Who do you call when your at the lowest? Men answer "No One" VIDEO

[Ziggiy]

The only woman that will ever sincerely care about your feelings are your mother and grandmother, and most of the time they will be the ones to tell you to toughen up.

nikkas keep getting tripped up thinking they can come to their girl and reveal their insecurities. You can only talk to them about flaws that wouldn't bother you if they got out e.g. being worried that all women want you for is sex, thinking you work too hard, being worried that you'll never be able to own more than one house. E.g. 'problems' that make you look good.

Women like the idea of a vulnerable man more than the reality. In my experience I've seen it happen to me and other men where we open up and then women lose respect and the 'spark' is gone. Most women not prepared to actually deal with the problems men disclose to them.

Sad but true fact




I only allow myself to “complain” to a woman i’m with ONCE per calendar year. Anything else and she ain’t trying to hear it

 

[blockburna420]

Nobody they dead now

Trust none and suspect all

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

Had that very thing happened to me in real time.

I was so shocked I was like damn this is how the game really works


These hoes ain’t shyt

Still tho it is a cheat code to immediately turn women off

Like I say. Your 'problems' should be shyt that can still make hoes think "hmm maybe he ain't so bad " when your ex is trying to vent to them.

"He said he struggles with dating because women always assume he's got other women on the side and its frustrating"

"He always trying to work and earn extra money. I just wanted to see him more, I told him I didn't care if he was saving up for a resort vacation for us"

"I always tried to reassure him i wasn't like other girls and I wanted him for him and not what he can do in the bedroom"

Home girl be listening like "im sorry you had to go through that......Whats his IG so I know its him if he tries to slide into my DMs to get back with you?"

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

To be honest with you, I have a couple of close friends, that I’ve known since my preteen years, that I can go to and put my problems on. My brothers too. But I know my people got they own issues and own shyt going on, so I don’t wanna add to their plate by emotionally dumping on them.

I usually cope by watching YouTube videos about whatever issue I’m going through if I just need to hear an outside perspective, reading books, listening to music, or going on long road trips to clear my mind. I find these things therapeutic. And while they may not be conventional or work for everyone, I find they lighten my load a whole lot. I have also mastered the art of maintaining perspective. I got this stress management shyt down to a science. I’ve had way more experience with it than any one man should have to bare

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

Had that very thing happened to me in real time.

I was so shocked I was like damn this is how the game really works


These hoes ain’t shyt

Still tho it is a cheat code to immediately turn women off

This shyt happened to me so many times. Thought some females at different points in my life REALLY had my back, was there for me like I was for them, etc. The very minute I had a hiccup in my life or shyt wasn’t sweet and and a benefit FOR HER to be associated with me, it’s like a switch went off and she IMMEDIATELY switched up and grew distant and cold. Wasn’t even the same woman who I THOUGHT I knew…

When these women/ IG thots run their asses on social media and talk about how they’ll “hold their man down”, it’s always in reference to some millionaire rapper or athlete that they done sunk their hooks into that they know, deep down, will never need it. They say it because it sounds good written in an IG caption, not because they EVER plan on having to practice it. If their well to do man ever fell off, they would not “hold him down”, as they love to holler. They’ll block his number, turn their backs, and won’t give him a second thought while heartlessly plotting on the next rich dummy they can sucker into financing their lifestyle. Stop thinking women won’t change up on you. THEY WiLL. Not a matter of “if”, but WHEN

 

[I AM WE ARE]

I think this thread answers the question of why men, especially us black men, die earlier, are in jail, have mental breakdowns etc

Too many times I've had my trust in someone shattered (wife, family member, etc) once that's done the answer is always"I'm good" and keep it pushing. My uncle old school Muslim he says"no one but Allah should hear your worries, concerns, etc"

 

[TaxCollector13459]

I'll just keep it bottled up inside until I snap and take it out on some random hipster cac from Ohio..

bra goin fukk round and drop one in chipotle




imagine getting yo azz beat by the trash can just to end up a post on the Coli

 

[Neuromancer]

 

[Ironman]

Not a damn one so I bury and internalize that shyt until it kills me

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Can't relate

Got 2 cool ass parents
And other family

 

[Speaking Womanese]

Just put on the front

and keep it moving.

 

[Be Strong Blackman]

Irl or on here?

Irl

 

[Savvir]

This thread is dumb.

If you are in anyway a solid man who is ambitious, confident, functionally intelligent and not an scary introvert...

You would have naturally built a reliable social circle and day 1's that will gladly provide support through your through hard times.

Let me put this another way....

If you in any way shall or form have nikkas that will "ride" for you...
Those same nikkas will be there to help you get through whatever you're struggling with.

 

[EVILRICO]

Yeah nobody is the answer.
But when I’m feeling really bad, I play madden on super easy to pick up my spirits

 

[Womb Raider]

No one, and I learned that the hard way.