When did you Realize that Contrary to Popular Belief most Males ain't getting Females like that?

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The whole idea of there being levels, or women being out of your league is a complete farce.
One of my good friends tried to imply that my current girl is out of my league looks wise, I just read it as him being upset at himself.
He settled down "at his level" and married an average looking girl. I didn't.
How long have you been friends?
 
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It's an age thing as well. Most 30+ chicks I've encountered aren't looking to date just to date. They are looking for a partner, and it sometime it actually hurts if you have a lot going for yourself, because they see potential and are more motivated to draw the line and communicate their requirements.

I respect it, but it does make it harder to get the draws, if that's not what you are looking for.


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I hear these dudes generalizing chicks like all it takes is a new release on netflix and a totino's pizza to get the drawers.... and right away when I hear that I know they fukking extremely young chicks....
 

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Then he should just be happy for you. 20 years goes into brotherhood territory. Unless she's treating you bad.

I agree. I really think he was just more upset at his own situation more than anything.
I've been sitting back waiting on that midlife crisis to hit him :mjcry:
 

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I feel like I get in trouble with chicks and dudes when I talk about stuff like this. Maybe I'm insensitive or I make too many assumptions.

I'll tell dudes the same thing I tell women. Generally women can get married and men can have sex at anytime...depending on how low ur standards are.

All of this is based off choice and pickiness rather than actual droughts. If ur not in a relationship and/or smashin, it's not because there is nobody who'd be willing.

It's usually b/c the people we WANT to smash with are taken or unwilling.
So broaden ur horizons maybe?

Lmao! But that's the last thing anybody wants to hear in these types of discussions. We want that magic bullet that'll make all our preferences prefer us when we want em.:yeshrug:
 

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nikkas be projecting they personal issues like shyt in these threads
I never had an issue getting p*ssy when I was single and there ain't shyt special about me. And I have friends who even did way more numbers than me, I'm talking smashing at least 1 new chick a week type numbers (during the summer mostly)
Either your standards way too high, (stop basing your life off IG idiot), or you got some kind of social disorder and come across as a weirdo
Otherwise I can't wrap my head around a "normal" guy not being able to smash 3-4 new chicks per year at minimal. All these apps full of single desperate ass black women wtf are y'all nikkas doing :what::mindblown:
See this is what I think too. All the males I interact with are the same way. They are average as hell, but they pull on a daily basis. Some got chicks on standby. Legit showing me texts from thirsty chicks.
But I come here and all of a sudden I'm evil if i ask what these dudes is doing differently.

The major difference I see is the dudes in my circle are comfortable talking to women and they legit like chicks. They trash talk sometimes but it's nowhere near the level some of these dudes on here do.

And here's the kicker: my homeboys aren't even as attractive as some of the dudes here online.
I swear something is up.
 

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she the type of chick be turning her head up at dudes actually on her level waiting for chris brown types to slide thru and give her royalty 1.2 :mjlol:
But what if that's just a defense mechanism. Why are we assuming that guys on her level want her? Women aren't the only ones with nutso preferences. I know A LOT of dudes with unrealistic expectations too.
 

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I've got plenty p*ssy and it isn't important. More to life and time isn't plentiful. To those not grinding heavy and gets no p*ssy... :whew:

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I feel like I get in trouble with chicks and dudes when I talk about stuff like this. Maybe I'm insensitive or I make too many assumptions.

I'll tell dudes the same thing I tell women. Generally women can get married and men can have sex at anytime...depending on how low ur standards are.

All of this is based off choice and pickiness rather than actual droughts. If ur not in a relationship and/or smashin, it's not because there is nobody who'd be willing.

It's usually b/c the people we WANT to smash with are taken or unwilling.
So broaden ur horizons maybe?

Lmao! But that's the last thing anybody wants to hear in these types of discussions. We want that magic bullet that'll make all our preferences prefer us when we want em.:yeshrug:

Truth, but I feel others try to pressure people into believing that it isn't their pickiness that is limiting them. That it's all about confidence, game, swagger, etc.

The reality is some people will have to make some drastic improvements or learn to settle for less than what they have aspired to. It is as simple as that. You aren't entitled to anything, and there has to be a reason why the person you want, would be drawn to you. If may not be looks, but it needs to be something.
 

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I'm not sure what you're saying. I have a girlfriend. This is just troubling to me, cause I prefer folks to win.
What did u do differently that some other posters? I can already tell u some obvious differences.
You and a lot of the posters who are legit telling people it's not hard have a different energy than those complaining.

But I'm just gon read the responses.
 
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