MischievousMonkey
Gor bu dëgër
I agree with that as well, and that's because she'll be more than her looks or house responsibilities. Her spirit, her ambition, all that won't fade away like beauty.
Why are men expected to provide and protect?
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MischievousMonkey
Gor bu dëgër
Lol educated women literally talk about that everyday.That goes for both genders. Don't give these brehettes no ideas... might be a spin thread talking about why are women expected to marry down?
southern.girl
Superstar
I have a father and he was married to my mom lmao
Doesn't mean the marriage wasn't fukked up
Y'all weird as fukk with the shaming tactics
In one of my posts, I literally said that you were “either fatherless or didn’t witness a healthy relationship.”
Per your own text, I was right. I even said this AFTER you stated that you never saw a functional relationship. I’m regurgitating your own words & you are juelzing.
I'm not juelzing
You said it in a way to shade my character lol
Also most black people I would think didn't see many healthy relationships lol
HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
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I ran to go do some work. My job is 24/ 7 and, really, we're nearing the end of my available time.What do I do? Well, first off, he transitioned to working from home a few yrs ago, so I cook all three meals. (And as of yesterday, he'd like me to start making dog food as well which will save money and help maintain the health of our aging Yorkie.) Since he's home, I operate as an assistant, brining coffee, water, meals, and snacks (bc he really can't get off the desk). In addition to helping whatever way I can with his work, I have my own. 1. Normal housekeeping plus seasonal extras. It's a lot bc literally all he has to do is take out the trash and I do three meals a day worth of dishes everyday. Plus, extra bathroom maintenance bc he's not at the office. 2. Meal prep which can get extensive depending on what he wants. 3. 'Special projects' which can include anything from, as stated earlier, the entire 5000 yr history of Iran, to figuring out how to make healthy dog food with all the nutrients he needs, to him wanting me to learn Middle Eastern cuisine bc he likes lamb. That's just today. A Sunday, if you'll recall.
4. I give 1.5 days/ wk to outside errands and about half a day to budgeting, creating shopping lists, etc.I don't normally cook on the weekends, he gives me a break, but last night, I asked him which sides he wanted with the steak I had thawed out. Lo mein? Dominican rice and beans? Americana? This was a Saturday night, mind you. (He chose Italian, btw, which meant I made a sauce from scratch at 2 am.) Every year, I learn two or three whole new skills. Can be anything. Last year, it was our relocation to the country (that covers several sub categories), Chinese cuisine, furniture making, and other girly stuff that saves money. I do all this while staying slim, cute, and dtf. 24/7.
No dear, it was.
HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
No, it still is. Look at 'civilization'.
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
So basically your standards are okay but women are horrible and wrong because you feel like you know what's better for a woman to want. Your issue is feel like you should able to dictate what women should look for in a man. Cool.
We should have to adhere to your standards but not have any of our own outside of "feeling good."
Antwon Mitchell
Banned
This is cool but see you're not lazy tho to certain extents you are working, whereas other women in our community who want to be stay at home wives wouldn't even do what you're doing for him, yourself & the household...some women would scoff at everything you're doing.
What do I do? Well, first off, he transitioned to working from home a few yrs ago, so I cook all three meals. (And as of yesterday, he'd like me to start making dog food as well which will save money and help maintain the health of our aging Yorkie.) Since he's home, I operate as an assistant, brining coffee, water, meals, and snacks (bc he really can't get off the desk). In addition to helping whatever way I can with his work, I have my own. 1. Normal housekeeping plus seasonal extras. It's a lot bc literally all he has to do is take out the trash and I do three meals a day worth of dishes everyday. Plus, extra bathroom maintenance bc he's not at the office. 2. Meal prep which can get extensive depending on what he wants. 3. 'Special projects' which can include anything from, as stated earlier, the entire 5000 yr history of Iran, to figuring out how to make healthy dog food with all the nutrients he needs, to him wanting me to learn Middle Eastern cuisine bc he likes lamb. That's just today. A Sunday, if you'll recall.
I don't normally cook on the weekends, he gives me a break, but last night, I asked him which sides he wanted with the steak I had thawed out. Lo mein? Dominican rice and beans? Americana? This was a Saturday night, mind you. (He chose Italian, btw, which meant I made a sauce from scratch at 2 am.) Every year, I learn two or three whole new skills. Can be anything. Last year, it was our relocation to the country (that covers several sub categories), Chinese cuisine, furniture making, and other girly stuff that saves money. I do all this while staying slim, cute, and dtf. 24/7.
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Start the thread if you want that smoke.
Imagine the kind of numbers a post asking "Why are black women expected to provide for and sexually please their man?" would do :talibama:
Antwon Mitchell
Banned
@HarlemHottie
What kinda job does your husband have & how old are y'all also how long have y'all been married
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What kinda job does your husband have & how old are y'all also how long have y'all been married
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what a woman provides as a mother alone is worth a war
we not talking about stepping up for the whores y'all waste time on
y'all really must have no good women around y'all
nikkas sounding exactly like the reason why women need male protection in the first place
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we not talking about stepping up for the whores y'all waste time on
y'all really must have no good women around y'all
nikkas sounding exactly like the reason why women need male protection in the first place
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No, it still is. Look at 'civilization'.
Well, our "enlightened" civilization will have to find another way to advance outside of the "outdated" gender roles.