Why are men expected to provide and protect?

[MikelArteta]

I’ll be first in the lifeboat like billy danze

Be a good alpha real man and die and let fully able Katie ledecky take your spot breh

 

[Prynce]

First and foremost why would you be giving and get nothing in return? That is foolish.

You seem to lack understanding in the concept of team work or mutual benefits.

And I will ask again since you didn't answer the question. Would you want to be in a relationship with a woman who would not have sex but made you feel good? Would you want to be in a relationship with a woman who was only interested in the good times and didn't stick around for the bad?

YOU define your relationship based on solely exchanging "good feelings." Cool. If that is the case then sex shouldn't be a requirement, commitment shouldn't be a requirement, exclusivity shouldn't be a requirement and so on.

But I'm absolutely sure you have requirements for a woman you desire to be with that goes beyond "feeling good."

If you want to know why relationship requirements go beyond good feelings just ask yourself why your own personal requirements go beyond feelings.

You have sexual needs right?
I got the need to feel like if I fall the other person will help me out?
You want loyalty right?
I want to know that the person I'm with will stand up for me.

This thread is mad juvenal. You over here act like this shyt ain't struggle. You acting like team work doesn't get shyt done. You wanna be on a team you need to bring value just like the person you with needs to bring value. Fairytales and sunshine ain't gonna cut it.

Sex is like the tires on a car for me. Yes you need tires to drive but it ain't the entire car. Sex is important for a relationship but it's not the end all or be all for being with a woman.

I would rather a woman who I can trust fully and that I can use to help reach my goals(vice versa for her).
I look at a relationship as a partnership and I wouldn't deal with any woman who would skip out on me if I fell off as a man.

Those things you listed are apart of feeling good about a woman for me. Knowing that she is a solid individual.

You're also listening things you want in a man that I want in a woman. I want a woman who will help me out too and who will defend my name.

My problem is with a woman falling in love with me because I did well for myself and her only seeing me as a provider.
She gotta fukk with the man I am.

 

[Prynce]

Tbh, I almost don't understand the premise of the thread. Women work now. Most middle class women do expect to stay home when the kids are little, but surely, you understand that, right?

What are you really talking about?

Why do women in 2019 with equality and rights expect men to provide for them?
And some women have that requirement when you start dating them and they not even your wife or has done anything to be treated that way

Also do you feel every woman should be provided for? no matter what?

Also ain't no staying home bih. She has to work...

 

[HarlemHottie]

Why do women in 2019 with equality and rights expect men to provide for them?
And some women have that requirement when you start dating them and they not even your wife or has done anything to be treated that way

Also do you feel every woman should be provided for? no matter what?

Also ain't no staying home bih. She has to work...

You talking to the wrong one, I stay at home.
But that's my life, and we're talking about you. So no, afaik, women don't really expect provision anymore. You counting dates?

 

[Eddy Gordo]

Tbh, I almost don't understand the premise of the thread. Women work now. Most middle class women do expect to stay home when the kids are little, but surely, you understand that, right?

What are you really talking about?

Dudes questioning what women bring to relationships.

If a dude is on his grind and got his tangibles in order. What makes p*ssy ( something every other bytch got) equal to my years of growth, tangibles, struggle, and self improvement.

So we trying to figure out by what standard we need to evaluate women by in the future.

 

[Prynce]

You talking to the wrong one, I stay at home.
But that's my life, and we're talking about you. So no, afaik, women don't really expect provision anymore. You counting dates?

Girlfriends don't get that treatment off top

and a lot of women do. I was shocked

 

[13473]

I would rather give my last to my homeboy who been my dawg since elementary than a woman I met as an adult

so you're willing to financially support a man but not your woman

 

[KreativeNik]

lol Just say you wanna be single. This question is stupid

 

[HarlemHottie]

Dudes questioning what women bring to relationships.

If a dude is on his grind and got his tangibles in order. What makes p*ssy ( something every other bytch got) equal to my years of growth, tangibles, struggle, and self improvement.

So we trying to figure out by what standard we need to evaluate women by in the future.

Oh, ok, that makes sense. Some questions, then.

1. Are the women you deal with only providing p*ssy?

2. If so, what else would you need to make provision seem fair in your opinion?

 

[Prynce]

Dudes questioning what women bring to relationships.

If a dude is on his grind and got his tangibles in order. What makes p*ssy ( something every other bytch got) equal to my years of growth, tangibles, struggle, and self improvement.

So we trying to figure out by what standard we need to evaluate women by in the future.

basically ...

I don't think sex and a chick having my children is equal to all the work I've put in to better myself ...
Some feel you owe them your hard earned money because they choose to fukk you

 

[HarlemHottie]

Girlfriends don't get that treatment off top

and a lot of women do. I was shocked

What treatment specifically?

 

[Prynce]

so you're willing to financially support a man but not your woman

My breh fought with me and been there my at my darkest times. with no judgement to me as a man

 

[Prynce]

What treatment specifically?

Women that want you to provide for them and get wifey treatment without bringing anything to the table other than sex or some other feminine energy bs

Some shyt like "My feminine energy natural calms you down and makes your masculine energy at peace. That's why you should make me feel provided for and secure because I give you balance "
I've heard that before too

 

[HarlemHottie]

Women that want you to provide for them and get wifey treatment without bringing anything to the table other than sex or some other feminine energy bs

Some shyt like "My feminine energy natural calms you down and makes your masculine energy at peace. That's why you should make me feel provided for and secure because I give you balance "
I've heard that before too

These are bytches you just met/ been dating for a minute? Do they cook? Clean? Do they have any attribute besides how they look? Explain this craziness please.

Ftr, I work hard.

 

[13473]

My breh fought with me and been there my at my darkest times. with no judgement to me as a man

so you feel more comfortable with the standards/rules of male-male relations than male-female ones?

i do not think the judgments friends and romantic partners are the same, and i'd drop a friend i felt was judging me based on romantic standards. i'm not her girlfriend.