Love nice guys. If nice= calm, sweet, funny, not pressed, romantic.
If pseudo nice= actually not nice, looking for an excuse as to why I don't get the same opportunities to shyt on good looking women as other dudes do, entitled, "look bytch don't u see how nice I am, if u don't choose me I hope u die alone", "fukk u, ur opinion doesn't matter because ur not who I want anyway", chase after bytches that ruin them and wanna take it out on the rest of the unwitting females in the world, really I'm actually an a$$hole but don't have the social skills to attract better so I'm just bitter pretending to be nice, actually hates women...
Then Imma pass on that. Like most things in life, Nice people rarely have to claim niceness. Also niceness isn't a primary attractor between men and women. There has to be some level of physical attraction for both men and women b4 something can be started. For instance, a girl can be nice and sweet and kind and loyal, and accommodating but if she isn't getting ur dyck hard, then that niceness ain't going too far.
Somehow we can make that concession for men, but women are demonized for having similar needs.
Not excusing chicks being bytches but chances are ur niceness isn't the variable affecting whether she's attracted to you.
Looks, genuine connection, timing, personal issues are what makes or breaks attraction. And yes there are some broken men and women who are obsessed with people that treat them like shyt, but it's probably not a good idea to change urself to attract people with serious mental issues.
But that's just my take on it.
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In for replies that indicate obvious emoisture at the content of my post. "Fukk you!"
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but she strongly suggested I try and walk away first.
