Where did the Good girls hang out in HS?

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Good girls don't get overlooked (maybe by the dudes they want) unless they are physically unattractive.

They most likely have a small group of their closest friends, and their friends are also good girls.

They aren't that confident with boys, do well in school, aren't consumed in too much drama,etc.
 

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I feel like I was overlopked a lot in general.I didn't feel like I was a better person than another girl and a guy should choose me type thing. I wasn't really boy crazy though so it wasn't a huge deal but it did mess with my confidence. I didn't really have crushes either. I had a few suitors. They were cool, I liked them.

I was in a lot of activties up until senior year so practices and games took up most of my time. Plus, I was in the magnent program, those classes were after regular classes so while kids were hanging out after school I was going to dance class. I would go by myself to read, design, or write. I was quiet. I found out later a lot of people thought I was stuck up. I also found out guys liked me in school after graduation (thanks social media :skip: ). No one really said anything to me in school though so I thought I was unattractive and most guys ignored me.
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I wasn't approached a lot (for dating reasons) in HS. People thought I was weird. I used to sell CD's and DVD's and miscellaneous items (candy, batteries when everyone was still using walkmans :flabbynsick:, pencils, etc.) so people would always talk to me but never for the reasons I wanted. I also used to wear a hoodie all the time because I was ashamed of my body. I will say though, when I finally took off my hoodie, got my braces off, and started doing my hair I got a lot more attention. Still, nobody really talked to me that much in a romantic sense. I think at that point I cemented my weird girl rep. Though, after we graduated my cousin, who was on the football team, told me all his friends used to like me and this other boy I really liked well I guess they were attracted to me would be a better term.

I wouldn't say I was necessarily a good girl. I used to smoke and partake in sundry other activities, but all of my friends were virginal angels. I was never really boy crazy in HS so that wasn't something I did much either. I had one BF in HS and he dumped me :to:. Anyhoo! We all hung out in the library, at each others houses and the mall. I would always get dragged to church at that point too. I feel like that's where everyone hung out...
 

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I wasn't approached a lot (for dating reasons) in HS. People thought I was weird. I used to sell CD's and DVD's and miscellaneous items (candy, batteries when everyone was still using walkmans :flabbynsick:, pencils, etc.) so people would always talk to me but never for the reasons I wanted. I also used to wear a hoodie all the time because I was ashamed of my body. I will say though, when I finally took off my hoodie, got my braces off, and started doing my hair I got a lot more attention. Still, nobody really talked to me that much in a romantic sense. I think at that point I cemented my weird girl rep. Though, after we graduated my cousin, who was on the football team, told me all his friends used to like me and this other boy I really liked well I guess they were attracted to me would be a better term.

I wouldn't say I was necessarily a good girl. I used to smoke and partake in sundry other activities, but all of my friends were virginal angels. I was never really boy crazy in HS so that wasn't something I did much either. I had one BF in HS and he dumped me :to:. Anyhoo! We all hung out in the library, at each others houses and the mall. I would always get dragged to church at that point too. I feel like that's where everyone hung out...
I'm a heathen so church after a while was a no.go. you sound like the female version of me.
 

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I'm a heathen so church after a while was a no.go. you sound like the female version of me.

Yeah...after a certain age all that church stuff went to the birds. I still have people asking me to go to church, I just stare at them :ld: and reply K.
 
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