When I was in high school, most of the bad bxtches was dating grown ass men

[Serious]

The game is the game and wolves need sheep to eat, the strong sheep survive another day.

Then when I got to college, the 18 year olds were getting trains ran on them by frat boys or older..

Hate to say it, but the reality is women go for the breh with more resources, money, cars, job, etc...

All in the game...

Here’s the thing in a fair world, most women wouldn’t deal with most men.

If women weren’t dependent on men for resources this wouldn’t be as much of thing.

Are the outliers sure. There always are. But there’s a reason why there are so many stable women who are educated, gainfully employed and choosing celibacy over “dikk”.

They have “resources”.

The reality is the game and resources I possess at 33, is far superior to an 18 year old chick.

I could game a chick like that in ways she couldn’t even imagine.

However I’m not a predator, so the thought of that is ridiculous

 

[Still Benefited]

An older man trading some trinkets or money to access a younger woman’s body is not being victimized.

That being said- what is being overlooked is a young underaged girl who is purposely seeking an older man for resources didn’t get those ideas in her head organically.
That is a young girl who was already being touched by another grown man. Young girls end up being “fast” because some man has already been doing stuff to her at a young age.

The senses work like algorithms collecting data. You honestly dont think girls organically figure out at a young age that they can use desirability to manipulate and get what they want? Even if they may be doing it subconsciously or pretty harmlessly with younger boys. I remember when Tierra asked if she she could use my locker as an extra storage space in middle school. We know for a fact she asked because she was fine as hell. Had me thinking I had motion. Instead i got a locker full of bullshyt

I think girls could easily learn to manipulate over time,by seeing and hearing other women,watching t.v and social media.

Maybe coming from a good background you have rosed colored glasses.some environments make people grow and experience faster than they should. But doesnt mean they dont know exactly what they are doing.

 

[King Poetic]

Yeah

Used to see the pretty/hot 17 year olds leaving out jumpin into some 21,25,27 year old nikka car…

Still know a few of those chicks today,, which they are has beens with 3,4 kids by a few of those older dudes

 

[Serious]

Well people can't be like "girls are sooooooooo much mature" than boys their ages and then act surprised when they choose to go out with men older than them because they consider boys their age to be "kids". They believe in their own propaganda, if you're so grown-up then go play with the grown-ups, but don't come complaining about it later

Me personally the biggest age gap I've had must've been like 2 or 3 years when I was already 26/27 and the girl was younger. But I had a short lived relationship with a chick who was 7 years older than I was, and I was just 20. I can chill and whatnot with much younger people (men and women) because some are in the same stuff I'm interested in, but at some point the lack of common cultural references will probably show and different styles of life will show. More probable that I'll see them more less like nephews or nieces.

Man look I hear you, we’re socialized into normalizing this bs.

But to me, a 17 year old girl is a 17 year old girl. She’s most likely (99.9%) not mature enough to date a dude that’s 25.

It really takes a simple calculus to understand this.

A lot society has socialized predatory behavior, which needs to be called out. Think about how you thought at 17, think about how most girls thought at 17, it’s probably nowhere in the ball park of how you thought and moved at 25.

It’s incredibly predatory and shouldn’t be normalized anymore.

A lot of dudes don’t get it until they have daughters.

 

[General Mills]

shyt. I went to a private small Catholic school. In 8th grade me and the other fellas in my class would be on our Mongooses’s and Huffys and see our female classmates getting scooped up by men in Irocs and 5.0’s

We was leaning on our handlebars sick

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

I graduated in 13. 12th graders who even dated 9th graders were looked at as lames. multiple times I witnessed guys that old dismiss the girls that old after finding out ages. guys I knew who did do that those 9th graders were their first real relationship I always saw it the same way. they had to go younger cus they had their license and could take em places and just being a few years older did a lot for how they saw you

I did know some girls who were in middle school talking to high schoolers and the like, but that was one or two at the time. highschool girls getting with late teens early twenties guys was not happening when I was in school

It was the exact opposite at my school.A lot of the senior guys were popular az fukk.Especially the ones who played sports.The 9th grade chicks were easy work.They would literally sell their souls just to get spit on by one of those dudes.I remember this one senior in particular.We called him Big Scoob.Played nose tackle on the D line.A real wrecking ball.He'd walk around campus wearing his football jersey & a chain around his neck like Treach from Naughty By Nature.Boy cracked plenty freshman hymen, but nobody looked at him as a lame.He remained ultra popular.People would still shout "Big Scoob!!!" everywhere he went on campus.ABC 1 2 3.Easy, EASY work.

 

[jackswstd]

When I was in high school there were a few broads messing around with dudes in their 20’s. It’s nothing new and it was as wrong then as it is now but it happened. shyt, in 8th grade there were a couple of girls dating 18-20 year olds.

 

[Digital Omen]

I'm thinking back to my HS (90-94) and yeah there were some chicks getting picked up by older dudes with cars, nothing new and nobody said anything. It was what it was in our minds.

But now the discourse has shifted. I don't remember one single instance back then of anyone (guys or girls) referring to the older dudes as "pedos" "groomers" etc. To us it was just an accepted fact of life. Even when the Aaliyah/Kellz marriage news hit, it was like "hold up a sec....ok never mind." The records slapped and that's what everyone in school cared about. We just assumed her parents were ok with it.

Society has gratefully evolved in that regard. Look at the Dot/Drake beef: "A Minorrrrrrrrrr..." was the death blow. My nephew just turned 9 and he told me his classmates were in the playground saying stay away from Drake he's a pedo.

Him getting laughed at by kids is one thing, but shows like TCAP brought it to the forefront and public consciousness. It's similar to how weed/gay marriage was once "taboo" "we don't talk about that" and now they're legal/accepted. Society evolved. Same with older dudes and underage chicks. Nobody cared before and now it's the kiss of death, as it should be. Dudes creeping now know they can get put on blast all over tik tok, lose their job, freedom, etc.

 

[Still Benefited]

Sounds like these women were previously groomed.

So it’s too late. Just because they’re taking advantage of a dude currently doesn’t detract from the fact they were probably groomed before. The older guy cashing out, is still in the wrong. Him financing her life, doesn’t take away from the fact they’re dealing with a chick they shouldn’t be dealing with

Think about what you just said, do you believe young women just come out the womb with enough game to “manipulate” a man, or is it better to suspect that she was previously groomed, preyed upon, manipulated or influenced by someone or something else.

I explained that in a followup post. I dont think they come out the womb with game or manipulation tactics. I think they can learn them over time just like men do over time through trial and error. I think people do things consciously and subconciously to get what they want. Saying they must have been touched,or using words like "groomed" paints a sinsister narrative to excuse the girl of being fast. You dont have to be touched or groomed to learn things you probably shouldnt know. But if you wanna say society as a whole is grooming kids and showing them things they shouldnt see? Fine,That we can agree on.


But then you would need to completely absolve everyone who comes from a not so perfect environment. Even when they KNOWINGLY AND WILLINGLY participate in adult activity. And again im not saying that none of these girls are victims. But you arent neccessarily doing them a favor by assuming they are all victims.

Alot of girls got they life in order because big mama saw through their bullshyt . Didnt allow crocidile tears or let them play victim. Let they daughter know they knew what was really going on and became more vigilant. Being naive to who your child really is can cause them to continue down a path you couldve stopped. Alot of yall sound like those mothers who blame their sons friends for being the troublemakers.

 

[General Mills]

When I was in 9th my best friend had a sister in the 12th

She was bad as fukk


She was openly dating an Offensive Lineman for the Steelers. Breh would pick her up from our bus stop in the morning and drive her to school.

We would see our bus pulling up and he would right behind it in his Benz.

 

[NinoBrown]

Here’s the thing in a fair world, most women wouldn’t deal with most men.

If women weren’t dependent on men for resources this wouldn’t be as much of thing.

Are the outliers sure. There always are. But there’s a reason why there are so many stable women who are educated, gainfully employed and choosing celibacy over “dikk”.

They have “resources”.

The reality is the game and resources I possess at 33, is far superior to an 18 year old chick.

I could game a chick like that in ways she couldn’t even imagine.

However I’m not a predator, so the thought of that is ridiculous

It's leverage and a fair trade, both parties are getting something out of it, this is an ancient idea being demonized by modern feminism...

When I was in 9th my best friend had a sister in the 12th

She was bad as fukk


She was openly dating an Offensive Lineman for the Steelers. Breh would pick her up from our bus stop in the morning and drive her to school.

We would see our bus pulling up and he would right behind it in his Benz.

From being scouted at the combine to picking up Girl Scouts, can't make this up!

Thing is, this game won't change, and ultimately females are going to do whatever they want in the IG/OF generation.

 

[rabbid]

Yep I knew this Georgia peach booty pawg that was openly dating a 35 year old man. I think she was like 15-16 telling people she's 18. And I say openly but it was just an open secret that her friends were passing around. Then we finally saw him... this chester looking white dude just waiting outside school in his custom Dodge Dart grabbing and squeezing on her booty in broad daylight... shyt was unfair!

Her booty was phat as fukk though... and she was a cheerleader so I'm sure that coochie knew some pain. But it was scust. Later on i found out she was fukking other dudes anyway.. definitely for the streets so we all just kinda waved it off.

 

[shopthatwrecks]

yep and ever since then ive been going after nikkas mommas and grandmommas....

even got the chick I liked at the time momma ... showed up to a family picnic ...and she was like wreck... who u here with .

..pam...

pam?

momma u know wreck ...do I ....

stay in a child place...

come on wreck...

 

[Mac Ten]

Any Man pulling a young woman that’s under the age of 18 needs to shot dead….
My ex openly told me that she snuck out to her drug dealing boyfriend’s house when she was 15 to have sex and she said that her Mom didn’t say anything . I looked at her like . The dude was 28 years old riding in a Crown Victoria with Rims. It’s a reason why they target girls in single parent households.

Now I see why my Mom and Dad didn’t let me go outside to other folks houses as a kid. Cats be on that demon time.

 

[Mac Ten]

shyt. I went to a private small Catholic school. In 8th grade me and the other fellas in my class would be on our Mongooses’s and Huffys and see our female classmates getting scooped up by men in Irocs and 5.0’s

We was leaning on our handlebars sick

Damn brah….


Did that motivate you to get a car down the line?


I’d be fuming too if some Chester the Molester lookin dude pulled a girl that I had a crush on as a kid