i gotta tell a white chick atleast once every 2 or 3 months
im not interested lol
they cool personality wise
but they wouldnt understand shyt im goin thru
That's the biggest problem really. When it comes down to it, will you be able to talk to them about your everyday life/experience like you would a black woman?
It took my girl a while to understand, because even though she was raised in a very multicultural background, grew up with pakistani, black friends etc... she didn't understand that when I told her something I was going through it wasn't because I blamed her or wanted her to fix it.
So she would just cry and get upset because she felt bad for it or didn't know what to say about it...I had to be like

I'm not going to stop sharing my life with you just because you get upset. If you don't like it, you can walk. I'm not changing as a black man you have to put up with a lot of shyt.
Now she can handle it, it's not awkward like it was where she had that whitewashed understanding of multiculturalism and didn't get it.
Granted, we watched a lot of Black folks docs and stuff I wouldn't have to do with a black gal...
She wasn't some ignorant racist bytch though, so it wasn't like I had to pull her leg. She wanted to understand...all of her former boyfriends were people of color, Muslims, Indians etc... she never dated a white guy before, but I was her first serious long term relationship with a black man.
Most of these relationships don't work because white folks will never completely get us, no matter how understanding they are...and you end up having to accept that no matter how much they read, no matter how many people they talk to, no matter where they grew up or knew people in the hood etc... they will never completely get it.
And she has the most unique background of any white person I've ever met, educated but grew up among blacks, indians, asians, etc... and has lived all over the world. So...she's not your everyday woman.
. Same for black folks, the white woman isn't fantasizing about the average black dude.
at you thinkin' white b*tches be fantasizin' about Patrice O'Neal. People fantasize about attractive people, irregardless of race. In fact, the correct way would be to say that basic human attraction is colorless. Regardless of any prejudices that you might have, your body and senses can't deny a physically attractive human being. It has a lot less to do with skin color, and more to do with body type and physical condition. Contrary to popular belief, the average black girl (ESPECIALLY in the US) doesn't have a skinny waist and phat azz like you, if most black girls were built like Kenya Moore or Buffie the Body, nikkas would be like
at black chicks, we wouldn't go so crazy over a phat azz if the majority of black girls had one.


I'll just keep smashin Pawgs while y'all nyggaz complain

