Who In Here Has Been Divorced?

[Schmoove]

Checks in

This nikka here..

You must be past your dark stage of post-divorce

 

[Kalik]

This nikka here..

You must be past your dark stage of post-divorce

Only feel bad for the kids

Me I'm stage

 

[twan83]

Never got married but my ex and I was living together for the past 6 years and we have 2 kids together. Losing my kids was the hardest thing I've ever had to go thru. It hurts even worse knowing they have to be around her crazy family. I want to fight for them but Texas is hard plus I have to wait for some ish to clear up and she is now working for CPS which would make it harder. TWAN83 what part of Texas are you from?

El Paso and U?
Its hot as hell out here right now

 

[Texas2step]

El Paso and U?
Its hot as hell out here right now

Houston...Just wondering because it hard as hell to get custody in Harris County(Houston)

 

[twan83]

Houston...Just wondering because it hard as hell to get custody in Harris County(Houston)

Sorry to hear that just gotta be on your toes and bring up as much dirt as possible with evidence so they can see them as a bad parent if they are a bad parent

Just because the system see's dead beat dads doesnt mean we all our there are some of us who are better parents than the mother and the kid or kids should be with us and it makes me mad that we get short changed

In my case she was just dumb and signed the papers

 

[Texas2step]

Sorry to hear that just gotta be on your toes and bring up as much dirt as possible with evidence so they can see them as a bad parent if they are a bad parent

Just because the system see's dead beat dads doesnt mean we all our there are some of us who are better parents than the mother and the kid or kids should be with us and it makes me mad that we get short changed

In my case she was just dumb and signed the papers

Well she is college educated and was a valedictorian plus she is working for Child Protective Service . The only thing I got on her is she has her sister living with her and her daughter hasn't had any medical shots and she is 4 years old which is neglect. If I report that she would lose her job and they would take the girl away since she has sworn an oath to protect all kids but Im not that evil but It maybe my only way. I have my kids right now for the summer so I'll see where it goes before I do that

 

[twan83]

Well she is college educated and was a valedictorian plus she is working for Child Protective Service . The only thing I got on her is she has her sister living with her and her daughter hasn't had any medical shots and she is 4 years old which is neglect. If I report that she would lose her job and they would take the girl away since she has sworn an oath to protect all kids but Im not that evil but It maybe my only way. I have my kids right now for the summer so I'll see where it goes before I do that

ya think very carefully about that cuz she would lose her job and alot more than that also she would come back for you hard as hell so make sure you got your shyt straight man but really think about it though cuz there could be some severe consequences doing that

I put it to you like this if you know your kids aren't being taken care of properly and she ain't no good i say go for it. Im down for doing whatever it takes to get your kids but i'm not down if the other parent is actually a good parent and screwing them over gotta be the bigger person in that situation but like if you ain't getting enough visitation that you think u should just show proof how much more your kids need to see you no reason to get all DIRTY about it in that situation.

If you have proof that your kids need you more in their life a judge will be willingly to increase the visitation.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Thread is crazy. I never been married but I had some of the same depressed moments when me and my ex broke up. I can only imagine if we were married!

Its scary man. I think that men and women look at marriage differently. Some women want to get married because their friends are settling down. Some women get married to have kids in wedlock. Some want to fairytale wedding with great pictures, gown, and their best friends. All these are temporary and have no influence on the 'til death do us part journey that a lot of honest men believe in. Men are conditioned to believe in loyalty 'til death, look at the military, mafias, gangs, etc. Women are flaky creatures by nature. They change their friends often. They always have a new best friend. Almost 80% of divorces are filed by women and its not because the men are cheating and beating their wives. Women are smarter than men give them credit for. A lot of women go into marriage expecting to leave you when they get what they want, whether its kids, guarantee of half, a great wedding, etc. Once they have you where they want, you lose value to them...now she don't want to have sex with you, fights with you over small stuff, treats you like crap. Then the marriage is done. It cold world out their brethren and women are starting to take over.

I dapped this, pos repped it, and had to quote it. The realist shyt ever. I tell my female friends this all the time. They don't have the same concept of loyalty as men do. Even a dude that cheats will give his last dime to his girl if it came down to it.

Well, brehs.

I have been pondering starting an affair with my college girlfriend. She is unhappily married (I am unmarried), and she looks and fukks like Renae Cruz (), minus the horrible tattoo and fukked-up looking beatbox.

But after reading through this thread, it's a no-go. Her husband is actually a decent dude, and I couldn't put him through what ya'll are describing.

While that was a good deed... please believe that if not you, there's somebody else she's thinking of stepping out with. The world is fukked up man.

 

[skaNo]

thread is depressing ...

I dont even wanna get married , I just wanna have a seed out there with out any BM drama..

 

[Stuntone]

When men could beat their wives, you didn't hear any of these problems. I'm just saying tho :





*Plays Barry White "Bring Back My Yesterday"

 

[BigSteve]

good luck

don't be afraid to spoil yourself to get some relaxation or relief from the stress of the situation.

next to the death of a spouse or close family member, there's no greater life stressor. this time in your life could have long-term implications on your LIFE if you let it. stay strong, look to your best friends and family for guidance and help through all this. continue to post online too, as I'm sure it's helping to get these emotions out in some way.

 

[kevm3]

Well, brehs.

I have been pondering starting an affair with my college girlfriend. She is unhappily married (I am unmarried), and she looks and fukks like Renae Cruz (), minus the horrible tattoo and fukked-up looking beatbox.

But after reading through this thread, it's a no-go. Her husband is actually a decent dude, and I couldn't put him through what ya'll are describing.

Yeah, it's a respectable choice for a man to leave a married or taken woman alone simply for out of respect for another man and the pain you can give him... and you have to think how it can affect their kids if they have any. A man finding his wife getting dug out by another man is the kind of pain that will make a normally peaceful man take some lives, including his own. Plus you don't want to get in the process of rewarding a disloyal jumpship.

 

[kevm3]

Its scary man. I think that men and women look at marriage differently. Some women want to get married because their friends are settling down. Some women get married to have kids in wedlock. Some want to fairytale wedding with great pictures, gown, and their best friends. All these are temporary and have no influence on the 'til death do us part journey that a lot of honest men believe in. Men are conditioned to believe in loyalty 'til death, look at the military, mafias, gangs, etc. Women are flaky creatures by nature. They change their friends often. They always have a new best friend. Almost 80% of divorces are filed by women and its not because the men are cheating and beating their wives. Women are smarter than men give them credit for. A lot of women go into marriage expecting to leave you when they get what they want, whether its kids, guarantee of half, a great wedding, etc. Once they have you where they want, you lose value to them...now she don't want to have sex with you, fights with you over small stuff, treats you like crap. Then the marriage is done. It cold world out their brethren and women are starting to take over.

A huge problem these days is that there's very little reason for a woman to stay loyal. If she cheats, she walks off scott-free because you got the new guy that she was cheating with still rewarding her with sex and affection until he gets sick of her... but then all she has to do is go get another dude. She probably had some other dude in addition to the one she cheated with in the background who consoles her, listens to her problems and gives her emotional fulfillment.

What's sad is a woman can actually be REWARDED for infidelity if she's married. This is why I don't advise men to mess with married women or even women who have a man and they are unmarried. It's hard enough as is, but to reward unloyal women only exacerbates the problem we have going on in this day and age. As a man we simply must consider matters higher than getting some vagina.

 

[Kalik]

 

[BlvdBrawler]

While that was a good deed... please believe that if not you, there's somebody else she's thinking of stepping out with. The world is fukked up man.

Yea she's a real ratchet hoe man. Even if she and I had gotten married, she'd be calling some other dude talmbout "It shoulda been youuuuuu."