When A Single Mother Says My Children Always Come First...

agnosticlady

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It's a damned if she do, damned if she don't.

Nah he's saying that actions should match words. There is a good amount of single mothers saying their kids come first but have no problem giving their kid a new aunt/uncle every week. Some of these mothers have their kids up on dating sites. Some of these mothers haven't even accepted the fact that they willingly got pregnant by the wrong guy and gave their child a terrible father.
 

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Nah he's saying that actions should match words. There is a good amount of single mothers saying their kids come first but have no problem giving their kid a new aunt/uncle every week. Some of these mothers have their kids up on dating sites. Some of these mothers haven't even accepted the fact that they willingly got pregnant by the wrong guy and gave their child a terrible father.

Is he saying ALL single mothers are this way or some because "their" is used instead of "some". The problem is generalizing single moms. I know some great single mothers who don't have men running in and out their homes, up on dating sites. doing drugs or whatever. Not all single moms are the same and to some on here, single mothers carry a scarlet letter. To each his own though.
 

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Is he saying ALL single mothers are this way or some because "their" is used instead of "some". The problem is generalizing single moms. I know some great single mothers who don't have men running in and out their homes, up on dating sites. doing drugs or whatever. Not all single moms are the same and to some on here, single mothers carry a scarlet letter. To each his own though.

Not all but a lot of women give their kids terrible fathers. Then they wonder why the father is absent and all this other stuff. If the show does not for do not wear it. There are too many women that hate to be criticized for the stupid decisions that try make.
 

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dont date single moms, I'll put a star at the top if the page for you
 
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What are the first thoughts that come to your mind? I can't help but cringe a lil. I feel like if your kids really come first, then why did you raise them as b*stards out of wedlock? :patrice:

Can you really date a woman like that... Knowing that there will always be more important priorities in her life? Or is that a selfish attitude? :hmm:

I leave her be. :salute:

I wouldn't touch a single mother with a 10 foot pole.
 

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Not all but a lot of women give their kids terrible fathers. Then they wonder why the father is absent and all this other stuff. If the show does not for do not wear it. There are too many women that hate to be criticized for the stupid decisions that try make.
Fair enough
 
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