Why are African women so :mjpls: towards AA men

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I'll be honest, and not sugar coat. It really depends on what type of family she is from. I'll give you three types, but I am Nigerian so I can't really speak for all Africans.

1. An elitist African family that believes that all Africans/their tribe is better. 9 times out of 10 she won't even be with a man of a different tribe.In this case the family prefers their daughter be with a black man over a non black man. If you come to a family party they will look at you weird for not knowing how to eat certain dishes.

2. They were raised around white people. There is a good chance she will end up with a non black man, and her family will be happy. I've seen a few (very few) African families proud that their daughter is with a non black man. This is very rare from what I have seen, but I have seen it before.

3. Then there are African families that are proud of their heritage, but they have no problem with their daughters being with a non African man. They don't really care as long as the daughter remembers her culture and teaches it to the children she and her family has. My family is like this. My parents don't care as long as he is black. They are more interested in the type of man he is.

Most of the Africans I know are with African-Americans, Africans, or Afro-Caribbean people.


Oh and the Africans who don't want to be with African Americans have a stuck up attitude. They believe that they are better. I've seen this in some Africans regardless of the country they are from.

I guess this is what it is. African women are beautiful, it frustrates me that aa men don't have access to them that we should
 

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Yall catz must be ugly ass dirt because I never had that problem or yall have to be hella weird. I'll just say yall are just hella weird; because nobody is really ugly, that's black. My last girlfriend was ethopian (born there and came to the states when she was 12) and I messed with a couple of african chicks.

One thing is that don't try to dirty mack and try to mess with all of the same females from the same country; because they usually know each other. My ex took me to her homegirls birthday party and a couple of weeks later I was at the mall and some random ethopian chick was like your ________ boyfriend. I was like wtf; shyt made me low key paranoid lol. I knew dirty macking was not an option.
 

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Yall catz must be ugly ass dirt because I never had that problem or yall have to be hella weird. I'll jist say yall are just hella weird. My last girlfriend was ethopian (born there and came to the states when she was 12) and I messed with a couple of african chicks.

One thing is that don't try to dirty mack and try to mess with all of the same females from the same country; because they usually know each other. My ex took me to her homegirls birthday party and a couple of weeks later I was at the mall and some random ethopian chick was like your ________ boyfriend. I was like wtf; shyt made me low key paranoid lol. I knew dirty macking was not an option.

:dead: especially when we are from the same country we will find each other some way.

When I worked at a call center we had to do ice breakers and introduce ourselves. My new coworker came up to me during lunch break, and asked if I know Ngozi so and so. LOL it turns out I knew her.
 

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Africa is pretty big. But west african women in my experience because they are my women aren't impressed by many things held valuable here. Especially if she holds her culture. If she's Americanized, she normally is ostracized by the African American community and tend to go on the Caucasian band wagon.

But in my experience west african women are treated very well by their men, why would they need to feel to venture out? Lol but if you meet a women from Nigeria if she's from the south she's generally Christian and more willing and open to dating African American men. If she's from the north she's generally muslim and won't mess with you.
As far as the other countries I have no idea. Good luck
 

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east africans look more like cacs/indians
heavy on that:mjpls:
 

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Africa is pretty big. But west african women in my experience because they are my women aren't impressed by many things held valuable here. Especially if she holds her culture. If she's Americanized, she normally is ostracized by the African American community and tend to go on the Caucasian band wagon.

But in my experience west african women are treated very well by their men, why would they need to feel to venture out? Lol but if you meet a women from Nigeria if she's from the south she's generally Christian and more willing and open to dating African American men. If she's from the north she's generally muslim and won't mess with you.
As far as the other countries I have no idea. Good luck

I can agree with that. being West African myself certain things held as value in America I'm not impressed by. Don't get me wrong, I was raised in America, but my parents raised me. They weren't materialistic. Give me $200 for a shopping spree and I'll be super happy. Some people feel like that's not enough.

Yes for some reason people think most African women are being beat to death by the men in Africa. Of course abusive men exist in Africa. but it's not a misogynistic "I hate women" environment. At least from what I've seen. I know both Christian and Muslim Nigerians. The Christians are definitely way more open.
 
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