Which combination do you find most desirable?

[Scustin Bieburr]

These terms are a little vague. A person who is intelligent may be condescending and always argue with you on everything. A person who is emotionally stable might be closed-minded and unwilling to learn or try new things.

I don't care that much about looks as long as the person is emotionally stable, empathetic, and open minded. Closed-mindedness and or stubbornness are very irritating to me. A lack of intelligence is no big deal if she's open minded and doesn't arrogantly reject different points of view and new information.

 

[WheresWallace]

I voted "Intelligent & Good Looking"

I know you have to physically attracted to your s/o in order to avoid temptations of cheating.
I want someone that is a good decision maker and that takes intelligence. I also want smart kids too so I want a smart woman to mother my kids.

 

[DaRealness]

Emotionally stable and Intelligent for me.

I'm not in my twenties anymore, so emotional stability is a must. I can't deal with a 10 year old in a grown ass woman's body. You don't have to be a super genius either, but you have to have a great deal of intelligence for all the years you've lived. I'm not gonna date a total dumbass that I can't have conversation with.

I'd be attracted to whomever I'm with anyway, so the good looking part is neither here nor there.

 

[swimmingpools]

define intelligent?

Goodlooking and emotionally stable.

 

[Firefly]

Having dealt with enough "good looking" jawns I can tell you that every bad chick is emotionally unstable and pretty insecure.

I mean to bag these types you gotta ignore the fact that they look like goddesses and you gotta be patient.

Soon as you bag that's when the craziness and insecurity andALLLLLLLLLLL the emotional instability comes out.


But I'd still prefer to deal with a little crazy over the alternatives which is a plain jane chick who is just intelligent.

 

[86\*/98]

G00d l00king and intelligent. People who are emotionally stable are boring.

 

[QuintessentialBM]

Good-Looking and Emotionally Stable........

Emotionally Unstable people(male or females)can destroy everything.... Your life, their lives, the people that you're involved with lives... so underrated.

Beautiful people will always be valued(unfairly) over intelligent people. I'm not vain but I don't want my child(ren) to go through half of what I went through.

I'm not a genius but I'm smart enough......

 

[Box Cutta]

I think most men will pick good looking and emotionally stable. We are more superficial than women when it comes to looks.

Hmm, I think the high majority of both men and women are going to have good-looking as one of their picks. Don't underestimate a women's want of having her guts blown out by a good looking dude.... Especially these modern, post-feminist women that seem more likely than ever to rebel against traditional positive qualities in mates....

When you mean by intelligence do you mean book smart or common sense?

define intelligent?

Goodlooking and emotionally stable.

Hmm, well, I'd have to ask what you think is the difference between "book smarts" and "common sense" is.... I often hear the distinction made but I personally don't think it's black and white like that.

To try and answer...I guess there are certainly different forms of "intelligence". I suppose that for me, at least in regards to "intelligent spouse"...I just mean general "sharpness" or "brightness". Someone that can write a letter that doesn't have grammatical or spelling errors. Someone that seems knowledgeable about different cultures and art. Or just someone that can use their smarts to better themselves or other people in some way.That sort of thing. Hillary Banks is like, my ideal version of a "Gorgeous, but dumb as rocks" girl.... (But she *was* relatively stable until the Trevor incident).

I suppose that a good distinction can be found in Michael Scott's two main love interest on The Office.

Put the "good looking" category aside for a moment (I don't find either of them particularly noteworthy although Jan sometimes has her moments). Jan was intelligent....but completely emotionally unstable. She was a fukking wreck for a large portion of the show's run, even though she was typically portrayed as "smart" (At least as smart as an Office character could be). Holly on the other hand....about as dumb as Michael...but seemed relatively stable and mature....

 

[concise]

Emotionally stable and Intelligent for me.

I'm not in my twenties anymore, so emotional stability is a must. I can't deal with a 10 year old in a grown ass woman's body. You don't have to be a super genius either, but you have to have a great deal of intelligence for all the years you've lived. I'm not gonna date a total dumbass that I can't have conversation with.

I'd be attracted to whomever I'm with anyway, so the good looking part is neither here nor there.

Complete cosign.

 

[Commander in Chiefin]

Emotionally stable ? Nobody wants whack p*ssy I'll take intelligent and good looking, along with that good wet wet

 

[Ashley Banks]

Emotionally stable and good looking.

Men that aren't emotionally stable end up killing people.

 

[Emperor Sol]

I'm going to speak from a life-partner angle here:

Emotionally stable and intelligent.

As long as she's not ugly (and can do basic things and is a down-ass chick) it's no big deal if she isn't "good looking"

In terms of LTRs, I'd go for a homely looking woman over a hot bytch any day.

 

[The 2020 New Member]

forget that intelligence. some people are too smart for their own good. plus i like to tell people what to do, so a ditzy partner that knows i'm not trying to be rude is a plus.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

This shyt really got me contemplating which option to pick

 

[Dooby]

I'd take good looking and sane anyday. Intelligent people aren't as fun/entertaining as stupid people. And let's also not forget there's a gray area between being intelligent and being stupid. So that's what I'm going to assume that's what this chart denotes.