When do you let your woman know how much you make?

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Few months in?

A few years in?

When we are engaged/married?

On your death bed?

In the afterlife?
 

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Good question I don't know the answer too. I assume if she sees I can always pay for whatever we do, she is gonna want more anyway.

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Broads don't need to know how much I make, especially when they prone to making decisions with my income and not having any to supplement the household with. Now as I've grown older and a bit smarter, I've made it an issue to stop coupling with broads that can't do this, but still off top, I get very irritated by females when they bring up the topic of money, especially when it comes to me dealing with my hobbies and vices after I DILLIGENTLY make sure that all bills and obligations are dealt with 'cause I don't play that shyt.

:usure: "Why you got a 900 dollar guitar for when you full well know you ain't in a band and could have bought one looking just like that for 150 the time you went into a Guitar Centre and I followed you without asking."


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"bytch DO NOT MAKE ME SNATCH THAT FENTY CASE AND DOLE IT OUT TO THEM RAGGEDY bytchES YOU KEEP ACCUSING ME OF LOOKING AT WHEN WE AT WAL-MART, I SWEATER GAWD........!!!"

:shaq2:9/10 times, they make quips/demands even if they got they own bread when they know you make X amount and see you spend Y. shyt irritates the fukk out of me, so she don't ever see how much I make. She should know that I can provide and if she act right, I will. I don't care how much she make, just as long as she making it and helping with the bills.
 

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Lol I find a way to ask early, but because I’m nosey and just love to see what people do. I usually ask for a range so it’s less intrusive. If he’s reluctant, I probably wouldn’t bother with him. I like financial conversations.
 

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I don't see the reason you would have to tell her that unless you planned on moving in together or having a child or getting married.

I split everything fifty-fifty with any of my ex-girlfriends work on girlfriend so it didn't really matter.
 

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Women are gathers of resources. If you don't tell her how much you making, her white daddy at them court houses will
 

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After you get engaged. :mjpls:

It all depends really. If you pay for everything everytime you go out or if she never offers to pay for anything/ chip in, then shes either broke or selfish and shes no good.

If you make 25k a year and she makes 125k a year, your hourly wage will reveal itself without you having to say anything :manny:

If she makes $25k and you make $125k, then you wouldn't have to tell her shyt, because she wouldn't he able to wrap her brain around it. Nevertheless, keep your mouth shut.

Simps will brag about their pay stubs and will not only become easy marks for women trying to get free shyt, they will make it harder for the next nikka because they set the precedent.
 

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If we living together. I'm not marrying anyone until we lived together bc I'm not trying to have no surprises after. I think we both need to know what we are bringing to the table.

The real question is how you reacting if she's bringing in bread crumbs while you bringing in lobster and steak? You cutting her off or telling her step her shyt up?
 
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