F*ckthemkids
Superstar
It is there business but she's heartless.
I get working extra so hard so that your wife can be a stay at home mum. I'd be willing to do the same thing.
What isn't excusable is getting the Tesla. Just because someone makes a grand gesture, doesn't mean you have to accept. That was the appropriate time to step in and say she'd much rather get a less expensive car so that he could spend more time with the family.
"Nope...I'm good. I'll take a more reasonable/functional car. You take the rest of that money and invest it".