being disgusting and your fear of individuals who are infected with HIV.

Unbeknownst to you my parents recently got divorced and it's effecting me deeply, but you just made a comment on how men can't be monogamous and your views against marriage.

Unbeknownst to you I'm an agnostic and abhor organized religion, but you're a die hard Christian and feel the need to make up excuses and defend the pastors behavior.

When you have little to no information about the individual you're conversing with it's impossible to "know what they want to hear" or portray yourself to be something that you're not. Had you known the female you were interested in had a gay uncle, her parents were recently divorced and she wasn't religious, yeah you could have been more tactful with your responses.

It takes time for one to become privy to aspects of an individuals life. So once again, what you say can be used against you and make a female lose interest.
A lot of who you are isn't conscious its at a subconscious level. Your conscious mind engages in self deception and rationalization to justify things your subconscious mind has you do. Consciously you idealize about yourself but your subconscious mind doesn't have to make sense of the things you do.

this is why people who know you can tell you things you do that you might not even notice. Also your conscious mind has to be made aware of something before it can even notice it. Like a friend may get a car you previously never noticed then all of a sudden you see them everywhere but before the friend got it they were still everywhere just went unnoticed.
 

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Men fail to realize in the beginning aka getting to know you process, you have ONE chance to say/do something a female dislikes and you will be cut off with the quickness.


:stopitslime:

if a bytch deems u as someone of value she gonna put up with extra shyt, like it or not

that bytch just wasnt feeling u like that homey....fukk her
 

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A lot of who you are isn't conscious its at a subconscious level. Your conscious mind engages in self deception and rationalization to justify things your subconscious mind has you do. Consciously you idealize about yourself but your subconscious mind doesn't have to make sense of the things you do.

this is why people who know you can tell you things you do that you might not even notice. Also your conscious mind has to be made aware of something before it can even notice it. Like a friend may get a car you previously never noticed then all of a sudden you see them everywhere but before the friend got it they were still everywhere just went unnoticed.

:huh:

In regards to your first statement: are you indicating we're strangers to ourselves? If so, I disagree. (This statement may ring true for individuals who lack knowledge of self).

In regards to your second statement, I agree we can be blind to our mannerisms and how we project ourselves to others.

Life is about evolving & growth. We'll forever be exposed to new ideas, information & experiences which allows us to see clearly or notice what we never paid attention to. Has nothing to do with an individual knowing you more than you know yourself, IMO.
 

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Going through something similar now.

Met this girl 2 weeks ago, through a friend's friend. Anyways we were chilling/talking, my homie fulfilled his wingman duties & gave shorty my stats :myman:. End of the night, asked for the number, got it, :yes:

Hit her up 2 days later, convo didn't get past 3 exchanges :dwillhuh: Hit her up 2 days later after that find out shorty was sick, etc. the "convos" have been no longer than 3 or exchanges and she takes mad long to respond. I haven't hit her up since Tuesday and don't plan on it until she texts me first or for another few days.

I understand people are busy, cause I'm busy too, but that type of shyt is annoying to me. Just hit me with I'm busy text or something similar & i'm good. I feel like ignoring someone's text is a form of disrespect.
 

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Outside of the normal formalities of "how was our day", yada, yada, yada, we HAVE to converse. Let's say I bring up the story about the pastor spreading HIV to members in his congregation; which can lead to several conversations in regards to infidelity, religion, sexual orientation, marriage, etc. (Keep in mind we just exchanged numbers & this one conversation can turn me off to the point that I'd rather not be bothered).

Unbeknownst to you (we just meet) I have a gay uncle who is HIV positive, but you just went on a rampage about homosexuals being disgusting and your fear of individuals who are infected with HIV

:why:


The fukk are you talking about.

Quick show of hands: How many people discussed religion, sexual orientation, politics etc with the chicks who they texted yet never got a reply from?

I'd bet on 0.....because them hoes never responded for a conversation to go that far.:ohhh:

Furthermore if your getting to know you process is just screening a nikka to agree and sympathize with a bunch of your pet peeves that you ADMIT he has no idea about :usure:..... you probably did him a favor by not replying, good chance it aint worth the effort.
 

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:huh:

In regards to your first statement: are you indicating we're strangers to ourselves? If so, I disagree. (This statement may ring true for individuals who lack knowledge of self).

In regards to your second statement, I agree we can be blind to our mannerisms and how we project ourselves to others.

Life is about evolving & growth. We'll forever be exposed to new ideas, information & experiences which allows us to see clearly or notice what we never paid attention to. Has nothing to do with an individual knowing you more than you know yourself, IMO.
I'm saying you may think you know yourself better than you do because you're a biased judge observing yourself from the first person. It's like your eyes have a blind spot but your mind plays a trick on you so you don't notice.

I guess my point is you don't know yourself as well as you may think you do because you don't have to live with yourself you are yourself. Some people if they had to live with a person just like themselves they would hate it.
 

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Ignoring or going days without communication? She just not into you. Unless it was someone I was really really REALLY feeling, I would be on to the next, who has time for that? Come on guys what does it mean if you were to do the same thing to a woman? Your answer lies there.
 

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The fukk are you talking about.

Quick show of hands: How many people discussed religion, sexual orientation, politics etc with the chicks who they texted yet never got a reply from?

I'd bet on 0.....because them hoes never responded for a conversation to go that far.:ohhh:

Furthermore if your getting to know you process is just screening a nikka to agree and sympathize with a bunch of your pet peeves that you ADMIT he has no idea about :usure:..... you probably did him a favor by not replying, good chance it aint worth the effort.

:beli:

WTF do you converse about then? Besides asking/telling a female: Good morning/afternoon/night.... How is your day? What are you doing?

If your conversation is limited to formalities no wonder most of you are being ignored :scusthov:
 

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Going through something similar now.

Met this girl 2 weeks ago, through a friend's friend. Anyways we were chilling/talking, my homie fulfilled his wingman duties & gave shorty my stats :myman:. End of the night, asked for the number, got it, :yes:

Hit her up 2 days later, convo didn't get past 3 exchanges :dwillhuh: Hit her up 2 days later after that find out shorty was sick, etc. the "convos" have been no longer than 3 or exchanges and she takes mad long to respond. I haven't hit her up since Tuesday and don't plan on it until she texts me first or for another few days.

I understand people are busy, cause I'm busy too, but that type of shyt is annoying to me. Just hit me with I'm busy text or something similar & i'm good. I feel like ignoring someone's text is a form of disrespect.

Sensitive thugs, y'all need hugs. :to: If you asked for it, it's not disrespect. What's up this all these "How to get a girl 101" threads? :what: You got 10 year olds out there givin' head, these days, sex is nothin', 90% of these girls be hoes. It's harder to find a decent girl holdin' it down, then it is to find a hoe to bust it open for you. F*ck is wrong with you nikkaz. :snoop: Be about you, b*tches should be turned on by your presence, demeanor. Get in shape, get an education, get a f*ckin' hobby. I'm startin' to understand all this "simpin" convo, it comes from this b*tchazz mentality. F*ck man, it's just p*zzy, y'all sound like you're trying to decipher a treasure map or some sh*t. :heh:
 

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if a bytch deems u as someone of value she gonna put up with extra shyt, like it or not

that bytch just wasnt feeling u like that homey....fukk her

this is hard to accept but this is the truth. you know, there are just so many advices out there that one can follow when it comes to women. but the best advice is really the simplest advice.

if u find a woman attractive and u wanna spit game to her, first understand that u aint the only one who finds her attractive, and like u are about to do, many have already spit game to her in the past.

so my advice is, if u wanna holla, dont holler from the angle of a guy trying to win favor in her eyes. talk from the angle of someone who is superior to her.

how u go about doing this is a science only the true masters have perfected.

for example, u pull into a public place in a bentley. everyone sees u. a girl catches ur eye. she too, like everyone else, saw u pull up in this bentley. u walk up to her to talk. ask urself, before u utter anything, who's doing who a favor here? her or u? she has something every other girl in the world has. u on the other hand have something only 1% of the world has.

the bentley is just an example. the attitude with which u holla at a chick (if u actually owned a bentley) is the same attitude with which u should holler at every girl. just dont tell them "yeah i'm superior to you....i drive a bentley". there are numerous ways in which to say things without actually openning your mouth. mannerisms speak volumes.

be wise my friends.
 

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WTF do you converse about then? Besides asking/telling a female: Good morning/afternoon/night.... How is your day? What are you doing?

If your conversation is limited to formalities no wonder most of you are being ignored :scusthov:

Typical female thought process. One extreme to another, no middle ground of course.

But to answer your question, if I'm not discussing gay marriage or quantum physics then I'm usually just staring at her ass and reminding her my favorite color is blue.
 

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Typical female thought process. One extreme to another, no middle ground of course.

But to answer your question, if I'm not discussing gay marriage or quantum physics then I'm usually just staring at her ass and reminding her my favorite color is blue.

:laugh:

What's the middle ground?

Hell, you & a female can converse about Love & Hip Hop Atlanta. You can make a simple comment about Stevie J and a female will interpret it as you idolizing a misogynist and she'll be turned off........... :manny:
 

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:heh: Do you bag dimes before or after you watch TNA and WWE?

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Tired of these fake azz nikkas man :pacspit:

after breh, what you know about getting your dikk sucked while playing PS3?

:sitdown:
 

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People play so much stupid unnecessary games nowadays you damn near need to take a University course just to educate yourself in order to get around a lot of the nonsense.

When you get to a certain age you realise this is just bullshyt for the most part.

I don't have the time or the desire to be playing games with women for any reason. I'm personally not that fussed about having this one and that one's number. If or when the right one for me comes along, it will happen one way or another. I'm not desperate.

It's just that people these days can't seem to go along with the flow with individuals and a result everybody's afraid of their own shadow and tip toeing like they're walking along a tightrope. I agree with whoever said you just need to engage in normal conversation and take it from there.
 

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:laugh:

What's the middle ground?

Hell, you & a female can converse about Love & Hip Hop Atlanta. You can make a simple comment about Stevie J and a female will interpret it as you idolizing a misogynist and she'll be turned off........... :manny:

If that's the case she can fukk off.

This is what I mean by not worth the effort. Too much females in the world to be trying to tip toe through a conversation. fukk I look like thinking to my self "Oh shyt her bottom lip moved when I said Wheat Thins!:ufdup: Did I put too much emphasis on the W?"

Nah nikka. I'm gonna laugh at kids gettin they sandcastles kicked over, call dolphins "a whale's gay cousin" and yell really loudly when I'm watching football. Cause I'm a man. It don't matter what she think
 
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