Who Comes First?


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The Intergalactic Koala

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Made a mistake of putting my mother first in the early stages of marriage, only to realize that she was jealous of me being married and a father :francis:

The worst case came when we went up to see her and our child ages ago, and she changed her mind about wanting to spend time with our son.

Another incident, she didn't open our family picture we FINALLY took, and within that final year, she passed away.

As much as I loved my mother, that shyt and her manipulation will always pains my heart.
 

Umoja

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1. Daughter.
2. Wife.
3. Sister.
4. Mum.

I'm not interested in these technical takes on the stability of the marriage and yada yada yada. Gun to their heads, that's the pecking order.

It lowkey makes me sick when I see grown men fawning over their mothers. It tells me that they don't value their word and vows.
 

Henny and_ HotWings

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Daughter should go first. You and your girl could break up whenever. Your daughter your daughter for life
Exactly! a whole bunch of simps in here just exposed themselves lmaoooo

Bro, your kids come before your wife… period… because they didn’t ask to be here and plus it’s your obligation as a father to steer them right, ensure they’re taken care of and brought up and shaped so that they become a healthy productive member of society… plus like one dude said, your wife could leave you, cheat on you, do you EXTREMELY dirty at the drop of a hat… but you are never supposed to turn your bad on the children YOU made though
 
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Wildin

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How you treat your mother dictates how you treat your wife. God willing you spend as much time with your wife as you did being raised by your mother. With divorce rates so high and other dysfunction it's unlikely.

Your child is a product of both, requiring patience and nurturing.
 

DonB90

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Daughter
Mom
Wife

Two of em is blood,


one of them might put a knife in your back and turn it slowly while cackling with joy
 

Shadow

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1. Wife (that's who I'm supposed to cleave to.)

2. Mom (I only got one, can't get another.)

3. Daughter (Sorry, but we can make more. :hmm:)
 
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