Why are men expected to provide and protect?

[Black Sinatra]

Let's put it this way...

If you don't wish to provide or protect something...you really don't expect to keep it. You don't really even want it. So the real question exposes you. The things we don't want are usually things that we fear or things we cannot protect or provide for. So you could be acknowledging a capability shortcoming. If so....understood then.

 

[UberEatsDriver]

I honestly feel like that way of thinking is outdated.

I have no desire to spend my money or put my life at risk for some woman

It is outdated. None of these things exist in Indian, white and Asian American households.

I observe these people all the time and these days most races in the western world view marriage and relationship as a partnership.

Black folks still having gender role debates

 

[HarlemHottie]

I'm not college age. I'm 25 and going back to school.

I was making 70,000 at 24 before I decided to switch careers.

This is what I meant by being Alfred to somebody batman. You going well and above the average and respect to you. Talk to the young ones. To many think being present and fukking constitutes they half of a relationship.

I just want more men to stop being cheap with they love.

And I already do what you saying. I try to talk to multiple women to try to get my dikk game A-1. But the hunt for future wifey remains constant.

My private life is not enough to make the point online, but irl, every woman I know has benefited from my realizations. I said it before on here, chicks who don't even like me come to me humble and I help. bytches getting married and finding nice dudes and shyt.

You're doing what you can, then. But let me suggest one thing. I don't get the impression you're ready to settle down, but when you are, according to my reading of the current era, don't look for a ready-made baddie. Look for low key sm. Zero sm means she's hiding something. Look for a light sm footprint and good bones, but most importantly, a willingness to make you happy. Improve her as she improves you, but always stay ahead.

 

[Hoodoo Child]

Prynce, I'm gonna honest with you cuh..Brotha to brotha, pimp to pimp. I think it's best if you just stay single and date. I agree with the notion that, relationships in this day and age are a lost cause for men, and most of these broads don't bring shyt to the table, BUT Man was destined to protect & provide. Our bodies were literally made for War & Order. That's just the way it is

However, as a Man, you have the God given right to CHOOSE who to protect and who to provide for. You can't be shamed for that

 

[Eddy Gordo]

Let's put it this way...

If you don't wish to provide or protect something...you really don't expect to keep it. You don't really even want it. So the real question exposes you. The things we don't want are usually things that we fear or things we cannot protect or provide for. So you could be acknowledging a capability shortcoming. If so....understood then.

Does this apply to black men and the black community at large. Because we definitely don't protect and provide for it as a collective.

My private life is not enough to make the point online, but irl, every woman I know has benefited from my realizations. I said it before on here, chicks who don't even like me come to me humble and I help. bytches getting married and finding nice dudes and shyt.

You're doing what you can, then. But let me suggest one thing. I don't get the impression you're ready to settle down, but when you are, according to my reading of the current era, don't look for a ready-made baddie. Look for low key sm. Zero sm means she's hiding something. Look for a light sm footprint and good bones, but most importantly, a willingness to make you happy. Improve her as she improves you, but always stay ahead.

Yo you making me miss my ex.

I will find another trooper though. It's like digging through a mountain of trash though.

 

[Arithmetic]

All that means is black men not racking up student debt, shyt gonna be spooky next decade

 

[HarlemHottie]

Yo you making me miss my ex.

I will find another trooper though. It's like digging through a mountain of trash though.

You #pawgset, tho.

You'll find her, but not where you expect. She might not come in the package you expect either, but I've seen two recent cases where the woman stepped her fitness game up after she got settled, with due encouragement, ofc.

 

[Coli Bot]

You haven't met a woman that makes you want to do it.

And if you never meet said woman OP... then you are right you don't have to and shouldn't have to do shyt.

If your gonna have a MGTOW personality just keep it to Yourself because people hate it. I.e. Ghost in plain sight.

 

[Mowgli]

Women are already allegedly outpacing men. Men will always think and most of creative forces in society that really drove it were single and didn't have sex. Issac Newton. Most men who have families and are providers are unextrodinary, history tells us. No man who has reduced himself to a utlitiy. has ever done anything of merit.

The world is controlled by strong families but that sounds good to people who don't read.

 

[Curufinwe]

Because female get pregant and the male need to provide and protect his genes/legacy.



2019 betaboys cannot think byond whining and being beta

 

[Serious]

So your 8 months pregnant wife is waddling to the car and someone runs up to her and tries to cut the baby out of her stomach, you gonna be like “not risking my life protecting some woman” and run the other way?

Took 179 posts for someone to bring up the most obvious point.

Reproduction.

The reason why men are the biological "protectors" is because women are such a vulnerable state, during pregnancy.

 

[Serious]

On the flip side of that, there were a number of societies where women took on multiple husbands.

 

[hatealot]

Took 179 posts for someone to bring up the most obvious point.

Reproduction.

The reason why men are the biological "protectors" is because women are such a vulnerable state, during pregnancy.

Same instinct applies across the board why women who have sex with multiple men if they arent apart of the whore caste is shunned upon . Women are liabilities by nature and men are assets. Atleast when women are casted out as whores then their children can be wards of the state and they become the governing class properties.

 

[Serious]

Dudes questioning what women bring to relationships.

If a dude is on his grind and got his tangibles in order. What makes p*ssy ( something every other bytch got) equal to my years of growth, tangibles, struggle, and self improvement.

So we trying to figure out by what standard we need to evaluate women by in the future.

Sex alone isn't, equivalent nor an even trade off.

That's why i value the whole package centered around what a woman adds to my life.

 

[Serious]

Same instinct applies across the board why women who have sex with multiple men if they arent apart of the whore caste is shunned upon . Women are liabilities by nature and men are assets. Atleast when women are casted out as whores then their children can be wards of the state and they become the governing class properties.

Man look, you on some whole other shyt right now. So I'll just concede.