It’s a simple fix tho imo. Call these types out publicly in support of the other gender
mf be scared to speak they mind tho
It’s because they hide these thoughts from people in real life.
My ex was pretending to be pro black and pretending that she had no issue with Black Men meanwhile she was bashing black men on her social media burner accounts and had a deep disdain for Black Men and I was the none the wiser

They are not stupid. You will not know unless they want you to know.