when it comes to first date..non black females always prefer

[T-K-G]

I always say dudes need to find women that are worth taking out to a proper meal at least on the 1st date. I'm not saying the you have to go to a high end spot. But at least your local diner or hash house.

I have a cousin that is with a white woman. I remember when they first went out. White women do seem to prefer drinking at a bar as opposed to eating at first.

a perspective: to be buying food for someone you just met so they hang out with you is no different from getting some ducks to come over to you for bread or giving food to a dog so it wants to follow you around. You're introducing yourself as a meal ticket literally. I got homegirls who deadass went YEARS not having to pay a dime for shyt and actively took advantage of dudes like you, laughing about it with me afterwards cuz they saved so much money they can live nice with a bullshyt job




But I am also the nikka who doesn't like "bonding" over food so it is what it is