who's the oldest person here on that "no marriage" tip?

[BlvdBrawler]

I got a friend, who's 35, single, never been married, a self-made millionaire, and no kids to me, dude seems to be living the dream, but he always complaining about dating broads and all the bullshyt he gotta put up with.

It's just me but putting up with bullshyt while getting new p*ssy > putting up with bullshyt and getting the same dried up slice of cooch you've had for 10 years.

I'd kill for that life .

 

[winb83]

im just sayin alot of these nikkas on this website
find reasons not to want p*ssy
yall put the p*ssy on a pedestal real talk man lol not even tryna joke
just be yourself and stop judgin females so much, thats where nikkas fukk up. they judge females too much...let em be

I've thrown p*ssy in the dumpster like cocaine. It's a helluva drug with mean high but the side effects and what it does to your life over time are damaging. p*ssy will inherently eat away at your quality of life an you'll have to make sacrifices for it.

I'm still a heterosexual male. The sexual attraction is still there an the physical desire is still there I just used logic to disarm it.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

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[sfgiants]

100% of my own success >>> sharing it with some bytch who's inevitably gonna grow old and sexually unappealing and a bunch of exhausting kids

lol word whats this sht i keep seeing about "sharing" your success with someone...

lol like ima slave away for years in school then put in work tap dancing as a corporate drone for more years on top of that just so i can buy some woman random things? my ex was demanding trips at one point, talkin bout "i been with u for 3 years and u aint ever take me nowhere, u make all this money and u dont wana spend it"


btch u wasnt with me shooting in the gym.

 

[CrimsonTider]

Aside from stigma, I'm not sure of any negative consequence for women as a result of a divorce.

That's not the worst case scenario that's typical. A man buys an engagement ring the couple has a wedding and the woman leaves the workforce to raise the kids. That's standard issue marriage. As a man you typically get the brunt end of all of it. Your buying the ring you're paying for or at least contributing to the wedding you're the breadwinner while she raises the kids. If the marriage falls apart you get penalized.

All you really stand to gain from it is limited access to vagina which dwindles as time goes on and children are produced. Someone to do household chores you can actually do for yourself an if you lived alone the quantity of such would be minimal. Someone to cook for you which again you can learn to do for yourself. Lastly supposed companionship with a person that probably doesn't share many of a guys core interest such as guy type movies, sports, video games, ect.

In exchange for those thing you give up your freedom you are forced to compromise for the sake of the relationship and to make her happy. You incur a great financial burden. You have to dedicate yourself and work hard at maintaining the relationship for the rest of your life if it goes that far and if it doesn't you surfer even more penalties.

I haven't met married person that talked to me about marriage and didn't tell me marriage is hard work. I always respond to them by saying being single is easy. I know what it's like to be knee deep in a relationship you're not gonna leave. To be emotionally invested in a person that you have a stressful difficult at times relationship with. That's the vibe most married people especially men give off when they talk to me. Like now that I married her I'm not gonna leave her but if I had to do it all over again I might think twice at least. It's the same vibe people who have unplanned children give off when they go I love my kids more than anything but if I could do it again I would have waited to have them. To me that's just living with your regrets.

More mothers are in the workforce then stay at home

 

[GetSomeMoney]

I'll check them out before I take the dive. The issue is just that heart shape, its not a very common shape people buy so many retailers don't carry them at all. Even blue nile doesn't have that large of a selection compared to say a round shape.

Yeah that heart shape is gonna cost you

 

[PimpHandStrong]

I think the main issue we have these days is no one has an example of a great marriage working out so most see he statistics and don't want to try it out.

That's not to say that holds true 100% but overall I believe that's the issue. Some straight up hate the idea all together.

 

[Luke Cage]

50% of married couples live happily ever after.

the other 50% stayed together.

 

[Binary]

I think the main issue we have these days is no one has an example of a great marriage working out so most see he statistics and don't want to try it out.

That's not to say that holds true 100% but overall I believe that's the issue. Some straight up hate the idea all together.

I live with my grandparents and they've been married for more than 40 years, their love is what I'm striving for

 

[TheBigBopper]

as if your not gonna age.

You'll spend 100% of your success tricking on hoes. Then when you become old and sexually unappealing you won't have any exhausting kids to take care of you, or carry on your legacy/memory.

I don't give a damn if I'm gonna age. I can just buy a younger woman who will fukk me.

 

[TheBigBopper]

If you'd like everybody else to raise your kids fine. They wouldn't have a mother or a father, but they'd sure love their nany. Everybody knows this isn't an ideal upbringing for kids, but to each his own

If I had kids, I wouldn't care if they love me. I'd just care if they're getting into Harvard or not

 

[Buckeye Fever]

I been divorced once, now on my 2nd and FINAL marriage. Im not on the "no marriage" tip, but it aint right to criticize those who are.

I'll be 34 in 70 days

 

[MikelArteta]

Again, if you wanna be married, it's always the worst case scenario...



I'm actually glad @His_Excellence_Reincar chimed in with his usual (sometimes, sobering ) trollin'.

I do think relationships are in the middle of a weird transition. After battling with him, on SOHH, he finally made the best case for his outlook; marriage ain't issue, marriage in Western society is.

Look, America is all I know. I don't know if marriage is better, in other places. I just don't like the way relationships, seem, to go, nowadays. This is total theory; we are caught in between our parent's way and this new-age-tech-all-you-can-eat-right-now-way and it's causes too much conflict.

I'm 24 now, but, I really think I way need to "wait out the storm" on this. For the first time in my life (me simpin' Alysha, in the 11th grade don't count) I really want to be in a relationship. But, I don't wanna get stuck with an old-school-pay-for-everything-type, nor one these get-with-the-times-it's-2013 types either.

I'm not perfect, but, I know better than to think I can require a woman to be bare foot and pregnant and keep up a 30+ hour a week job or run a from home business.

I don't know what to do, now. I guess I just have to get out there.

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you want to be in a relationship? then go to pof or something, odds are you will cheat or be cheated on, get played or manipulated and it will end horribly.

 

[Wise]

I think whats worse than no marriage is being married but not having kids (and both partners have the ability to create)

That never made sense to me, dont get married in that situation then lol.

 

[MN Fats]

That's not the worst case scenario that's typical. A man buys an engagement ring the couple has a wedding and the woman leaves the workforce to raise the kids. That's standard issue marriage.

No...it isn't. More women with kids are in the workforce than there are moms who are not.