Who In Here Has Been Divorced?

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I feel bad for yall. But for those that got divorced would u marry again on some ron swanson ish
 
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I'm so-so nowadays, but we seperated last August and I've never been so messed up emotionally in YEARS. It's really fukked up and if I wasn't strong individual I would have given up already. You lose a huge part of yourself when your marriage falls apart. We're not divorced yet.

It hit me when she collected the rest of her stuff in January. My sister was there cos she told me it would be better if I left the house while she (my sister) stayed and let my wife and her dad collect the rest of her things. When my sister called me and told me they'd left, I came back to the house and seeing the place half empty was devastating because that's when it finally hits you that its really over. If it wasn't my friend and my sister staying with me that night I don't know how I would have coped with that shyt, because believe me it was really bad. My sister has been divorced so she understood.

But the pain you feel, I wouldn't wish on my worse enemy. Time is a healer though and although I'm not over it yet I'm better than how I was six months ago. Thankfully we never had children together. I just want the divorce to be over once and for all so I can truly move on with my life, what she does after that is up to her.
what happened? how did it fall apart?
 

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I'm so-so nowadays, but we seperated last August and I've never been so messed up emotionally in YEARS. It's really fukked up and if I wasn't strong individual I would have given up already. You lose a huge part of yourself when your marriage falls apart. We're not divorced yet.

It hit me when she collected the rest of her stuff in January. My sister was there cos she told me it would be better if I left the house while she (my sister) stayed and let my wife and her dad collect the rest of her things. When my sister called me and told me they'd left, I came back to the house and seeing the place half empty was devastating because that's when it finally hits you that its really over. If it wasn't my friend and my sister staying with me that night I don't know how I would have coped with that shyt, because believe me it was really bad. My sister has been divorced so she understood.

But the pain you feel, I wouldn't wish on my worse enemy. Time is a healer though and although I'm not over it yet I'm better than how I was six months ago. Thankfully we never had children together. I just want the divorce to be over once and for all so I can truly move on with my life, what she does after that is up to her.

Breh, it took me a good year, year and a half until my mind was 100% right again. There are times you'll think shyt is all good, and something pops up, and you take two steps back. I think the worst part is the fact that you've lost the trust and best friend you were supposed to have for life. All the shyt you had planned in your head, gets tossed into the bushes :birdman:
shyt left me cold hearted too, I definitely fukked up with some good chicks afterwards, due to being "emotionally unavailable" :ld:
 

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I have fam that nearly bodied themself because of a bad breakup. Cant imagine a marriage where one person still loves the other. Itll scar you but hopefully you're in shape and athletically fit because suicide is for the weak.
 

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Men take divorce worse than women because there really is no outlet to talk about it.

Divorced men are twice as likely to commit suicide, as well more times than not your ex wife is out there getting dikked down, while you on some online dating site looking at old chicks
 

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I'm so-so nowadays, but we seperated last August and I've never been so messed up emotionally in YEARS. It's really fukked up and if I wasn't strong individual I would have given up already. You lose a huge part of yourself when your marriage falls apart. We're not divorced yet.

It hit me when she collected the rest of her stuff in January. My sister was there cos she told me it would be better if I left the house while she (my sister) stayed and let my wife and her dad collect the rest of her things. When my sister called me and told me they'd left, I came back to the house and seeing the place half empty was devastating because that's when it finally hits you that its really over. If it wasn't my friend and my sister staying with me that night I don't know how I would have coped with that shyt, because believe me it was really bad. My sister has been divorced so she understood.

But the pain you feel, I wouldn't wish on my worse enemy. Time is a healer though and although I'm not over it yet I'm better than how I was six months ago. Thankfully we never had children together. I just want the divorce to be over once and for all so I can truly move on with my life, what she does after that is up to her.

best thing to do is just up and leave and travel

i took two months off
 

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shyt, if you think you need psyche meds to get through it, fukking take them.
Going through that was LITERALLY the worst experience of my life. (And we still aren't even divorced yet because of retarded divorce laws that say you have to be "separated" a year before you can even file. :wtb: :no::snoop:)

I was ON meds and I STILL had days where I contemplated walking in front of a bus or some shyt.

:noah:

shyt's good as fukk now though. :shaq:

kmom?
 

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i have no words for this thread damn :to:

no i have two

fukk marriage :pacspit:
 
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