1- Honesty is great but he played himself...should have said it upfront.
2- Why do men say, "I spent X amount of $$$ on you!" without factoring in that approximately 1/2 wad spent on him?

Hey.
1.

Nah. Thing is, depending on how they met, this is something that kinda just "comes up", cause not everyone expects sex but its usually
what they hope for. He said she was laughing and touching him...who knows what the conversation was like before what we saw?
Women have the right to decide at any point if they want to fukk or not, same with men. He might have had his mind made up from jump, but he never
knew what she was thinking. He found out.
2. Its the same reason a lot of women end up suggesting less expensive options or even paying their own way, cause the more a man spends, a lot of men
will think in terms of "return on investment." If a man is dropping hundreds on the FIRST DATE, its definitely time to pump the breaks and tell him before
then how you feel about any intimacy. Thats not to say he should expect sex, but if everything was going smoothly, she giggling and living it up while he paying,
it has to cross a woman's mind that the man just might be doing it big so she feels more open to being intimate with him, vs the guy who takes her to Wendy's for the
4 for $4 meal.
Now sure half might have been spent on him, but he might not have had any interest in the theater, and was entertaining something she would like to do, rather
than something he might have wanted to do.