Why are men expected to provide and protect?

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this is hilarious...fukking hilarious
 

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A lot of these responses are logical fallacies. They're attempting to appeal to some perceived shared ethics instead of actually answering OP. They also attempt to appeal to some sentimentality that OP may not have. @Prynce you the young homie, but you should ask this question to people who might think a little more critically.


If I were to answer on the side of pro-provider , I would probably tell you the only thing you owe to the human race is to perpetuate it by procreating. The best way to do that is protect the being that carries your offspring, a woman so that your child is nurtured and taken care of. I'm of a more nihilistic bent so Imma tell you this. None of these people care about your happiness not even me. None of us can tell you what makes you happy, we can only defend our view points. You must live for you. Believe in yourself.
 

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OP should’ve left protector out of the title, it would’ve made for better convo. I’ve witnessed many homeboys play that take care of my woman role (financially) only to get nothing out of it. So much money lost over the years. Not to mention the #1 thing black females brag about these days is being educated, well if you’re that educated why do you need a man to provide for you? Shouldn’t it be an equal partnership?
Let's have that convo.
 

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I was having a convo with these ladies and they all said it was a man's job to take care of them

And When I asked what they were gonna do, they all said was have sex and give him kids

I honestly don't think thats a even trade

Pretty sure those women don't represent all women
 

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So what do you think your role is, besides f*cking if you have a significant other? (Real question, not trolling)
A partner and friend

I don't mind helping out my woman and of course im gonna protect my kids

But the issue becomes when a woman expects me to do those things based on me being a man. Like I owe her something cause she chooses to pay me attention.
A woman's company isn't worth giving up my life in my head

A lot of women feel they shouldn't do shyt than be in house sex and a mother
I just expect more out of a person. I wouldn't be friends with a bum ass nikka who doesn't do shyt for me. Why do it with a woman?
 

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Modern day feminism makes some women so unlikable that many men don’t see them as worth protecting or providing for
I can co-sign that that’s why you should ignore them ( the feminist type) But if you’re with a female and don’t want to be a provider or protector

:hubie: You Can’t call yourself a man.
 
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