Black folks just need to shut the fukk up and live life together. Most relationships fall in place where they need to be. The problem is social media and everyone having an input on what it should be when the important thing is how it works for y’all. You got married people who are swingers outchea fukkin and cuckin happy as shyt if that’s what works for them I ain’t Judgin.
Who needs reprogramming: the men, women or both?
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TheKongoEmpire
The First Men
What point was that?Both but she made a point.
TheKongoEmpire
The First Men
Who Not How
Superstar
If you've been saying for decades: "We aren't the problem, they are the problem" it's very hard to go back on that and admit your part in the dysfunction.
Men and women have pointed the finger at one another for so long, it's gonna take a miracle for Black America to get back to pre 1970s level of community. We don't have the guidance to get back on track. Lack of direction - not lack of time - is the problem.
Personally, I don't see it happening because a lot of quality Black men and Black women have already left the "gender war" and moved on to enjoy their short time on earth, whether in America or overseas. They aren't actively thinking about the ills of the Black community anymore, it's not a good way to spend your life. It's the dysfunctional people who love blaming the other side that are sticking around to keep the fire lit.
Men and women have pointed the finger at one another for so long, it's gonna take a miracle for Black America to get back to pre 1970s level of community. We don't have the guidance to get back on track. Lack of direction - not lack of time - is the problem.
Personally, I don't see it happening because a lot of quality Black men and Black women have already left the "gender war" and moved on to enjoy their short time on earth, whether in America or overseas. They aren't actively thinking about the ills of the Black community anymore, it's not a good way to spend your life. It's the dysfunctional people who love blaming the other side that are sticking around to keep the fire lit.
I say something wrong playa.
TheKongoEmpire
The First Men
You mentions bp need to STFU and Iive life together but weren't they already doing that? You also stated that social media is the problem but this video I posted is in the 70s and it seems that there has always seems to be a problem, clearly before the advent of SM.
It was a problem since slavery if we keeping it a buck. The black woman has been working ever since she got off the slave ship. Been the forefront of the family. Black woman independence been passed down for decades. Now obviously a two parent home where a women is raised under the gull of a submissive women can correct this problem. You can’t expect women raised by a single mother to automatically have that. Not saying they can’t but it’s more of a work in process.
The "warrior class" are now clout chasing demons themselves and now in entertainment making it hard for 9 to 5 black men to see quality companionship with his own woman. The "warrior class" been brainwashed into thinking that harming other black men and mocking black intellectualism is normal.
saturn7
Politics is an EXCHANGE!!!
BGS (the video's channel owner) did state that black women weren't brought here to be our wives.
He's talked about that often. I don't think most Bros are ready to hear all that, lol.
I'm getting tired of these circular arguments and think Bros are wasting their time talking about this stuff. These women will not change, don't want to change. Bros need to just do them and stop talking about it and stop explaining.
number21
Strive for rulership not equality, black man.
The men. Accountability falls onto us.
I think some men of all races are having a hard time adjusting to the modern era of women. BM just seem to be taking it the worst. BW were socially conditioned to just be happy to have a man in the past. That mindset is changing and BW are becoming more open to being single and/or dating out. The guilt tripping just isn't working anymore.
Vandelay
Life is absurd. Lean into it.
Gender roles aside; most of which are out of date anyway; I think both women and men are coming to the table with too many demands and not enough to offer. We could argue as to why, but having your shyt together gives you the option to ask and be accustomed to many things.
Men need to be trained to stop gassing up women. I'm talking all these thirst traps. Stop giving out pointless attention and adulation. Literally 5s and 6s get thousands of views and likes from 4s and 5s.
vloggers, only fans, all that shyt. cut it off. Stop dropping links and driving traffic. You're feeding the beast.
vloggers, only fans, all that shyt. cut it off. Stop dropping links and driving traffic. You're feeding the beast.
Vandelay
Life is absurd. Lean into it.
I deleted all the Instathots off the Gram. I still dap shyt up on here, but I realized I was a part of that problem. I don't inflate anyone's head up anymore. At least not through social media.
