I feel like I get in trouble with chicks and dudes when I talk about stuff like this. Maybe I'm insensitive or I make too many assumptions.
I'll tell dudes the same thing I tell women. Generally women can get married and men can have sex at anytime...depending on how low ur standards are.
All of this is based off choice and pickiness rather than actual droughts. If ur not in a relationship and/or smashin, it's not because there is nobody who'd be willing.
It's usually b/c the people we WANT to smash with are taken or unwilling.
So broaden ur horizons maybe?
Lmao! But that's the last thing anybody wants to hear in these types of discussions. We want that magic bullet that'll make all our preferences prefer us when we want em.