Why are men expected to provide and protect?

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What happens exactly?
Society won't grow as quickly and women will outpace men to greater degree since they have no longer have a protector while the remainder of women see the super aggressive type as the prime example of what a man represents leaving the majority of average and lame dudes dry dikked and or emasculated by powerful women.
 

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But the issue becomes when a woman expects me to do those things based on me being a man. Like I owe her something cause she chooses to pay me attention.
This is the convo we need to have. This board is a case study on men who feel their worth is decided this way and the other half of the people are folks who defend this because they have benefited from this status quo. And I ain't talking about women either.


Op is asking an existential question. What am I defined by is it who I am or what I can provide. Am I a person or a utility?
No one answering these questions seem to understand that. But everyone should.

Bravo young man. :salute:
 

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if the gun toting gang banging neighbor saw u walking by and grabbed your ass and said "damn my nikka u looking thick" would u fight him?

clearly, there are circumstances you'd feel ok fighting the dude behind. if i'm not want of them, then you not my man. i don't even think in this scenario most women would let u actually go fight, they'd stop u at the door. but the guy would at least have to show a willingness to protect her


u thick...:dead:


I agree with the stopping point. Most sensible women wouldn't want you to confront a stone cold killer and would stop you. But as a man, it should be your instinct to do something..even if your intellect prevails and talks you out of it.
 
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Society won't grow as quickly and women will outpace men to greater degree since they have no longer have a protector while the remainder of women see the super aggressive type as the prime example of what a man represents leaving the majority of average and lame dudes dry dikked and or emasculated by powerful women.

This is already happening.
 

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Not when that is all you are reduced to.

Didn’t say that’s all you are but it should be the most important. How can you expect respect from your wife/girlfriend by not being a provider.
Why provide when she can make more money than you? :heh:


Maybe I was wrong with adding protector. Cause I would protect somebody I cared about

:comeon:She’s still a female my nikka. You really having your girl pay the bills?

I’m not being disrespectful but can you honestly live with yourself with your girl paying the bills?
 

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This is the convo we need to have. This board is a case study on men who feel their worth is decided this way and the other half of the people are folks who defend this because they have benefited from this status quo. And I ain't talking about women either.


Op is asking an existential question. What am I defined by is it who I am or what I can provide. Am I a person or a utility?
No one answering these questions seem to understand that. But everyone should.

Bravo young man. :salute:
damn...

You get me :wow:

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Thats not a good trade

Good or bad is irrelevant. That's just the way things are. Every human society basically follows the same rules. The men who gets the best/most women are the ones who can provide the most or have the most masculine traits (i.e. height/strength) to protect them.

If you can't provide or protect a woman then you ain't gonna get no p*ssy.
 

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Society won't grow as quickly and women will outpace men to greater degree since they have no longer have a protector while the remainder of women see the super aggressive type as the prime example of what a man represents leaving the majority of average and lame dudes dry dikked and or emasculated by powerful women.
Women are already allegedly outpacing men. Men will always think and most of creative forces in society that really drove it were single and didn't have sex. Issac Newton. Most men who have families and are providers are unextrodinary, history tells us. No man who has reduced himself to a utlitiy. has ever done anything of merit.
 
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I was having a convo with these ladies and they all said it was a man's job to take care of them

And When I asked what they were gonna do, they all said was have sex and give him kids

I honestly don't think thats a even trade

Well considering sex is what drives us as men, then that's a pretty good trade of.
 

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Didn’t say that’s all you are but it should be the most important. How can you expect respect from your wife/girlfriend by not being a provider.


:comeon:She’s still a female my nikka. You really having your girl pay the bills?

I’m not being disrespectful but can you honestly live with yourself with your girl paying the bills?
yes I can
 
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