If you don't simp a lil u gets no draws..Chasing women is simping you gass em up play nice smile when you don't want to.take them to dinner..you gotta be a Lil nice to get them pants off. I know nice guys who get play.letting them walk all over you is a different story.rappers got y'all thinking calling her a bytch will get you some.
When Did You Realize Women HATED Nice Guys?
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Palm Tree's & Blunts
Big timah timah
Just be cool and be yourself.
Women can sense desperation and get turned off by that shyt.
Women can sense desperation and get turned off by that shyt.
Fake nice
There's no such thing really. Oh my God you have emotions. You hate being used and played or being rejected. What a faker. I want a nice guy that's gonna be nice no matter how shytty I am to him otherwise he's fake.
Those females,be the same one getting their asses beat on the regular
Neil Tyson
YYZ
I was nice because I liked someone. I prefer being not as nice if it will keep those kinds of broads away.Fake nice
There's no such thing really. Oh my God you have emotions. You hate being used and played or being rejected. What a faker. I want a nice guy that's gonna be nice no matter how shytty I am to him otherwise he's fake.
Neil Tyson
YYZ
I don't care who you are. You will feel it when you realize the bytch is just playing with your feelings. It's just an unfortunate position to be in. I've never done this to any girl that liked me, I was always respectful of their time and mine, because I couldn't stomach it. Am I nice?Fake nice
There's no such thing really. Oh my God you have emotions. You hate being used and played or being rejected. What a faker. I want a nice guy that's gonna be nice no matter how shytty I am to him otherwise he's fake.
Catching her ask a co-worker on advice on how to get me to chill with her was the last draw, I felt bad.
Just stating a fact.
It's not that serious fam.
Women don't hate nice guys - they hate weakness. Unfortunately, most people associate being nice with being a complete p*ssy and kissing the ground your girl walks on 24/7 regardless of how she treats you. No, that's called not having any respect for yourself. You can be strong, assertive, confident and still be nice - these things are not mutually exclusive.
Behind-the-wheel
Living dead
Love nice guys. If nice= calm, sweet, funny, not pressed, romantic.
If pseudo nice= actually not nice, looking for an excuse as to why I don't get the same opportunities to shyt on good looking women as other dudes do, entitled, "look bytch don't u see how nice I am, if u don't choose me I hope u die alone", "fukk u, ur opinion doesn't matter because ur not who I want anyway", chase after bytches that ruin them and wanna take it out on the rest of the unwitting females in the world, really I'm actually an a$$hole but don't have the social skills to attract better so I'm just bitter pretending to be nice, actually hates women...
Oh shyt!!! That hit the nail on the head!!!
Then Imma pass on that. Like most things in life, Nice people rarely have to claim niceness. Also niceness isn't a primary attractor between men and women. There has to be some level of physical attraction for both men and women b4 something can be started. For instance, a girl can be nice and sweet and kind and loyal, and accommodating but if she isn't getting ur dyck hard, then that niceness ain't going too far.
Somehow we can make that concession for men, but women are demonized for having similar needs.
I think that's because we men see women go for fat fugly guys that look like bowling balls or gremlins simply because they have lots of money or are famous. It happens so often that it becomes the normal expectation of women in mens eyes. You can be a hardworking loyal loving but average nikka and some pretty flyboy sleepin on his mommas couch...but has flashy clothes and a borrowed ferrari and he will sweep ya woman away lickety split.
All cause she THINKS the fukkboy has more money than the loyal good average guy.
This bs happens everyday...and women wonder why men become cruel and unsympathetic to their pain.
I know that's the truth.Not excusing chicks being bytches but chances are ur niceness isn't the variable affecting whether she's attracted to you.
I've never gotten laid from being nice to a female.
Ever!
Looks, genuine connection, timing, personal issues are what makes or breaks attraction. And yes there are some broken men and women who are obsessed with people that treat them like shyt, but it's probably not a good idea to change urself to attract people with serious mental issues.
But that's just my take on it.
(In for replies that indicate obvious emoisture at the content of my post. "Fukk you!")
ZEB WALTON
ayo! - BEZ
Im naturally a nice guy but also naturally hoh as time goes on with them. Idk if thats good or bad yet
Actually6Foot3
Veteran
Do women hate "nice guys." YES though they'll never really admit it. We've all seen it or been there, guys that were genuinely nice and not even simping getting ran over. more so than anything they want alpha males, or men they perceive to be alpha. A Top 20% man. They'd rather be a side chic to a top teir man than wifey to a mediocre man. It's all about preselection. No woman wants a man NO other women want. But they want to be the only woman HE wants. 
Men with dating options are never push overs
You don't have to be an a$$hole but if you're in shape and on point in other aspects of your life women notice and you can do whatever you want at that point.
Men with dating options are never push oversYou don't have to be an a$$hole but if you're in shape and on point in other aspects of your life women notice and you can do whatever you want at that point.
I understood later in life that women sometimes love drama, stress and issues. Being too nice can mean being a simp...and people don't appreciate the too nice, simpish, too predictable, too easy going, too calm, too low key, etc. Some women need drama and excitement in their lives....and sometimes that's due because they are used to that from their parents/mothers relationships and their prior relationships. When a nice, predictable and/or simplike type dude comes around...women don't know how to respond to it. They feel something isn't right or it just simply doesn't interest them, excite them thus not turning her on.
Behind-the-wheel
Living dead
Ugh...I went thru this with a chick at work.
Fine ass jamaican female...but literally that's it. Just a butt and wild attitude...life a mess, always gettin written up for being ratchet at work, obsessed with impressing others and appearance...just...juvenile.
But I liked hanging out with her...made me laugh...
But she got it in her head that I was simpin on her and decided to start acting stupid...
I cut her off like she never existed for a few weeks and then she started asking everyone else why I wasn't talking to her.
So then I got all these coworkers coming up to me asking me why I don't talk to her anymore.
So when I tell em, one of em mustve got back to her and told her what I said cause a few weeks later she decides to come up to me on some work-related shyt trying to get back in.
Kept it at work stuff and cut her off again when she tried turning the conversation around to personal shyt.
"Sorry, I've got work to catch up on...take care"
And turned right back to my computer screen like she didn't exist.
Since then she's been tryna get ahold of me to get my Windows-10 and SEC+ Certification study materials and chat me up about how I passed all the tests.
Nope...good luck with that.
Oh yeah....pics of the user chick in question:
Neil Tyson
YYZ
Ugh...I went thru this with a chick at work.
Fine ass jamaican female...but literally that's it. Just a butt and wild attitude...life a mess, always gettin written up for being ratchet at work, obsessed with impressing others and appearance...just...juvenile.
But I liked hanging out with her...made me laugh...
But she got it in her head that I was simpin on her and decided to start acting stupid...
I cut her off like she never existed for a few weeks and then she started asking everyone else why I wasn't talking to her.
So then I got all these coworkers coming up to me asking me why I don't talk to her anymore.
So when I tell em, one of em mustve got back to her and told her what I said cause a few weeks later she decides to come up to me on some work-related shyt trying to get back in.
Kept it at work stuff and cut her off again when she tried turning the conversation around to personal shyt.
"Sorry, I've got work to catch up on...take care"
And turned right back to my computer screen like she didn't exist.
Since then she's been tryna get ahold of me to get my Windows-10 and SEC+ Certification study materials and chat me up about how I passed all the tests.
Nope...good luck with that.
Oh yeah....pics of the user chick in question:
You even dropped picsUgh...I went thru this with a chick at work.
Fine ass jamaican female...but literally that's it. Just a butt and wild attitude...life a mess, always gettin written up for being ratchet at work, obsessed with impressing others and appearance...just...juvenile.
But I liked hanging out with her...made me laugh...
But she got it in her head that I was simpin on her and decided to start acting stupid...
I cut her off like she never existed for a few weeks and then she started asking everyone else why I wasn't talking to her.
So then I got all these coworkers coming up to me asking me why I don't talk to her anymore.
So when I tell em, one of em mustve got back to her and told her what I said cause a few weeks later she decides to come up to me on some work-related shyt trying to get back in.
Kept it at work stuff and cut her off again when she tried turning the conversation around to personal shyt.
"Sorry, I've got work to catch up on...take care"
And turned right back to my computer screen like she didn't exist.
Since then she's been tryna get ahold of me to get my Windows-10 and SEC+ Certification study materials and chat me up about how I passed all the tests.
Nope...good luck with that.
Oh yeah....pics of the user chick in question:
.Yeah it's unfortunate because you're just being normal and showing interest. You have to keep them qualifying themselves to you apparently, otherwise they start being stupid like they aren't 1 out of 3.5 billion females.
From experience though they're a waste of time, no point trying to get them back. Getting them to qualify themselves should be from the jump.
