When A Single Mother Says My Children Always Come First...

[CouldntBeMeTho]

What are the first thoughts that come to your mind? I can't help but cringe a lil. I feel like if your kids really come first, then why did you raise them as b*stards out of wedlock?

Can you really date a woman like that... Knowing that there will always be more important priorities in her life? Or is that a selfish attitude?

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

@Emperor_ReinScarf i'd like to hear your opinion on this one

 

[PinotNoir]

You don't know the circumstances behind a person being a single parent. Their spouse could've died I mean it could be anything, not always "the obvious". I really don't get why some of you have a problem with a woman saying her kids come first, what else is she supposed to say. A lot of times it's bad wording when that phrase is thrown out there, I take it to mean "I'm not just out here dating or what have you, I'm also raising a family and my time is limited at times". I think it's good too because she's also allowing you into her life. Everything don't have to be so black and white.

 

[wickedsm]

so its better to date a woman with kids who says "well fukk these little people that i chose to bring into the world. Right now its all about you and your peen Mr Handsome man!"


hate to tell yall but married moms are all about their children too.

 

[aXiom]

What are the first thoughts that come to your mind? I can't help but cringe a lil. I feel like if your kids really come first, then why did you raise them as b*stards out of wedlock?

Can you really date a woman like that... Knowing that there will always be more important priorities in her life? Or is that a selfish attitude?

So you expect her to put you before her kids

Some of you are confused.. If she's single mother she's worthless, but if she don't put you before her kids she's selfish

How old are you, 13?

 

[MikelArteta]

What are the first thoughts that come to your mind? I can't help but cringe a lil. I feel like if your kids really come first, then why did you raise them as b*stards out of wedlock?

Can you really date a woman like that... Knowing that there will always be more important priorities in her life? Or is that a selfish attitude?

ish is just part of the single mom template to sell "herself". Their kids come first yet their on dating sites , their kids come first yet men are coming in and out of their lives , their kids come first yet the highest molestation rate is between a bf/step dad and his gf/wife kids. Their kids come first yet they didn't think of choosing a reliable partner when they spread their legs

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

So you expect her to put you before her kids

Some of you are confused.. If she's single mother she's worthless, but if she don't put you before her kids she's selfish

How old are you, 13?

its just a question breh, if her kids are so important why is she throwing herself out there like that? the truth is, mommys gotta be happy too, she just says that to feel good about herself being a hoe

 

[BlackManLiveFromLondon]

Can you really date a woman like that... Knowing that there will always be more important priorities in her life? Or is that a selfish attitude?

Why would you think of dating another mans saved game in the first place?:mcgeescust:

 

[At30wecashout]

My children come first is code for "Find you someone without kids. Run fast!"

Top goal is to avoid single mothers at all costs.

 

[agnosticlady]

Honestly whenever I hear a single mother say that half that time I rarely believe her. Let your actions show that your kids are important. I don't get why you would tell someone who you are dating that.
The only way I see myself getting with a single father is if the kid is over 7, all of his ducks are in a row, and the mother of his child is in her own world.

 

[PinotNoir]

ish is just part of the single mom template to sell "herself". Their kids come first yet their on dating sites , their kids come first yet men are coming in and out of their lives , their kids come first yet the highest molestation rate is between a bf/step dad and his gf/wife kids. Their kids come first yet they didn't think of choosing a reliable partner when they spread their legs

It's a damned if she do, damned if she don't.

 

[aXiom]

its just a question breh, if her kids are so important why is she throwing herself out there like that? the truth is, mommys gotta be happy too, she just says that to feel good about herself being a hoe

You said nothing about her being a hoe or throwing herself out there in your original post breh... unless being a single mom = hoe, I expect most single mothers set ground rules with a new dude. Thot or not.. her kids should come first.. so I'm lost as to why you'd have a problem with that.

 

[Danny Up]

I usually laugh because most of the ones talking that shyt don't even spend time with them fukkers.

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

Why would you think of dating another mans saved game in the first place?:mcgeescust:

I don't necesarilly mind kids, just hearing women throw that out there rubs me the wrong way. maybe because so many women say it.. it just seems like some cliché bs

 

[Gimini00]

What are the first thoughts that come to your mind? I can't help but cringe a lil. I feel like if your kids really come first, then why did you raise them as b*stards out of wedlock?

Can you really date a woman like that... Knowing that there will always be more important priorities in her life? Or is that a selfish attitude?

You and the child don't play for the same division breh, you're playing in the p*ssy division, and the child play in the tities division, so there's no competition here. The child can be number one in his division and you can number one in your division.