which one do women in general desire more:poll

[Coco Loco]

But what if the unattractive man uses mouthpiece?

That's the greatest lie the coli ever told men. I give a lot of leeway to faces but there's a limit

Wayment!!! I ain’t know u was married sis! Let me
find out another unruly modern chick done jumped the broom! Congrats!

Thanks darling. That pandemic was wild




Who else jumped the broom?

And yeah. Good sis @Coco Loco is correct.

Security first.
The desire for attention is HIGHLY conditional. We only want it from the individuals we find attractive. Attractiveness is important too, but security is tantamount. That’s why women are so career focused and all about a bag these days. It’s so they can afford to do what they want, when they want without having to rely on somebody they may not be attracted to.
Security allows you to avoid dating from a deficit mindset as a woman.
So when you date, you can look at other factors like real legit attraction, actual compatibility, if you actually like him or not, vs worrying about dating for survival or to pay the rent.

Thank you. Beyond looking nice what can attractiveness do for me in the long run? Putting attraction first is some young girl stuff. That's stuff you do when you're just looking to have fun. Once a woman reaches a certain age, it's time to get serious and think about the long game

 

[cauliflower]

Security then an attractive partner.

 

[cauliflower]

Attention is the official currency for women. If you know you know, they can have all the security, money in the world but if they ain't getting no attention/validation then their life feels incomplete.

Shopping spree> attention.

 

[360dagod]

She prefers you to be what she is CURRENTLY missing...

 

[KGlock]

Shopping spree> attention.

yet here you are on a male dominated forum

 

[SupaHotIce]

For the purpose of this thread, black women

Attention easily, but with the rise of the redpill and podcast shyt, they will puff up their chest and talk about security to seem mature

 

[Jalether]

Shopping spree> attention.

That's a lie
The third reason why most relationships and marriage fail is lack of attention behind infidelity and finance

A woman that's "content" with lack of attention is a woman that's cheating and getting that attention somewhere else

 

[Jalether]

Look at the poll.

One of the options is "strong attractive genes" aside from security. These are two separate options.

You went and said "Nothing in this world beats security" Therefore, you desire security more than attraction.

Too me that implies that, if you had to choose, you would take a man who has security but is unattractive.

So I just wanted you to clarify and I was curious to know.

Strong attractive genes in this case is more about the woman's chances of producing attractive kids than sexual attraction. I should have clarified that in the OP

 

[AAKing23]

Saw number 1 and had to look no further. Attention is at the root of everything women do.

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

Strong attractive genes in this case is more about the woman's chances of producing attractive kids than sexual attraction. I should have clarified that in the OP

There's huge overlap because she won't feel like you'll give her attractive genes if she doesn't feel any attraction for you.

They're usually not looking at an average guy and going "I bet he'll give me good looking children".

But I know what you mean. There are women out there who have children with white men for the genes, but are not attracted to that man.

 

[Jalether]

There's huge overlap because she won't feel like you'll give her attractive genes if she doesn't feel any attraction for you.

They're usually not looking at an average guy and going "I bet he'll give me good looking children".

But I know what you mean. There are women out there who have children with white men for the genes, but are not attracted to that man.

This is not necessarily the case. Women might find a short but handsome guy attractive in a he's cute and can get the business kind of way and will even fukk him but they don't see him a serious relationship material

I submit that there are two types of Attractiveness from a woman's perspective

The first one is more about how handsome a guy is then there's the the complete package look wise and if given the choice, women will seek the latter as mating partner and to marry or have long-term relationship with.

 

[Antwon Mitchell]

There is no definitive answer to the question.

Every woman is different.

That's why y'all continue to struggle with women en route to becoming a redpill nutty because some of you think you have all the answers and know a woman inside and outside.

When in reality you don't, then come to realize, mad that you guessed wrong, back to square one crying on TheColi about how women are “this and that”.

You should always approach women with an open mind because every woman is different from the last and will be different from the next.

 

[Greenhornet]

it wouldnt be security, dont see how that got the most votes

 

[cauliflower]

yet here you are on a male dominated forum

Not here to date.

 

[cauliflower]

That's a lie
The third reason why most relationships and marriage fail is lack of attention behind infidelity and finance

A woman that's "content" with lack of attention is a woman that's cheating and getting that attention somewhere else

How is it a lie? Lack of attention and infidelity are different things.