Ngl, my man is VERY good at his job, a superstar. But when I came to a work event, ppl who hadn't met me already had to give him the extra. Like, 'You can afford to keep that at home?' Me, the boss' wife, and the trophy wives clique up.

Ngl, my man is VERY good at his job, a superstar. But when I came to a work event, ppl who hadn't met me already had to give him the extra. Like, 'You can afford to keep that at home?' Me, the boss' wife, and the trophy wives clique up.

Would you bush a woman whose looks faded? (naturally over time, not some she just ate and got fat shyt)Also by that logic it seems if I fall off a woman would be justified in bushing me
Breh you can't tell me women are equal to men then say men are responsible in keeping black women in relationships
It’s equality just different roles. So if I understand you correctly, viewing women as property to be defended is moral as long as she’s protected?The reason don't matter long as she's protected and provided for and it has value in maintaining the power of a family across various cultural styles.
Attempting to shame me or assassinate my character is not the same thing as making a pointBut hey if the women in your own family have no value for to you to protect for reasons of property or emotion, you've drawn your line in the sand
They can take care of themselves.![]()
Protecting women is essential to order.So if I understand you correctly, viewing women as property to be defended is moral as long as she’s protected?
Attempting to shame me or assassinate my character is not the same thing as making a point
It’s equality just different roles.
Men = Provides, Protect, provides leadership, father
Women = Nurture, stabilizes home, mother
That’s equal my nikka.
Currently we have saved around $175k in our savings account (we've been thinking about opening a business in the future) we've been married for 7yrs born and raised in NYC.I hate when people do this. I'm the only one talking this shyt in this thread, at least @ me.
What percentage do you save/ invest? Just out of curiosity.
re: fairytale. You make the life you want. There are some who are willing to run faster and faster on the wheel to meet their tastes and lifestyles. We work the other direction. We live a happy, peaceful life and have done so for almost 20 yrs in one of the most expensive markets in the world. I wouldn't trade that for anything. It's about priorities.
Am I shytting on your lifestyle? Why must you shyt on mine?Do you work? What kinda job do you have? Or are you playing housewife in NYC?
How? Plenty of successful matriarchal families exist, especially in the black communityProtecting women is essential to order.
Viewing women as property is not essential to protecting women.

Lol you misunderstood, I'm not shytting on you just asking an honest question...Am I shytting on your lifestyle? Why must you shyt on mine?
Matriarch doesn't mean men don't protect the women in the family.How? Plenty of successful matriarchal families exist, especially in the black community
Growing up and not seeing a functional healthy relationship leads to brehs who think like this.
Sucks because so many black people grow up in broken homes and we get a snowball effect.
Lol you misunderstood, I'm not shytting on you just asking an honest question...
So I take it that you're living a housewife lifestyle?
"Playing" implies something. We're serious people who found this worked for us. I'm not playing at shyt. 