Where do you get your confidence?

[Slaimon Khan Shah]

If I wasn't so full of Christ Love, I'd slap the out of you.

PLEASE DO NOT CUSS, AND PLEASE DO NOT WORSHIP JESUS.

 

[Reid2Achieve]

Basically what I'm trying to say is confidence is irrationality, and what you perceive to be "good" confidence is more of a persons realizations of his or hers inherent advantages or talents, and utilizing them at an appropriate time.

The best answer so far. I think people gain confidence from success.

 

[Grams]

Brehs it's taken me 21 years to realize that confidence is top 5 most critical aspect of your life and how it will turn out.

I seen the girl from this thread
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/bytc...ortunity-to-bag-a-girl-unappreciation.190113/
sitting infront of me on the bus today and I just did not have the confidence to go and say anything. I bottled it. She coulda been my girl but I didn't have the confidence.

Freshman year of highschool I quit the soccer team cuz I didn't have any confidence in myself after seeing all these spanish and portuguese nikkas ball out cuz their parents used to send them to camp year round while my parents didn't do shyt for me. Junior year I said fukk it and worked hard on my game and by senior year the entire team was sucking my dikk no homo. People keep telling me if I stuck with it from Freshman year to graduation I coulda easily made my school's D1 team because the quality of strikers is but I'm sitting here like a bum cuz I had no confidence.

I had a legit dime on my dikk but because of my low confidence, I said to myself "all the man in the world why would she want ya black ass but then I heard from someone she was waiting for me to make the move but I blew my chance and she moved on.........cuz I had no confidence.

Look at this lightskin mulatto nikka hea. He plays with ZERO confidence and does this on a consistent basis. Shambolic



Look at this poor soul right here. THIS IS WHAT ZERO CONFIDENCE DOES TO YOU. @1:17 look at him slouched over no homo hands on his knees thinking "I hope I don't fukk this up" @1:55 when he misses the foul shot, everybody knew there was no way he would make the last one because of the way his confidence St. Louis boogaloo'd out his body



The greatest actors wouldn't be where they are today if they didn't have the confidence to go in front of casting and do their thing.

You think Kobe or MJ would be as great as they were without confidence?

Do you think Sara Jay can be so gawdddd ugly but still be one of the greatest porn hoes of all time if she didn't believe she had supreme riding and sucking skills? (Pause )

Any coli poster reading this struggling with confidence just try brehs and brehette. The least you can do is try.

I'm tired of posters here talking about "just get confidence" nikka it has never been that easy what you gotta do is throw yourself out there when you are scared shytless, do whatever you gotta do. Tell yourself it wasn't that bad. Keep practicing, and eventually you will get good at it to the point where you KNOW you can do it and you are confident enough to stunt on nikkas and gyals on some

steez

 

[chief_keef_stan]

Brehs it's taken me 21 years to realize that confidence is top 5 most critical aspect of your life and how it will turn out.

I seen the girl from this thread
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/bytc...ortunity-to-bag-a-girl-unappreciation.190113/
sitting infront of me on the bus today and I just did not have the confidence to go and say anything. I bottled it. She coulda been my girl but I didn't have the confidence.

Freshman year of highschool I quit the soccer team cuz I didn't have any confidence in myself after seeing all these spanish and portuguese nikkas ball out cuz their parents used to send them to camp year round while my parents didn't do shyt for me. Junior year I said fukk it and worked hard on my game and by senior year the entire team was sucking my dikk no homo. People keep telling me if I stuck with it from Freshman year to graduation I coulda easily made my school's D1 team because the quality of strikers is but I'm sitting here like a bum cuz I had no confidence.

I had a legit dime on my dikk but because of my low confidence, I said to myself "all the man in the world why would she want ya black ass but then I heard from someone she was waiting for me to make the move but I blew my chance and she moved on.........cuz I had no confidence.

Look at this lightskin mulatto nikka hea. He plays with ZERO confidence and does this on a consistent basis. Shambolic



Look at this poor soul right here. THIS IS WHAT ZERO CONFIDENCE DOES TO YOU. @1:17 look at him slouched over no homo hands on his knees thinking "I hope I don't fukk this up" @1:55 when he misses the foul shot, everybody knew there was no way he would make the last one because of the way his confidence St. Louis boogaloo'd out his body



The greatest actors wouldn't be where they are today if they didn't have the confidence to go in front of casting and do their thing.

You think Kobe or MJ would be as great as they were without confidence?

Do you think Sara Jay can be so gawdddd ugly but still be one of the greatest porn hoes of all time if she didn't believe she had supreme riding and sucking skills? (Pause )

Any coli poster reading this struggling with confidence just try brehs and brehette. The least you can do is try.

I'm tired of posters here talking about "just get confidence" nikka it has never been that easy what you gotta do is throw yourself out there when you are scared shytless, do whatever you gotta do. Tell yourself it wasn't that bad. Keep practicing, and eventually you will get good at it to the point where you KNOW you can do it and you are confident enough to stunt on nikkas and gyals on some

steez

keep ya head up high my nikka get dat confidence on point

even when we darkskin nikkas losin, we winnin, u feel me?

 

[Grams]

keep ya head up high my nikka get dat confidence on point

even when we darkskin nikkas losin, we winnin, u feel me?

 

[HollowPoints2]

My confidence comes from when I accomplish something big like figuring out a hard algebraic math equation. You can't tell me nothing after I get the right answer because I think im the shyt.

Then I walked around thinking that I know more than the average person when it comes to certain math.

 

[DrX]

probably my talent at my craft....other then that i got nothing

 

[observe]

My confidence comes from not giving a shyt..once you don't give a shyt about shyt no matter if he might beat you up..or she might turn you down..or people might say you couldn't do something.,,fukk em..

 

[Grams]

My confidence comes from not giving a shyt..once you don't give a shyt about shyt no matter if he might beat you up..or she might turn you down..or people might say you couldn't do something.,,fukk em..

But how. Every human being gives a shyt to some extent

 

[Chris.B]

Get me on one of these and watch me kill Amazing grace and every other hymn/contemporary gospel you can think of.

 

[ℒℴѵℯJay ELECTUA]

Don't mistake arrogance for confidence.

 

[Grams]

Don't mistake arrogance for confidence.

In my opinion

Confidence = knowing you have the ability to be the best at something

Arrogance = believing you're better than every one and people are lesser than you

 

[skeetsinternal]

i really just DGAF

 

[Remote]

Confidence comes from preparation.
If I am prepared for it, I am not nervous. I am confident.
If I am unprepared, that's where stress or lack of confidence comes from.

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

Having a solid workout routine and being able to support myself