When a woman says.......

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You’re well versed in things like this
What is she trying to say brehett?

That first response threw me!
I’m in shambles over here
I think @CarmelBarbie had the best explanation.

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Ur chick in question might have really rigid guidelines for what she finds attractive. I don’t think people realize that you can have preferences but attraction can sneak in sometimes whether they fit ur preferences or not.

 

[Ahadi]

She doesn’t like you like that.

You don’t make her tingle.

 

[Nymbus]

Low-key it's a bit condescending to say that to someone. Basically she's telling you that what she prefers wasn't in stock at the moment and you'll have to do for now.

it's an understated feeling but this and women telling me you'd make a good husband someday
be having me tight

 

[Ol’Otis]

I’m in shambles over here

 

[Cape Town JHB]

“You’re not the type I usually go for”

What is she trying to say?

@Boujee Bonita Braxton @Ashley Banks @Rawtid @HarlemHottie @Nicole0416_646NYC @CarmelBarbie help me out brehetts

I date guys that excite that I'm immediately sexually attracted to and wanna breed with.

You don't sexually move the needle for me and don't excite me, but you're doing things the others don't do that I don't wanna walk away from.

So ima keep you around till my attractive big dikk alpha male comes along

The Game is sold not told

 

[Da_Eggman]

Listen to women bruhs

 

[Jazzy B.]

It means exactly what it means.

You are not the woman's normal type.

This is where you then ask the woman what type of men she has previously dated and what her type is.

It could be that you're from a different culture/ethnicity of the men she has dated, your personality is different, you're shorter, from a different class etc

From my experience as long as you meet a woman's physical and looks requirement and "different from my usual type" is not in relation to being different from that then it can work . The women usually find you more interesting/unique and go harder for it to work for some strange reason

 

[Absolut da poet ®]

R U N

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Low-key it's a bit condescending to say that to someone. Basically she's telling you that what she prefers wasn't in stock at the moment and you'll have to do for now.

This is the first thing that comes to my mind. I'm smashin and dashin that broad

 

[Dwolf]

she’s saying she’s a ho but will make you work a little extra for it lmao

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

She's taking a break from the kind of men she usually dates.

Once she's satisfied, she'll break up with you and return to her usual type. Women get sick of dating the same kinds of people after a while and will often either take the time to just be single for a while or switch things up and date someone they don't normally do just for a change of pace. It usually reminds her of what she misses from the men she used to date and she'll return back to them.

Never commit to a woman who would say something like that to you.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

It means you may not have an alibi….

 

[KING WILL]

I can think of few occasions where I said this:
1. I wasn't as attracted to him as wanted to be--he didn't look as good as brehs I've dated, but had a great personality, so I had conflicts on how to proceed with him.
2. He was different from guys I've dated, as far as his personality goes--he was more nerdy/corny then what I was used to so it was a bit of an adjustment.
3. He's someone I wouldn't have normally dated, but gave a chance to because there was something about him that intrigued me.

In every case, but the first one, it was actually a positive for me, because they were so different I was more intrigued/engaged with them-- they introduced me to some new things and experiences which I appreciated and grew to like about them.

I have 1 for you.

A lil while back, I met this woman. A date, or 2 and a few conversations later, 1 night she ups and says:

I am to comfortable in my own world.

What do you think she meant?

 

[JoseLuisGotcha]

Means you ugly gang but she likes your personality but her friends constantly ask her “why you with him?”

 

[Koli_Kat]

Thread has me in tears


They're basically saying you're not her type OP and she's settling for you based on other qualities that may not necessarily be at the top of her priority list