When men be honest with a woman

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You're not obligated to let a man hump you because you went on a date with him. It's good to be honest but it's dumb to expect people to put out for you just because they did for someone else. There's nothing wrong with owning your own body. Plus some people should take it as a compliment if someone wants to see them again without sex- it means they enjoyed who they are as a person. You can have sex with anyone, you can't connect with everyone.
 

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1- Honesty is great but he played himself...should have said it upfront but he didn't have the balls and is now whining instead of regrouping.
2- Why do men say, "I spent X amount of $$$ on you!" without factoring in that approximately 1/2 wad spent on him?

I wouldn't even do the traditional dating of a dinner and a movie. Would be coffee --> bar --> crib.
 

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1- Honesty is great but he played himself...should have said it upfront.
2- Why do men say, "I spent X amount of $$$ on you!" without factoring in that approximately 1/2 wad spent on him?
:hug:Hey.

1.:francis:Nah. Thing is, depending on how they met, this is something that kinda just "comes up", cause not everyone expects sex but its usually
what they hope for. He said she was laughing and touching him...who knows what the conversation was like before what we saw?
Women have the right to decide at any point if they want to fukk or not, same with men. He might have had his mind made up from jump, but he never
knew what she was thinking. He found out. :francis:

2. Its the same reason a lot of women end up suggesting less expensive options or even paying their own way, cause the more a man spends, a lot of men
will think in terms of "return on investment." If a man is dropping hundreds on the FIRST DATE, its definitely time to pump the breaks and tell him before
then how you feel about any intimacy. Thats not to say he should expect sex, but if everything was going smoothly, she giggling and living it up while he paying,
it has to cross a woman's mind that the man just might be doing it big so she feels more open to being intimate with him, vs the guy who takes her to Wendy's for the
4 for $4 meal.

Now sure half might have been spent on him, but he might not have had any interest in the theater, and was entertaining something she would like to do, rather
than something he might have wanted to do.
 

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You're not obligated to let a man hump you because you went on a date with him. It's good to be honest but it's dumb to expect people to put out for you just because they did for someone else. There's nothing wrong with owning your own body. Plus some people should take it as a compliment if someone wants to see them again without sex- it means they enjoyed who they are as a person. You can have sex with anyone, you can't connect with everyone.
Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz but right after he drops her off she's on the line with the next guy to come over :comeon:
 

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You're not obligated to let a man hump you because you went on a date with him. It's good to be honest but it's dumb to expect people to put out for you just because they did for someone else. There's nothing wrong with owning your own body. Plus some people should take it as a compliment if someone wants to see them again without sex- it means they enjoyed who they are as a person. You can have sex with anyone, you can't connect with everyone.

:mjlol: Now this is too far in the other direction. That makes perfect sense from the female perspective but it is the exact opposite from the male perspective.
 

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You're not obligated to let a man hump you because you went on a date with him. It's good to be honest but it's dumb to expect people to put out for you just because they did for someone else. There's nothing wrong with owning your own body. Plus some people should take it as a compliment if someone wants to see them again without sex- it means they enjoyed who they are as a person. You can have sex with anyone, you can't connect with everyone.
You don’t seem to understand most men.
 

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it cost nothing to simply allow a female to become comfortable enough to act on her attraction to you

i figured out basically from go that if a shawrty was attracted to me we'd end up where she wanted to go within the first couple close moments

honestly females make what they want clear through action the issue is nikkas fooled into thinking any chick can be baited into fukking

the chicks that fukk with me fukk with me cause i make their clit jump not cause i pay for entertainment

its evil as fukk the way a lot of chicks use dudes they have no intention of fukking for food and entertainment doe

don't get got

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