when it comes to first date..non black females always prefer

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Most women in general prefer dinner dates as their first date from my experience. But I will say that there are more white women that aren't as demanding in comparison. You'll find some of them that want to meet at Cafes, coffeee houses, bars etc as a first date. But that shyt will not fly with a black, hispanic or an Asian woman.
Depending on the encounter, you can meet them at the bar if you drink.
 

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I usually let the guy plan the first date. I would prefer if he could think outside of the dinner/movie box, but not every guy is able. OP, do they tell you that's what they want or do you just assume?

ladies say "pick" but when you do. no matter where you attempt to take them. they are always trying to include dinner and drinks.

you go for a walk. "can we go eat first." or "can we go eat after" , then after you eat if its still not super late "you wanna get drinks"

^^now i know this is a true statement.
 

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ladies say "pick" but when you do. no matter where you attempt to take them. they are always trying to include dinner and drinks.

you go for a walk. "can we go eat first." or "can we go eat after" , then after you eat if its still not super late "you wanna get drinks"

^^now i know this is a true statement.

I personally can't relate, but if it's happened to you then then I can't discount it. I personally would not impose dinner on someone (if it wasn't in the plans) when I have no idea about their budget. If we never talked about dinner then I eat before.
 

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I always say dudes need to find women that are worth taking out to a proper meal at least on the 1st date. I'm not saying the you have to go to a high end spot. But at least your local diner or hash house.

I have a cousin that is with a white woman. I remember when they first went out. White women do seem to prefer drinking at a bar as opposed to eating at first.
 

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I always say dudes need to find women that are worth taking out to a proper meal at least on the 1st date. I'm not saying the you have to go to a high end spot. But at least your local diner or hash house.

I have a cousin that is with a white woman. I remember when they first went out. White women do seem to prefer drinking at a bar as opposed to eating at first.

Nah. The p*ssy market value is too low for that.

It’s either coffee, drinks, or straight to the crib.

Food comes after.
 

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I would never date a white but I have matched with some on dating apps. They ALWAYS say they want to meet for coffee, at the park, or even the gym. I always find a reason to cancel because I want to get married and have another kid, so it would be a waste of my time.
 
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Sistas never cost that much $$$ but you usually have to include some kind of dinner/movie or dinner/mini golf combo.

White broads = coffee, regular date then Netflix/Chill

Or....coffee, plans for date....that turns into Netflix/chill
 

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Sistas never cost that much $$$ but you usually have to include some kind of dinner/movie or dinner/mini golf combo.

White broads = coffee, regular date then Netflix/Chill

Or....coffee, plans for date....that turns into Netflix/chill
Dinner and Top Golf will run you $250+. That’s not a lot but it’s a nice amount for a first date. I left $200 at the bowling alley last weekend.
 
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