Why are men expected to provide and protect?

[GreenGhxst]

Why should women be with us if we cant protect? ... providing may be a bit outdated because nowadays it isn't abnormal for the woman to make more money than the man. But if you cant and dont want to protect the woman you're with what's the point of being with them

 

[Ol’Otis]

Think of it like this. You in the crib with your girl and there’s a spider. You gonna curl up in a ball and ask her to get it? You hear a strange sound in the house at night you gonna ask her to check it out while you stay wrapped up in a comforter?

 

[Swagnificent]

I honestly feel like that way of thinking is outdated.

I have no desire to spend my money or put my life at risk for some woman

I'm guessing you not a fan of p*ssy and to be more specific quality p*ssy.

Women chase men with wealth and clout. If you ain't got that then you ain't gonna get the best of what this world has to offer.

The trade off is pretty simple. Women give you sex for providing them with a comfortable life. And the badder the bytch the more she expects.

It is what it is.

 

[Umoja]

People are treating responsibility like the plague these days

One day it is "we need to give to the community" the next it is "I don't see why I should have to be the provider".

 

[Prynce]

that's some selfish thinking

I don't think it is

 

[BmoreGorilla]

 

[Neuromancer]

Do what makes you happy. Most women don't want men to be happy anyway.

 

[Ya' Cousin Cleon]

i mean, if you're not a parent, or you got a woman I'd think it'd be hard for you to do so.

I don't think it is

 

[Mowgli]

I honestly feel like that way of thinking is outdated.

I have no desire to spend my money or put my life at risk for some woman

Watch what happens in a society we're only the alpha males protect women and everyone else turns a blind eye to what happens to them

Honestly it's biological. When I hear my daughter cry there's just something in me that wants to make sure she's okay to a greater degree than my son.

If you see no value in protecting women then something probably happened to you. It ain't normal

 

[jackson35]

I honestly feel like that way of thinking is outdated.

I have no desire to spend my money or put my life at risk for some woman

you don't have to protect them, there are plenty of shaka zulu that will protect them

 

[Cynic]

Damned if you damned if you don't

Do as you fit. I'd rather provide and protect myself from financial and mental risks.

 

[sayyestothis]

Cause caring for, providing and holding down a whole family unit feels better than anything.

U should try it instead of being a selfish nobody...

 

[Neuromancer]

Watch what happens in a society we're only the alpha males protect women and everyone else turns a blind eye to what happens to them

What happens exactly?

 

[Prynce]

So it's silly to feel good to provide for someone you love? Your family? I would love for my family to not have to worry about money and I'm not even a man. Sounds like you just don't have a nurturing spirit. Why shyt on others who value their personal relationships and the personal wealth fare of those they love?

The fact that you equate women to dogs is crazy.

I didn't have a family growing up

I just find it weird to take pride in other people

 

[Prynce]

That's how primates live, it's in our nature.

No they dont