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™BlackPearl The Empress™

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I'm talking about what to do if you find yourself with such a simp.

We've already addressed dudes being upfront. So should be passive? Yes or no.

Let him spend and potentially lash out later because you ignored signs brehettes.

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Lash out? :mjlol: GTFOOHWTBS. Are you young? You must be young. I have been on a good number if expensive dates and "lashing out" b/c of money has never happened. Lashing out is what children do not grown men.
 

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And you completely skipped over where I mentioned twice where I was trying to get to know him and also where I said I don't care what he spends. You are a child and have no place in grown folks conversations.

I'm not a child. Arguably you are since you'd rather be a passive passenger on a date and also started insulting me.

Spending a certain amount on a date should never equal p*ssy. No one is entitled to another human being.

Sitting there and letting a stranger give you the world on a first date is childish.

Giving the world and expecting sex is childish.

No guilt so I'm talking to myself.
 

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And you completely skipped over where I mentioned twice where I was trying to get to know him and also where I said I don't care what he spends. You are a child and have no place in grown folks conversations.


Yep, the women is doing the choosing, so I don't know why guys try so hard.

People really get besides themselves when it comes to love and romance.

Guys really need to understand if the chemistry aint there, it won't be there a week later.

And the lower her status (she is a single mother) and smaller her achievements (only has a high school diploma) the less you effort you should put in most of the time. Its not about trying to gorilla pimp, its about not confusing the issue and avoiding unnecessary risk.
 

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I'm not a child. Arguably you are since you'd rather be a passive passenger on a date and also started insulting me.

Spending a certain amount on a date should never equal p*ssy. No one is entitled to another human being.

Sitting there and letting a stranger give you the world on a first date is childish.

Giving the world and expecting sex is childish.

No guilt so I'm talking to myself.

$200 is the the world?:mjlol: Allowing a man to represent himself as he sees fits is passive? :mjlol: Your argument is dramatic and weak. Yes you are quite childish.
 
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I can't help but conclude that there are a sizeable portion of women who are pressured into sex because men purposely take them out and overspend because it gives those men extra "bargaining chips" when negotiating for sex. That's the REAL definition of simping, you want her to sympathize with the idea that you deserve something in return for spending money on a night out and trade sex.

These same dudes are vehemently against directly paying for sex because it's a blow to their ego, they get to pretend that the sex was free because "i paid for dinner, not sex"

:francis:

I like to lurk and read other people point of views...but serious question..no shade

Do you date breh? Do you have a woman in your life?

Mostly your point of view is always from a woman side of things..just curious.
 

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$200 is the the world?:mjlol: Allowing a man to represent himself as he sees fits is passive? :mjlol: Your argument is dramatic and weak. Yes you are quite childish.

How would you feel if you told your girls that you just spent 200 on a first date?

I didn't say that. Leave the man (who we've already rebuked) out of this, and think who else is this man spending on. Because your not that special to us.

And your a dismissive, passive faux princess etc etc. Insults are boring.
 

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TBH dude played himself. He should've just rolled with it. He thinks she's a hoe. A hoe gon hoe regardless of what she said.
 

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I like to lurk and read other people point of views...but serious question..no shade

Do you date breh? Do you have a woman in your life?

Mostly your point of view is always from a woman side of things..just curious.

I have a girlfriend we've been together over a year.

Do you disagree with anything I've posted in the post you quoted?
 
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