Who’s wrong in this situation?

[Colicat]

Any money the mother earns or receives from whoever is HERS to provide for HER CHILDREN(all of them) as she sees fit.

Do y’all expect it to go like “ well your daddy gave me 500 this month so you eat steak, and your father only gave me 10 dollars this month so you’ll just eat bacon bits little jimmy”

No but she should have coughed up the money for their supplies if the other two fathers didn’t. Not split the money...

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

If his kid the youngest.

Than he knew the situation.

Its wrong to dog out the other 2 kids

 

[Token]

If he's that mad over $600 he should try to get custody of his kid

 

[JesusFOREVER]

Mom wanted all her kids to have shyt, so what?

Dude getting mad over 600 dollars did you want her to buy your kid the whole mall?

 

[Gold]

lesson learned.
Next time buy them school supplies directly for your seed and write his name all over it in big ass letters.


She's untrustworthy

 

[Diondon]

Here's the thing, dude gave her $600, thinking his kid gon be straight for a minute.
In reality the kid only got $200
So guess who gon get hit back up sooner than they expected/planned/budgeted?
It's a wack situation that dudes need to avoid like the plague.

 

[Jerz]

You gotta know when you hand her money, she gonna spend however she chose. The only way to make sure child is gettin what it needs, is for you to buy it, and hold on to the receipt.

 

[Taadow]

I can see both sides....

Dude isn’t on the hook for providing for kids that aren’t his.

Ain’t like the mom spent the money on shoes or an iPhone. She made sure all her kids had at least some supplies to start the school year.

Yep.

...but even if she did spend the money on shoes or an iPhone, tough break.
Once you give money to somebody else to spend, it ain't yours anymore.

And as a Baby Daddy, he already has undeniable proof he can't trust her with his valuable things.

 

[Keepya onya toes]

He could always go for custody, but we all know giving 600 is easier.

I have zero sympathy, if he wants his child treated differently from their siblings again read above.

If you don't want these problems fellas, strap up, man up or get up.

 

[Ahadi]

A girl in the fb comments said “if he was a REAL MAN he wouldn’t have a problem with this” I’m like he is a real man because he’s taking care of HIS kid.

100%

 

[IrateMastermind]

the father... is actin like a kid..

the mother is bein a sacrificing adult..

Fathers more to blame but she should know her baby daddy. Communication is the key to adulthood. Sometimes you gotta have a uncomfortable conversation. She should’ve been upfront about what she was gonna do with the money.

 

[Big Boss]

Is his kid the oldest??

 

[Diondon]

And she can easily put them two other bum nikkas on child support.

 

[Ashley Banks]

@Ashley Banks

Wyd?

Watching my husband give our son a bath. I would do it but I can’t bend down or squat for too long anymore.

 

[Auger]

Mom wanted all her kids to have shyt, so what?

Dude getting mad over 600 dollars did you want her to buy your kid the whole mall?

Well I dunno save it for other needs when they arise?

And for all of you saying the father should take his child shopping himself, as soon as the child get home you best believe some of those things are getting shared.