Why Are Men Who Claim "Good/Nice" Hated Sohh?

[Blackout]

Sure

I do sometimes feel bad for chicks who want a$$holes cuz its like you know they will get hurt but they still want it.

Its like watching a crack addict.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

I don't care. My point is no one can be convinced that women want decent men based on their actions. This applies to men telling other men that there are women out here who want decent men when that is certainly not the case.

Lol. There are plenty of women in faithful relationships with decent men.

Let me guess. You are a self-identifying "decent man" who can't find a decent woman. So rather than see what it is about YOU that women aren't gravitating to, you have decided that ALL women just don't want decent men, in spite of the mountains of evidence speaking to the contrary. Right or wrong?

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

I do sometimes feel bad for chicks who want a$$holes cuz its like you know they will get hurt but they still want it.

Its like watching a crack addict.

Dont feel bad for em. They are adults. Choices have consequences. Can't everybody.

 

[Blackout]

Dont feel bad for em. They are adults. Choices have consequences. Can't everybody.

If I tried to save them then Id be wasting my time and suffering as well.

You cant change someone who doesnt want to change themselves.

I just throw on some project pat and move on.

 

[Jason B]

Lol. There are plenty of women in faithful relationships with decent men.

Let me guess. You are a self-identifying "decent man" who can't find a decent woman. So rather than see what it is about YOU that women aren't gravitating to, you have decided that ALL women just don't want decent men, in spite of the mountains of evidence speaking to the contrary. Right or wrong?

I did not necesarily identify myself as a decent man. For the most part, I used to be a person who valued decency based on how I was raised. But as I got older, I realized being that way was not respected as seen individuals who would do fukk shyt get the most respect. So why be something that is not respected?

 

[PartyHeart]

I don't care. My point is no one can be convinced that women want decent men based on their actions. This applies to men telling other men that there are women out here who want decent men when that is certainly not the case.

Women didn't/don't want you because you have glaring flaws. The least of which being that you are obviously entirely incapable of any amount of self reflection and accountability. Edit: I don't say that to be mean or argumentative either, just for the purposes of a reality check you seem intent on avoiding.

It has nothing to do with you being decent or nice, the overwhelming majority of women want that. Yes, the overwhelming majority of women. That is the bare minimum. The issue arises in what other good qualities you bring to the table. Or even more importantly, what other bad qualities you might have that detract from that supposed "decency".

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

I did not necesarily identify myself as a decent man. For the most part, I used to be a person who valued decency based on how I was raised. But as I got older, I realized being that way was not respected as seen individuals who would do fukk shyt get the most respect. So why be something that is not respected?

Why are you trying to earn the respect of people who don't value decency?

 

[Dirty_Jerz]

Women putting their lives on hold to cape for jail bird type brehs because "he has alot to offer"

But that good guy who doesn't got his money all the way right is or is a little shy is at "bare minimum" status

can't make this stuff up

 

[Jason B]

Why are you trying to earn the respect of people who don't value decency?

The thing is I conducted myself with decency because I was taught that was the right way to be not to get approval from others. But when I seen how people especially women try to come at you sideways when you're that way while seeing how they had more respect for those who could care less about decency.

 

[Jason B]

Women didn't/don't want you because you have glaring flaws. The least of which being that you are obviously entirely incapable of any amount of self reflection and accountability. Edit: I don't say that to be mean or argumentative either, just for the purposes of a reality check you seem intent on avoiding.

It has nothing to do with you being decent or nice, the overwhelming majority of women want that. Yes, the overwhelming majority of women. That is the bare minimum. The issue arises in what other good qualities you bring to the table. Or even more importantly, what other bad qualities you might have that detract from that supposed "decency".

My mindset is that decency is unnecessary because I have seen how often it is been disregarded based on who women respect and associate with. Like I said I have moved away from decency and started to exhibit more of a totally assholish/bad boy behavior. And sad to say, women have more admiration and respect for the a$$hole/bad boy me than the decent me which solidifies what I'm talking about.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

The thing is I conducted myself with decency because I was taught that was the right way to be not to get approval from others. But when I seen how people especially women try to come at you sideways when you're that way while seeing how they had more respect for those who could care less about decency.

Again, why deal with women who don't respect decency? You do realize not all people are that way, right?

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Gatdamn there's a lot of Elliot Rodger ass nikkaz in here fukkin pathetic

 

[PartyHeart]

My mindset is that decency is unnecessary because I have seen how often it is been disregarded based on who women respect and associate with. Like I said I have moved away from decency and started to exhibit more of a totally assholish/bad boy behavior. And sad to say, women have more admiration and respect for the a$$hole/bad boy me than the decent me which solidifies what I'm talking about.

Unnecessary to who? Just be your own person. Don't live for anyone else.

I think a lot of "good women" also have plenty of stories to tell about being curved because we didn't put out, or go unnoticed for years because we didn't dress a certain way, or didn't have a certain attitude and on and on. Right now, talking about women who bleach is all the rage in the Black community. You don't think they started bleaching because they noticed the admiration lighter skin women were getting and they weren't? But to change who you are just to get that admiration, especially when your personal values let you know that admiration is unfounded, isn't a better solution.

 

[Neil Tyson]

Faithful nice guys are not hard to find. The chicks you talk to just say that's what they want because that is the acceptable thing to say. If they wanted faithful nice guys they wouldn't date a$$holes.

He gets it.

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

Sarcasm