Who In Here Has Been Divorced?

[twan83]

nah breh, i just can never fathom why any dude would get married unless the broad was cakin

I can understand that its just a choice some of us make.

To be honest in my younger years i was same way fukk marriage not for me as i had my fun but once i had my fun got more mature and wiser i started to want those things a wife kids a house and thats what i did

Now granted my situation didnt work out and was bad

My outlook did change on not wanting again to be honest but sometimes certain things happen that can change your mind bout what you want and it did for me
and im happy bout it

 

[twan83]

I filed for divorce from my wife cause things weren't working out. For me, the hardest part is being separated from your kids. Being reduced to a part time parent is tough, especially when you're accustomed to living with your kid and seeing them everyday.

This i know has to be real tough for you. I'm gonna say this and not try to disrespect your ex but if you feel your a better parent and know for a fact she isn't a good parent try to get custody of the kids or at least more visitation time

Let's say she is a good parent regardless try to get more visitation time so your kids can see you more and you can be with them more.

The legal system is not good to us good father's who try to do the right thing. The only downside to fighting for more visitation or custody is the effect it can have on the kids.

To be honest if i was in your situation i dont care what kind of parent she is i would want as much visitation as possible if i can't get custody of my kids cuz where im at the normal visitation is dumb ass fukk

the other parent gets to see the kids every other weekend wtf kind shyt is that when you been around them all this time that aint even right

Then its also rotate your holidays and summers with the kids. I'll be damn if i lose custody of my kids like that i rather go broke fighting for my kids rights and visitation then be without them they are the MOST PRECIOUS THING TO ME IN THIS WORLD and taking that from me IS fukkED UP

 

[Marvel]

Its scary man. I think that men and women look at marriage differently. Some women want to get married because their friends are settling down. Some women get married to have kids in wedlock. Some want to fairytale wedding with great pictures, gown, and their best friends. All these are temporary and have no influence on the 'til death do us part journey that a lot of honest men believe in. Men are conditioned to believe in loyalty 'til death, look at the military, mafias, gangs, etc. Women are flaky creatures by nature. They change their friends often. They always have a new best friend. Almost 80% of divorces are filed by women and its not because the men are cheating and beating their wives. Women are smarter than men give them credit for. A lot of women go into marriage expecting to leave you when they get what they want, whether its kids, guarantee of half, a great wedding, etc. Once they have you where they want, you lose value to them...now she don't want to have sex with you, fights with you over small stuff, treats you like crap. Then the marriage is done. It cold world out their brethren and women are starting to take over.

 

[Angel On The Rag]

I can understand that its just a choice some of us make.

To be honest in my younger years i was same way fukk marriage not for me as i had my fun but once i had my fun got more mature and wiser i started to want those things a wife kids a house and thats what i did

Now granted my situation didnt work out and was bad

My outlook did change on not wanting again to be honest but sometimes certain things happen that can change your mind bout what you want and it did for me
and im happy bout it

a wife is just a synonym for a girlfriend

and you can have kids without getting married

and a house

 

[twan83]

a wife is just a synonym for a girlfriend

and you can have kids without getting married

and a house

You are very right :mahnikka:

Some of us just choose to do it the other way cuz it has more meaning to us

Either way is fine there is no wrong way to do it

 

[Schmoove]

:mahnikka:

 

[BlvdBrawler]

Well, brehs.

I have been pondering starting an affair with my college girlfriend. She is unhappily married (I am unmarried), and she looks and fukks like Renae Cruz (), minus the horrible tattoo and fukked-up looking beatbox.

But after reading through this thread, it's a no-go. Her husband is actually a decent dude, and I couldn't put him through what ya'll are describing.

 

[Lakers Offseason]

Never been married. I had two co-workers that I'm cool with that went through it. They went through it man. One was living from his truck and bouncing from house to house, it was real bad. He didn't tell me about it for a while. The other one lost EVERYTHING, job/kids/home/car/dignity. He contemplated suicide. He didn't do it and he is doing a lot better and is very happy, still has a great relationship with his kids. I listened to a voice message that his 10 year old daughter left him. It was like "Daddy, I miss you, I love you daddy, I think about you all the time. School is going well, but I want to spend time with you. I can't wait to see you again"...This went on for about 5 minutes. It was touching brehs.

Damn, and to think that fatherless girl could end up in Xhamster.com in 8 years.

 

[PrnzHakeem]

Thread makes me want to go home and lay up under my wife all night

 

[MikelArteta]

Its scary man. I think that men and women look at marriage differently. Some women want to get married because their friends are settling down. Some women get married to have kids in wedlock. Some want to fairytale wedding with great pictures, gown, and their best friends. All these are temporary and have no influence on the 'til death do us part journey that a lot of honest men believe in. Men are conditioned to believe in loyalty 'til death, look at the military, mafias, gangs, etc. Women are flaky creatures by nature. They change their friends often. They always have a new best friend. Almost 80% of divorces are filed by women and its not because the men are cheating and beating their wives. Women are smarter than men give them credit for. A lot of women go into marriage expecting to leave you when they get what they want, whether its kids, guarantee of half, a great wedding, etc. Once they have you where they want, you lose value to them...now she don't want to have sex with you, fights with you over small stuff, treats you like crap. Then the marriage is done. It cold world out their brethren and women are starting to take over.

I posted this in another thread

you can save a man from a burning building and he will feel loyalty towards you for the rest of his life. No matter if this was your sworn enemy at one point, s because men have senses of honor and integrity whereas women are utterly bereft and incapable of developing these.

you can save a chick with two kids from a abusive relationship the first guy to ever treat her like a human being, and she will still cheat and leave you for her deadbeat baby dad who assaulted her

 

[Marvel]

Damn, and to think that fatherless girl could end up in Xhamster.com in 8 years.

 

[Marvel]

I posted this in another thread

you can save a man from a burning building and he will feel loyalty towards you for the rest of his life. No matter if this was your sworn enemy at one point, s because men have senses of honor and integrity whereas women are utterly bereft and incapable of developing these.

you can save a chick with two kids from a abusive relationship the first guy to ever treat her like a human being, and she will still cheat and leave you for her deadbeat baby dad who assaulted her

True. Women don't operate under the same rules as men. That's why men still don't see it coming. Girls are the best liars, I'm mean think about the lengths they are wlling to go to act like they are in love with a dude and still have alterior motives. I mean a women will have sex and marry a man who she is not attracted to and fake it for years, even decades to get something out of it. I can't fake being in love and sexin Rosie O'donnell, but a woman can do that for Jack Black.

 

[DalMem]

All these stories sound like how my brother is acting now.

I just don't understand how nikkas act all emotional over females.

Guess I'm just a different type of nikka.

 

[Texas2step]

Never got married but my ex and I was living together for the past 6 years and we have 2 kids together. Losing my kids was the hardest thing I've ever had to go thru. It hurts even worse knowing they have to be around her crazy family. I want to fight for them but Texas is hard plus I have to wait for some ish to clear up and she is now working for CPS which would make it harder. TWAN83 what part of Texas are you from?

 

[Kalik]

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