Who needs reprogramming: the men, women or both?

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This is a good video. Someone posted it a few weeks ago. It just goes to show gender roles and relationships have been complicated in the Black community for a while.
400 years behind enemy lines will do that to a community. :francis: Do you think it'll ever be fixed?
 

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400 years behind enemy lines will do that to a community. :francis: Do you think it'll ever be fixed?

It will be fixed if folks would be honest about what they want.

Black men for the most part have been. I don't think we ask for anything more than the average man would ask of a wife (regardless of race, nationality etc).

Black women have said what they wanted and what they won't do (be traditional wives and the million of excuses why they can't be feminine).

If the two sides can't come to an agreement then maybe they don't need to be together. What is the point of being together if there is always conflict?
 

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400 years behind enemy lines will do that to a community. :francis: Do you think it'll ever be fixed?
I think it will get worse before it gets better. It’s just a bad mix of capitalism, generational trauma, superficial desires, gender power struggle, and social media added to the struggles we already have going on just being Black.

And what’s crazy is that even dating back to when this video was made, the focus on whether Black men or women should change when it was the system oppressing Black men which then made the Black woman enter the workforce. But we still blamed each other instead of the systems that cause our families to be in a constant state of struggle.
 
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Thats a powerful fukking clip

In 2,3 sentences she summed up the entire gender war fiasco. Talks to something nggas on here scare me with, which is paying too much attention to what women say. Women will say bullshyt bc it sounds nice on the internet, and say it in person just to see if you’ll call em out. What other group says shyt like ‘I need a man who will call me on my bullshyt’. :heh:That’s what women have said for ages and what she’s saying here.

New generation has completely fell for the okey doke and forgotten what a woman’s nature is…and as this woman points out, it makes them keep going and get worse.
 
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