When talking to a girl, how soon do you ask if she has a BF?

[M617]

ya i met this chick once

her-sorry i got a bf
me-its all good we will remain friends then
her
me- here save my phone number under "jessica" and text or call when YOUR free..no rush
her: okay


3 weeks later im in her guts..i delete her number cause i dont wanna get shot by some angry jealous bf

that sounds to good to be true thats good ass game right there if it is

 

[PabloEscobar]

women in relationships flock to me like a drug shyt is fukking irritating

i had a bytch up front who let me know what it was... she had a bf who she loved (he was locked up at the time)

Dude.

No one is saying you can't be interested in women.

I'm telling you that theres not much that can come from her telling you she has a man outright.

Are you trying to get into relationships immediately or smash or ease into relationships?

Plus, she might be fukking some dude but not "dating" him...so how are you going to handle that when she tells you?

and miss me with all this 'sex" talk. you ain't smashing anything right now and you haven't before so chill and cover the basics.

im confused. i guess im looking for companionship more than p*ssy. im not looking for a relationship per se but im not trying to smash. i just want to get to know her.

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

i had a bytch up front who let me know what it was... she had a bf who she loved (he was locked up at the time)


im confused. i guess im looking for companionship more than p*ssy. im not looking for a relationship per se but im not trying to smash. i just want to get to know her.

"getting to know her?"



what does that mean?

I "know" tons of girls...but whats that mean at the end of the day? Do you just want to "know" her? Where does that lead?

If you're not smashing then someone else is, or is closer to doing it than you do.

Stop making it sound like pursuing sex is a bad thing.

yeah. its cool to find a girl you can actually be around AND smash, but leaving the sex part out just means you want to be that BFF she has that she runs to while shes out fukking other dudes.

If you really want her, take whats yours and be that dude...otherwise you're destined to be that guy who wonders why your "friend" never picks up on the fact you like her.

EDIT: You should tell HER all that "companion" shyt...while trying to smash. Not us. we're not the one you have to butter up like that.

If you want friends, you'd just get friends.

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

OP: If you just want friends, tell me what the difference is between a boyfriend and a male friend she has.

Remember this.

SMASHING.

Thats it.

I remember this from a class I volunteered to tutor young boys in and the topic of dating came up for these middle schoolers. The older guy asked one of the boys, "so you say you have a little girlfriend in school...why can't you just be friends? What makes her your girlfriend? Are you doing something more than being friends?" ...dude had me standing in the corner like ...so succinct broke it down to a science.

 

[DrunkenNovice]

I don't ask until I hit/about to hit, and even then I don't ask unless I'm at her place.

Its not that I care (I know I aint shyt) I just wanna know if she could possibly have some irate visitors.

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

I don't ask until I hit/about to hit, and even then I don't ask unless I'm at her place.

Its not that I care (I know I aint shyt) I just wanna know if she could possibly have some irate visitors.

after you hit, then its fair game ...cause then she knows she probably fukked up or she just doesn't give a damn.

Hell, it probably helps at that point since you know which category to throw her in

 

[PabloEscobar]

"getting to know her?"



what does that mean?

I "know" tons of girls...but whats that mean at the end of the day? Do you just want to "know" her? Where does that lead?

If you're not smashing then someone else is, or is closer to doing it than you do.

Stop making it sound like pursuing sex is a bad thing.

yeah. its cool to find a girl you can actually be around AND smash, but leaving the sex part out just means you want to be that BFF she has that she runs to while shes out fukking other dudes.

If you really want her, take whats yours and be that dude...otherwise you're destined to be that guy who wonders why your "friend" never picks up on the fact you like her.

EDIT: You should tell HER all that "companion" shyt...while trying to smash. Not us. we're not the one you have to butter up like that.

If you want friends, you'd just get friends.

breh i have zero sexual experience. a girl has never even seen my dikk before. having the mind state of gotta smash seems like a recipe for failure. you may be right tho.

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

breh i have zero sexual experience. a girl has never even seen my dikk before. having the mind state of gotta smash seems like a recipe for failure. you may be right tho.

Son.

If you want sex so bad, stop turning it down.

its one thing if you're one of those "wait till marriage types" which is cool. I don't force that shyt on anyone...its not like you're 35 or something...

If its something you truly want, then you go after it. Period.

 

[PabloEscobar]

OP: If you just want friends, tell me what the difference is between a boyfriend and a male friend she has.

Remember this.

SMASHING.

Thats it.

I remember this from a class I volunteered to tutor young boys in and the topic of dating came up for these middle schoolers. The older guy asked one of the boys, "so you say you have a little girlfriend in school...why can't you just be friends? What makes her your girlfriend? Are you doing something more than being friends?" ...dude had me standing in the corner like ...so succinct broke it down to a science.

i just want to take it slow. i ve never tried to have sex before. im fukking confused as fukk right now. your posts got me questioning my own actions. i dont even know if i want to fukk this girl or not.

 

[PabloEscobar]

Son.

If you want sex so bad, stop turning it down.

its one thing if you're one of those "wait till marriage types" which is cool. I don't force that shyt on anyone...its not like you're 35 or something...

If its something you truly want, then you go after it. Period.

when i get horny i want sex. when i get lonely i want companionship. im not horny 24/7, but i wouldn't mind having someone i could hit up to hang out when im not doing shyt.

 

[datmass]

never..

 

[360dagod]

breh i have zero sexual experience. a girl has never even seen my dikk before. having the mind state of gotta smash seems like a recipe for failure. you may be right tho.

my nikka...

failure of what???

you gotta get this outta ya system

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

i just want to take it slow. i ve never tried to have sex before. im fukking confused as fukk right now. your posts got me questioning my own actions. i dont even know if i want to fukk this girl or not.

OK...so take it slow and find someone you care about then.

But acting thirsty by asking "yo do you have a man?" is going to set you up for failure since you haven't even had sex yet.

Theres a lot of things you dont even know about sex that you're trying to compensate for through interactions with women.

Just act like you've been in the end-zone before...if you know what I mean.

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

when i get horny i want sex. when i get lonely i want companionship. im not horny 24/7, but i wouldn't mind having someone i could hit up to hang out when im not doing shyt.

OK...so thats a relationship.

But you gotta stop trying to front like you NEED someone.

Relationships are about mutual connections and what the other person grants the other person.

 

[PabloEscobar]

my nikka...

failure of what???

you gotta get this outta ya system

idk how to explain, but i think you can get a lot things out of a woman other than sex.