Why are men expected to provide and protect?

[The Wolf Among You]

so you feel more comfortable in male-male relations than male-female ones?

Just call him gay and stop beating around the bush.

 

[Prynce]

so you feel more comfortable in male-male relations than male-female ones?

No ....

I'm saying that men are more genuine in their interaction with each other. It seems to me alot of interactions with women is this weird social game were they try to change or gain from each other and use weird manipulation tricks to reach those ends.

 

[Prynce]

These are bytches you just met/ been dating for a minute? Do they cook? Clean? Do they have any attribute besides how they look? Explain this craziness please.

Ftr, I work hard.

Just met. You know that early talking phase where people share their ideas of what they looking for in a partner lol. they don't do shyt for me but weirdly expect to get cuffed cause their pretty lol.
That was a response I got when I ask what do women bring to the table? After she expressed that to me.

 

[AAKing23]

Why do women in 2019 with equality and rights expect men to provide for them?
And some women have that requirement when you start dating them and they not even your wife or has done anything to be treated that way

Also do you feel every woman should be provided for? no matter what?

Also ain't no staying home bih. She has to work...

Because despite what they say they enjoy certain benefits of the same patriarchal system they claim is oppressing them.


Notice most people in this thread are not answering logically and are just saying "Because men are supposed to do it" and calling you less than a man, all because you're challenging a social construct we've all been convinced to believe

 

[13473]

No ....

I'm saying that men are more genuine in their interaction with each other. It seems to me alot of interactions with women is this weird social game were they try to change or gain from each other and use weird manipulation tricks to reach those ends.

ok but why would u get into a relationship with a woman who was manipulative and not genuine with you? i don't understand why you're even considering those types of women into your decision not to provide or protect.

 

[HarlemHottie]

Just met. You know that early talking phase where people share their ideas of what they looking for in a partner lol. they don't do shyt for me but weirdly expect to get cuffed cause their pretty lol.
That was a response I got when I ask what do women bring to the table? After she expressed that to me.

That's completely out of pocket. Cross her off the list and move along. It's perfectly reasonable to expect more.

 

[Prynce]

ok but why would u get into a relationship with a woman who was manipulative and not genuine with you? i don't understand why you're even considering those types of women into your decision not to provide or protect.

most women play that game it seems

 

[Eddy Gordo]

Oh, ok, that makes sense. Some questions, then.

1. Are the women you deal with only providing p*ssy?

2. If so, what else would you need to make provision seem fair in your opinion?

1. I am not back on my feet yet. Still kinda the broke college student.

So yes MOST women I deal with only provide p*ssy because that's all they got. I am looking for a partner type now so I don't have to deal with females looking for utilities later.

2. If I'm financially set. On some real shyt there is no real way for it to be fair. Unless she Alfred to my Batman nothing she doing is equivalent to what I'm doing.

But you asking the wrong one. I can't justify paying a grown ass adults way unless it was previously done for me.

 

[jwonder]

Yeah I agree well just with the provider part. It was understood back in the day because women did not work. Women work now so I don't understand how they get to sit on their funky ass all day and do nothing. But even more some women make more than men. So why should you be the provider in that situation also?

I tell women quick I need some one to build with, not a financial liability. I can do bad by myself.

 

[jwonder]

I don't think most women expect not to work now a days but you should be able to contribute. That's too much to ask?

Most women in America are trying to get that dude that will pay so they don't have to work. Such a self entitled way of thinking. A lot of women are lazy and want a free ride. Or shyt even if they do work they still want you to pay for everything. Like she wasn't paying things for herself before she met you.

 

[HarlemHottie]

1. I am not back on my feet yet. Still kinda the broke college student.

So yes MOST women I deal with only provide p*ssy because that's all they got. I am looking for a partner type now so I don't have to deal with females looking for utilities later.

2. If I'm financially set. On some real shyt there is no real way for it to be fair. Unless she Alfred to my Batman nothing she doing is equivalent to what I'm doing.

But you asking the wrong one. I can't justify paying a grown ass adults way unless it was previously done for me.

If you're college-age, there's no reason to even be considering this rn.

There were a lot of extenuating circumstances in my situation, but what ultimately made him stick with this format was that he felt I was more valuable at home. I do a lot now, but at the time, all I evinced was a willingness to learn. I didn't have the homemaker skill-set bc I wasn't raised to be a homemaker. Most of us Millenial and later women weren't. But I grew in my role, as did he as 'head of household.' When he lost his job, I finessed the household budget down to 56% of what it was, with very little change in quality of life. Yes, I used my 'feminine energy' lol to keep him calm and maintaining. I build furniture and cook our meals from scratch and keep everybody happy (including the dog). The other day he asked me some background on what was happening in Iran. I asked him to give me 20 min and gave him a 5000 yr history. I do this on all subjects. You can build your household as you see fit.

A woman can be a gift. You just have to choose wisely. Consider it like this. When I was dating, I thought of it as interviewing candidates for a job. I had a job description. Looks were base level. Keep a loose harem for fukking (meaning, don't fukk any one person too regular) and interview when you feel ready. Easy.

 

[Eddy Gordo]

If you're college-age, there's no reason to even be considering this rn.

There were a lot of extenuating circumstances in my situation, but what ultimately made him stick with this format was that he felt I was more valuable at home. I do a lot now, but at the time, all I evinced was a willingness to learn. I didn't have the homemaker skill-set bc I wasn't raised to be a homemaker. Most of us Millenial and later women weren't. But I grew in my role, as did he as 'head of household.' When he lost his job, I finessed the household budget down to 56% of what it was, with very little change in quality of life. Yes, I used my 'feminine energy' lol to keep him calm and maintaining. I build furniture and cook our meals from scratch and keep everybody happy (including the dog). The other day he asked me some background on what was happening in Iran. I asked him to give me 20 min and gave him a 5000 yr history. I do this on all subjects. You can build your household as you see fit.

A woman can be a gift. You just have to choose wisely. Consider it like this. When I was dating, I thought of it as interviewing candidates for a job. I had a job description. Looks were base level. Keep a loose harem for fukking (meaning, don't fukk any one person too regular) and interview when you feel ready. Easy.

I'm not college age. I'm 25 and going back to school.

I was making 70,000 at 24 before I decided to switch careers.

This is what I meant by being Alfred to somebody batman. You going well and above the average and respect to you. Talk to the young ones. To many think being present and fukking constitutes they half of a relationship.

I just want more men to stop being cheap with they love.

And I already do what you saying. I try to talk to multiple women to try to get my dikk game A-1. But the hunt for future wifey remains constant.

 

[iBrowse]

Theres no excuse not to be a protector, but it’s hard to be the sole provider in this current environment.

Source of avi please

 

[franknitty711]

soft ass millennial > some things that are thought just shouldnt be shared (typed, spoken, etc)

sucka shyt who raised this kid?

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

I don't mind protecting or providing, any dude who says otherwise is an incel.

I'll be damned if some bum broad think her p*ssy is all she needs though. And I'll be damned yo settle with some broad who been partying, ran through, and had 3 abortions