Who needs reprogramming: the men, women or both?

[TheKongoEmpire]

It will be fixed if folks would be honest about what they want.

Black men for the most part have been. I don't think we ask for anything more than the average man would ask of a wife (regardless of race, nationality etc).

Black women have said what they wanted and what they won't do (be traditional wives and the million of excuses why they can't be feminine).

If the two sides can't come to an agreement then maybe they don't need to be together. What is the point of being together if there is always conflict?

BGS (the video's channel owner) did state that black women weren't brought here to be our wives.

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

both

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Reprogramming? No.

Therapy/Counseling/Reparations? Absolutely.​

 

[malbaker86]

She aint even let that man speak

 

[skyrunner1]

Full clip for anyone who wants to see, David Hoffman be in the crates with his..

This 1970 informal discussion appeared on national television – PBS – and was part of a series of television specials that presented the Black American perspective from a Black point of view. The executive producer and director was Bill Greaves. Although most of the production crew were Black I worked for Bill Greaves on a regular basis as a freelance cameraman on some of his projects.

The reporter seen in this program worked for the Chicago Daily Defender, America's largest Black newspaper at the time. She was reporting on the emergence of the "new Black woman”. It was a time when Black Americans were talking about Black consciousness, Black is beautiful, Black power, and about the relationships between Black men and Black women - about the Black family structure and the values that men and women felt.

The film team set up a discussion between Black men and Black women that I found absolutely fascinating today in terms of what has happened to the Black family. As many of my subscribers know, I focus my YouTube presentations on several issues that were taking place in America in the 1950s, the 1960s and the 1970s and 80s and 90s. In 1970, so much of the work that I was asked to do and was asked of other independent documentary filmmakers, involved the evolving vocal Black culture. Many described it as a new "racial pride." As an American young person and a working independent documentary filmmaker back then, I found myself dealing with these subjects frequently. I never developed a strong political or social point of view because it wasn't my culture and I often found myself more of a witness then someone directly involved. This conversation between black men and black women is fascinating to me and I hope that it provokes an interesting dialogue in your comments when you see it. If you found this of interest I ask you to support my efforts to continue to present films like this by clicking the Super Thanks button below the video screen. Thank you David Hoffman filmmaker

 

[skyrunner1]

Oh and I would say both need help.. Its wild out here and seems to be getting worse rapidly

 

[TheKongoEmpire]

Do you think it's getting to the point Of no return? How much worse can it get? How does it get better? What does the bc look like in 50 years? 100? 200? Can the bc sustain itself the way it currently is?

Oh and I would say both need help.. Its wild out here and seems to be getting worse rapidly

 

[MoshpitMazi]

400 years behind enemy lines will do that to a community. Do you think it'll ever be fixed?

We have to be aware of the problem to fix it

 

[skyrunner1]

Do you think it's getting to the point Of no return? How much worse can it get? How does it get better? What does the bc look like in 50 years? 100? 200? Can the bc sustain itself the way it currently is?

The chances are extremely small, dam near nonexistent but I guess there is a chance, but not in our generation.. We are in a steep decline and the value system of degeneracy will only accelerate it.. It will get to a point where there will have to be a natural reset

 

[T. Dubb Ya]

I say both.. If you don't understand your role in a committed relationship, you have no business being in one.

 

[Mike809]

both men and women have wild expectations that they themselves can't fulfill.

 

[TheKongoEmpire]

The chances are extremely small, dam near nonexistent but I guess there is a chance, but not in our generation.. We are in a steep decline and the value system of degeneracy will only accelerate it.. It will get to a point where there will have to be a natural reset

Dudes here will cuss out for mentioning that. Same dudes who don't see an issue with the same current women are. They'll call you a lame and claim you're spreading CAC ideals. We both can see why it'll be a while before things change for the better. I've noticed the normalization of females showing their baby bumps but not the father.

 

[TheKongoEmpire]

We have to be aware of the problem to fix it

With the normalization of dysfunction, I don't see that happening.

 

[NatiboyB]

I think we all need reprogramming and I also think a lot of you have gotten comfortable to some of life’s harsher realities. People seem to have forgotten that a warrior class is needed. A warrior class can not be effeminate. We keep trying to force it and it’s not working. And it would be a detriment to society overall.

 

[OperationNumbNutts]

Both but she made a point.